Over Stimulation

Stimulation - something that arouses interest, inspiration, or incitement to action:

This morning we surprised a woman and her dog at the park. We were walking along the creekside; then headed up a hill and over. When we got to the top of the hill, there she was. Her dog immediately reacted and so did the she.

The guardian instantly yanked on her leash; yelled at her dog and made an abrupt turn and continued to yank.. The encounter caused the dog’s hair to go up from head to toe as it was clearly over stimulated by what unraveled by our presence. Too much stimulation (yelling, yanking, negative body language) can lead to things going south very quickly.

We were also startled by their presence; but I kept my chill on and reached into my treat pouch for a hanful of goodies.

Let me disect the actions of the other person and her dog.

  • Elsa, Riggs and I appeared over the top of a hill.

  • The other dog reacted immediately.

  • Guardian reacted to her dog’s reaction and choked up on her leash.

  • Prong collar engaged, delivering the message of pain at the sight of other dogs.

  • Guardian yelled at her dog, another message to the dog about what happens in the presence of other dogs.

  • Guardian made an abrupt u-turn causing another prong collar pain delivery.

  • All of this will cause the dog to react sooner or worse next time.

So the dog is left with an understanding of what happens when other dog’s walk by. This is such a common scenario and can be very difficult to fully explain and have guardians understand it. It is a step by step responsive negative association. So what was happening on our side of the situation?

  • We crested the top of the hill and saw the other dog and his guardian.

  • Witnessing what was unfolding, I immediately slipped into my “we don’t care,” mode.

  • I checked that I was giving off completely neutral vibes.

  • I immediately praised them for remaining calm. It is important to connect.

  • I reached into my treat bag to reinforce the calm “who cares?” vibe.

  • Both Elsa and Riggs looked to me for guidance.

  • In my best “chill Mom” vibe, they responded the same.

This is how you deal with reactivity. When we yank on our dogs, yell at them and panic; we are relaying the message to our dog’s that this is a panic situation. Having your dog’s back and making sure that they know that you have their back is important. They need to know that there is nothing to worry about; you’ve got it covered.

Of course there are different levels or reactivity which can require more time, more space and a multitude of tactics to get to the point that you are both calm in this type of situation.

If I see any response other than observing the situation from my guys; I will often laugh to ligthen the mood tenfold. “Look at that silly dog, he’s kind of funny,” I chime while giggling to my two. This not only helps them, but it helps you to remain calm. If you see that all dog’s are leashed; the other person seems to be physically capable of holding onto their dog, then relax.

k9 Communications

Canines communicate very differently than we do. I have written about this subject a lot, but lately a lot of people are really getting it wrong.so I’m writing about it again. Dogs are all different; in how they look, in how they communicate and the level of their visual display of emotions. Some dogs have a very low rate of visual emotions; those dogs who seem to just go through life on one level. Then there are the dogs who show an average amount of emotions; who are fairly easy to read if you know what you are reading.

Then there are the dogs like Riggs; the ones who have big feeling and wear their heart on their sleeve. Nothing goes without being said; and it is those dogs who teach us the most. On the opposite end of the scale was my girl Tilley who has been gone twelve years now. She was the silent type; not one for show and pomp unless it was something big. These type are a harder read but their communications are still there, just not so much in your face.

Riggs is very emotional. He is sensitive and has something to say about pretty much everything. Like Riggs his predecessor Luke (gone 9 years now) was demonstrative. It is funny because most humans consider dogs who complain and growl to be the tough ones, but it is actually the other way around. When a dog does not communicate openly, it is much more difficult to understand what is going on.

Dogs like Riggs are like a deep dive into k9 communication. Communications that you might miss with a low or average communicator; you definitely see or hear from a high communicator. When something happens and our dogs respond, we learn. When we want to better understand our dogs, we pay more attention, we learn. So when you have a dog that speaks louder and more often than the typical dog, you learn.

As you know I am a watcher; I’ve always been a watcher of behavior. But when I started in positive reinforcement training (30 years ago) it went to a higher level. Seeing and understanding what our dogs are saying is very important if you want to know about your dog. If you have a dog that doesn’t have much to say, then you must become an even higher level observer. Dogs communicate, all dogs do, but not all dogs communicate at the same level.

I have told this story many times when people ask about petting dogs. We were at the beach with Elsa and Riggs (maybe a year old) when a guy who was walking by reached out to say hi and pet Riggs without asking. It happened so fast that I didn’t have time to react, but Riggs did. He growled fiercely at the guy who very quickly drew his hand away. He realized his mistake in that moment as he nodded his head as I stated “he doesn’t like strangers touching him.” Riggs was simply saying “don’t touch me, I don’t know you.”

Ours dogs who do not speak up often tolerate behaviors or don’t. The whole idea of punishing growls is in the same realm of all communications. DO NOT PUNISH A GROWL, DIRECT YOUR ATTENTION TO THE CAUSE OF THE GROWL. The growl gives us information delivered through a communication about how our dogs are feeling. We then need to figure out how to create a situation where our dogs don’t feel the need to growl. (Please read this again)

Elsa growls very seldomly and when she does there is always good reason. Typically it is because she is feeling unsafe about a dog coming by us. It is either too close, she doesn’t like that it is staring at her or it just plain looks scary. I will immediately obtain space for her which is all she needs. It is completely up to her how much space is enough when she is feeling vulernable. Before a growl will often come a snort; this is her “I’m worried” communication to me. And then its up to me to make her feel protected.

I was watchiing a very bad video of a dog growling at his guardian over a food bowl before writing this blog. All the comments on the video were how the guy should hit the dog, show it who’s boss, take the food away. But in reality, dogs growl around a food bowl because they think we are going to take it. It is up to us to teach our dogs that not only do we not want their food; but if someone is around the bowl, its a great thing by adding yummy food while we walk by. It is of course a tiered process but it is one of the easier things to get rid of. BY SHOWING THEM WE DON’T WANT THEIR FOOD AND BUILDING TRUST. Not by proving them right by taking their food.

Dogs are complicated, emotional beings. They cannot use words to communicate their feelings to us; so they use what they know. It is up to us to learn how they communicate so that we can better understand. And stop thinking they are here to dominate us and be the alpha. They are doing their best, we need to do ours.

Under Construction

We are on day two of a very large renovation. This has been a longtime coming, we have been prepping for months. We are now in the thick of it; and will be without a kitchen, dining room and living room for about 3 months. This of course has thrown a curveball at our routine and we’re just figuring it all out. Lucky for us both Elsa and Riggs are pretty use to having workers around the house.

A year ago we put a new roof on our house which was the loudest procedure they’ve ever gone through. Not only did they have to remove one roof, but two. Apparently the previous owners thought it was a good (cheaper) idea to build a new roof over an old one. Not a good idea at all. So it was loud, crazy loud and we made it through; so this should be easy peasy…right?

Alot has changed. There are more stairs daily for Elsa to deal with which has been a challenge but she’s getting use to it. Feeding is different, I have no kitchen to prep. We prep in the garage and eat there or outside. But I have tried to maintain sameness as much as I possibly can. Having old dogs is very different than young or prime age dogs. Riggs just goes with the flow; even though he is a much less steady type dog.

We have lots of barriers up so we have privacy and our own space which is very important as this will be a while. I am trying to make their days pretty much the same. We were at the park early this morning; but getting to and back from our car was even different. We had to harness up and cross the road to get to our car. This is where all the important training comes in. NO JUMPING OUT UNLESS RELEASED.

Riggs is doing a bit of grumbling when he hears the workers talking close, but not alot. It takes time for everyone to adjust and something like this is by far the hardest on Miss Elsa. Her footing is the most important thing; along with her beds. She needs comfort so that she can get the much needed long hours of sleep that she needs. We have more runners around and are in the thick of our learning curve.

This being only day two I think we’re doing great. Change is hard, harder for old dogs. I remember going across the country with Jessie, Luke, Tilley and Elsa. Jessie (15.5) and Tilley (14.5) had a very tough time of it. Luke was a champ at 11 years old and Elsa was an angel at 4.5 months. It is often the act of removing familiarity that gives you the clearest vision of how an old dog is doing. In their familar surroundings they can seem to thrive; taken out, not so much.

So keeping everything as same as you can is a very important part of change for old dogs. Life is full of changes. There are small, almost unnoticeable changes all the way up to monumental changes throughout life. Keeping things familiar for our old dogs is important. So we are working on making sure that everything is great with Elsa. Riggs seems fine with it all; although he’s not a fan of losing his run of the house right now. But a large part of his house is now in shambles and very unusable.

I always say “it has to get worse before it gets better.” This is a fact right now.

Diapers and incontinence

It has gone so fast. Here she is as just a baby.

First, this is not our first rodeo with a dog in diapers. For those of you who have been following me for a longtime; you know that both Tilley and Jessie were in diapers in their senior years. We had two in diapers while my son and I made our way across the country with 4 dogs in December of 2011.

This all began just two days ago but has progressed quickly. Saturday morning as I tidied up Elsa and Riggs bed area I noticed the slight smell of pee. This was extremely unusual so I sort of had one of those big question marks over my head. Elsa came into the room and walked into her “bedroom” area. It is a corner in our room where we have three tempur pedic dog beds covered in a sheet and then covered in a fuzzy blanket. It’s super cozy and I have lay there several times in the beginning to show Riggs just how great it was. ;)

When Elsa came in she started to sniff around; and I immediately knew that there was pee on the bed then. Elsa told me. I tore off the blanket and sheet and examined the dog beds. It looked like two were wet just on the corner, so off the covers went and everything was washed and dried.

Saturday afternoon I pick up some boy underwear and pads. Something my females have worn through their heat and the beginning of incontinence over the years. We’d only noted pee in the bed once but if this was what was going to happen I wanted to be ready.

That evening my husband and I watched Muzzle with Elsa and Riggs of course. Even though the content was k9 heavy, it was just okay. Nothing to write home about. But, when the movie was over and we went to let Elsa and Riggs out for the night, there was a problem. The side of my husbands leg was wet. We tried to figure it out but it took a while. I didn’t even put the slight pee smell in the bed and the wet leg together, it was that new of a thing. Having just recovered from covid yet again, my sense of smell is not the greatest. And frankly my husband could barely detect the smell of urine. Sort of like the bed in the morning.

After a bit of investigation we figured it out. Elsa was outside taking her last pee before bed and when she came in her back leg that had been up against my husband during the movie was all wet. Elsa had leaked.

Saturday evening I cut a hole in a pair of the underwear, added two pads and put them to bed. I hoped it would be enough to keep Elsa dry; after all this had just begun so she should be good, right? Wrong.

I hoped for the best; but when we woke up the next morning, it all had to go back into the wash, everything except for one of the beds where Riggs had been. This has come on extremely fast. Before Friday morning there was no pee anywhere. In fact Elsa has been doing amazing with the uti’s that she’d been struggling with a while back. But, I did just receive the results for her extensive blood test that don’t look good.

I went back to Target and bought some human pullup diapers and some dog diapers. I’m looking into better ones so if anyone knows a brand that actually stay on and are very absorbent, please let me know. The pull ups have been the best so far. The dog diapers tend to undo and fall off which is useless. But after she got up this morning with her pullup still on and intact; it was clear why the underwear and small pads were not enough. The diaper was completely full and weighed a ton.

She has gone from no peeing ever to full on peeing at night. She seems good during the day so far; I’m doing lots of lift and look. I don’t want her to have to wear a diaper if she doesn’t need it during the day.

The reason we went to the vet a couple of weeks ago was that she was drinking a lot more water as of late. As well as her throat thing which I discussed on instagram. She is dealing with a lot right now; more than we’ve ever had in one dog. Her last ultrasound showed that one of her kidneys was small and shriveled. We don’t know why, when or how this happened. But both the vet and ourselves were happy that she had one good kidney; but it looks like maybe not now.

I do ultrasounds regularly after my dogs turn 10 years of age. I like to know that all is well in their vital organs and catch anything early. This ultrasound will be a fasted one on the morning of the 27th. We will know more then. But for now, I am researching my butt off; as I do when I need to know. I do know that her raised creatine level is very bad.

I will keep you posted and if anyone has questions or knows about better diapers or is a blood expert, I’d love to hear from you.



Canine seizures

We’re in this together.

It’s January 9th 2024 and Riggs just had a seizure. This is the first seizure that he has ever had and as I sat holding him close while he got through it, I was almost in tears. The tears were right there but I didn’t let them come because I had a job at hand. But they were right there as Riggs seizuring brought me back to Luke. Riggs predicessor who had idiopathic epilepsy for 11.5 years of his 14.5 year life. The moment I sat holding Riggs until he came out of it was a surreal one for me.

Poodles of all sizes are prone to epilepsy.

Luke started his seizures at the age of around 3. It took us a while but we finally figured out his triggers and did our best to skirt around them for most of his life. Luke suffered from Grand Mal seizures, which were long and intense. Here is a link that will take you to a very old blog on Luke and his seizures.

What we discovered about Luke’s seizures was that they were linked to be very suddenly waken from a deep sleep or chemicals. A door slamming from the wind was the biggest issue with the sleep thing so we have to this day, many door stops around the house. I also do not use chemicals and have learned that baking soda and vinegar are great for cleaning pretty much anything. I also look for healthy alternatives to replace any chemical stuff.

So why did Riggs have a seizure this morning? I have absolutely no idea. He did turn 5 in October; the prime age to start epilepsy is between 3-5 years of age. Did he get bit by a spider in the garage? Did he pick up something when playing with his ball? I just don’t know and I will be keeping a very close eye on him now. I am hoping that this was a onetime thing; although I know it may be the beginning of something much bigger.

I’m a seasoned pro with seizures. I was in the midst of feeding Elsa and Riggs; ran upstairs for something (which I can’t even remember what now) and came down to Riggs seizing at Elsa’s gate at the bottom of the stairs. I got down the stairs in record speed and scooped him into my arms. I am very aware that the risk of being bitten during a seizure is high so kept my face away as best I could. The way I had Riggs in my arms I couldn’t see his eyes. It’s something I want to see as it tells you if they are still with you or in the deep throws of a seizure.

We sat there for 15-20 mins. with Riggs leaning into me for help. I wrapped my arms and legs around him and he buried his head into my chest. It took him this long to get to his legs and he was emotionally shaken. He is BY FAR the most emotional dog we have ever had this was very upsetting to him and me both.

For now I am going to try not to panic. Elsa had a seizure late lastyear from the effects of same pain medication she was on. It was a small barely visible one but I’m pretty savvy about seizures and body language so I saw it and stopped the medication immediately. She has not had another.

There can be exterior causes or causes that lead to idiopathic epilepsy. We will wait and see if there are anymore. Fingers and toes crossed that this was hopefully a bite reaction from a bug? Hopefully.

December 23, 2023

It’s been a minute. Where the heck has the time gone? As the title suggests, it is December 23, 2023; the day before Christmas Eve. I hope that everyone is nice and relaxed and ready for the big day. I am ready and I’m pretty relaxed. It’s been a very busy few months and now we are nearing the moment that many of us have been waiting for. I love Christmas, the whole season is my absolute favorite.

So what’s up here at Just Dogs with Sherri? There is a lot in the works, and in the New Year I will be working very hard to get many things that I’ve gotten started…finished. I have a Know Your Dog course that will be ready in the New Year that will be a must for anyone and everyone with a dog. I am also going to be releasing my new one on one consultations (sorry it’s late). I’m super excited for both and have a few other things that I am working on.

On a personal note, we were blessed with the our 6th Grandchild early in the year. We now have 5 Grandsons and 1 Granddaughter who are all so amazing. We love spending as much time with all them as we can throughout the year and to see them grow, change and evolve into their own very individual person. Dogs and children is a juggling act and one that I have lots of experience with; that I love to share.

Elsa and Riggs are wonderful. I can’t believe how great Elsa is doing after finding the exact steps to avoid constant uti’s that she’d been suffering from. Elsa turned 12 this year and is going strong; even though she is coming up to year four of living with the effects of a spinal stroke. She is truly a champion but is most definitely showing her age these days.

Riggs turned 5 in October and is coming into his own. He is a very complicated guy but we could NOT ask for a better boy. He tries very hard to always do right (even ratting out Elsa on occasion,) and is making better choices as he matures. He is a scared sort of guy which leads to all sorts of different behaviors. But we are constantly working on the idea that the world is not filled with monsters who are out to get him.

I am continually working on my podcast as well; which I really do enjoy creating and hope to broaden that this year as well. I will continue to blog when I have content to write about. I’m not sure what is the preferred format, blog or podcast so for now I will continue with both. Although they both have different content, so reading the blog and listening to the podcast gets you covered. I do love to write and will continue wrting on a couple of books I have on the go.

But I have to say that my instagram is what gets the most attention from me. It is easy for me to upload information and share it to the largest audience, which is a true passion. After working with dogs for almost 50 years in many different aspects of the dogworld, I have a lot to share. I want to help people to live their best dog life; whatever that entails. So I hope that if you follow my instagram that you are enjoying it. If not, you can find me at @justdogswithsherri where I try to offer as much free dog information that I can.

I love comments and questions so if you are so inclined, ask away. If you have some content that you would like to hear about, send me a note. I’m easy to reach on my instagram.

With the big day just 2 sleeps away, I am wishing you the best and most wonderful Christmas ever. I will see you in the New Year.

Walking your dog - a deep dive into my walks

We had a great walk this morning; and on our walk I was actually writing this blog in my head. As we meandered up the hill and into the sun; which was already up due to the time change, I pondered my daily walks. I probably started thinking about my walks because a woman (who’d I’d seen just yesterday) walked by us on her phone. When I say on her phone I mean that it was in front of her and all of her attention was on her screen. This was the same view I got of her yesterday but today it got me to thinking.

First, don’t be on your phone. If you have your phone out, hopefully you are taking pictures of your dog or your surroundings. Or you have an ear piece in and are just talking quietly to someone. But your attention should be on your dog/s. I wear an earpiece on my walks so that I can be hands free and keep my attention where it should be.

As we got to the top of the hill, Riggs decided he should poop in the leaves that were scattered over the ground. He makes me laugh because it takes him forever to finally go. The rustling of the leaves went on and on and on as he circled, trying to locate the spot where he should drop his load. Finally he hunched and started. Just as he started to poop the phone lady walked by and blindly allowed her dog just close enough (on an extension leash of course) that I had to say something.

She had no idea where her dog was; or that we were even there or that Riggs was trying to go to the bathroom. Just as the words started out of my mouth she yank on her dog, blindly. I picked up Riggs poop and watch her walk away; never glancing at her dog once, just blind yanking.

So this got me thinking “why do I love my walks?” Why do my dogs love our walks? Our walks are a very special time for me and I want to give that special time to my dogs. I take my dogs out for them; the followout of that is that it is something that I love. I work very hard to never rush; and let them sniff to their hearts content.

After walking dogs for a very long time, there is quite a bit I’ve learned about how to enjoy going on our walks. Of course this is just my look at it; I am a lover of nature and as little crowds as possible. So the first thing I need is a quiet place where there isn’t a whole lot of people or dogs. If I could have it that it is just us, even better. Which is why when I see the rain, we head out; because people in California don’t go out in the rain.

I am a scanner as most of you know. I don’t like surprises so I am always scanning and recommend picking up this one habit. It can save you from many negative events that are avoidable. The phone lady today didn’t have any idea of what was going on around her at all. It is bad practice to not know what is going on around you in general. Be aware of whats going on around you.

When we walk, I have a pouch full of treats, so it’s a win win for Elsa and Riggs. They know we walk, sniff and snack. :) They have comfortable harnesses on and are hooked to 10’ biothane leashes that give them the freedom of length and often drop leash. This is why I love where I walk, I can drop their leashes often.

Next is my comfort. The other day I left my house and it was 65 degrees; I only had a t-shirt on thinking it was plenty warm. I got to the park and it was 43 degrees. I pulled my sweatshirt on, that I keep in the car thinking to myself “didn’t think I’d need this;” but then realized that I was going to need more. I was so happy when I looked in the back seat and saw my puffy jacket. You see, I keep different increment weather attire in the back seat. A sweatshirt, raincoat and vest for different temperatures. This is VERY important for highly enjoyable walks.

An important thing for any of my jackets or sweatshirts is that the arms are able to tie. I often start out my walk when it’s cold; as the sun comes up and covers the park, I’m hot. I almost always have something tied around my waste. Some jackets or sweatshirts are not good walking candidates for this reason only, no tie, no go waking.

I’m going to link most of my walking stuff below.

Next is my feet, I learned this lesson long ago. I enjoy taking my guys off the beaten path so that means wet, dirt, muck and grass. I wear Sperry duck boots which are waterproof on the bottom, not too high up on my leg and very comfortable. Dry feet, happy Dog Mom.

This time of year I also wear gloves. Typically I’m getting dirty, really dirty. So I love wearing gloves as it gets colder and the dirt is wetter that I am getting on my hands. Because I drop the leashes often they pick up a lot of grass and dirt so when I get home, my gloves go in the wash, everyday. I wear light gloves which are commonly called jogging gloves, not big fuzzy ones. ;)

I am prepared on my walks, I have a pepper spray, poop bags, my phone, treat bag and wipes all in my walking pouch. It has taken me a while to find a pouch that I really like and now I have three of the same but different colors that I switch out and wash. Just the other day Elsa dragged her leasp through her poop and I was out of wipes in my pouch. Luckily I have a good supply in my car and we were only just starting our walk. We went back, cleaned the leash and continued our walk. Be prepared!

One thing that I have become aware of this year and has become very important to me is my circadian rhythm. It is fascinating and when you find out about it, it becomes a thing for sure; especially if you have trouble sleeping like I did. So when I go out in the morning; I don’t wear my sunglasses. It was tough in the beginning because I’m a sunglasses person, I live in California. But because I head out before the sun is up; or now when it is just coming up I have trained myself to leave them in my pocket.

If you are interested in your circadian rhythm, here is a link.

Now because I don’t wear my sunglasses for my early morning walks, I do wear a baseball cap. This is for when the sun is directly at eye level and quite blinding. It also helps if it’s windy to keep my long hair out of my face so I can see Elsa and Riggs. If and when I do wear my sunglasses which is for much of the day after my 45-60 min early walk, I wear polarized glasses. I have some cheap ones that I have pretty much everywhere, like my reading glasses.

I’m sure there are other things that I could say about our walks but these are the important things I considered on my walk today. Making sure that Elsa and Riggs are comfortable; which sometimes means a rain jacket for them (much to the dismay of Riggs). They are comfortable in their harnesses, have room for freedom on leash and can often be on drop leash. Along with my comfort, and we’re set for a beautiful and enjoyable sniffari. ;)


Ruffwear Front range harness

Ruffwear Raincoat

Pepper spray

My walking pouches

Biothane leashes

Treat pouch



Prong collars

Following up on my last blog…WE GOT OUR LUGGAGE BACK! I’m actually shocked; I truly did not think after it went missing on October 5th, we would not be seeing it again. We have no idea if it ever left San Diego or it was lost in the shuffle but we have it back and I am VERY thankful for that.

Now, I had wanted to talk about what I noticed when I was power shopping in Niagara-on-the-lake. Prong collars, they were everywhere and I have to say that I am saddened by this. I have written many blogs on the subject and this will not be the last.

So many dogs were wearing prong collars. While we were there, running from store to store to buy the bare necessities and clothes for a wedding, I couldn’t help by notice the collars. From the biggest brutes to the tiniest fluffy dogs, all with prong collars on. Why?

Is it something that people are seeing on social media? Are there more and more prong type trainers popping up? Are pet stores pushing these as the “thing” that people need for their dogs? I don’t get it. I truly don’t. I think I truly only saw one dog, a tiny little shivering Chihuahua that wore a harness.

As we stood in line to purchase our replacement clothing; a tiny fluffy doodle got our attention. She was adorable, BUT, she was wearing a prong collar. So when my husband asked to pet her she jumped up as the prong pulled at her neck. The whole thing made me recoil and I stepped back so that I would not be involved. I did not want to be the cause of her sore neck. It’s just sad.

There were most definitely doodles of all sizes there; and the runner up was Border Collies. Where the mall is situated is quite rural so therein lies the Border Collie thing. But no matter what they were, they all wore prong collars.

You see, I hate prong collars and this is why. They pinch; they inflict pain, that is how they work. So many people say “they don’t hurt the dog if used correctly.” The correct use of a prong collar is to inflict pain in the dog so that they stop. Sadly this often does not work, and the dog continues to pull. Not only do they inflict pain, but they creat a negative association.

I will NEVER, EVER stop and visit a dog wearing a prong collar.

Okay, just imagine. You have a prong collar around your neck and every time someone walks by and you want to visit with them. But everytime you pull to go visit you are receive pain from the collar around your neck. Soon you associate those people with the pain; then interest turns to reactivity and things just go south from here.

It is not hard to conjure up the logic behind it all. When people say that prong collars don’t hurt I always ask “then how do they work?” They are literally left speechless as they ponder the question posed to them. There is a reason, like choke collars, for their name. The pinch/prong collar does just that, pinches.

Just when you think that things are slowly changing for the better of our dogs; something like our visit happens to prove that things are still bad for our dogs. Prong collars are not kind, humane or ethical. Dogs require an education. Education takes time; look how long we are in school just to get through the High School stage. That isn’t even all of it if you want to go to University or further. Nothing happens overnight.

We owe it to our dogs to stop throwing painful apparatuses around their necks as a convenience to us. It’s 2023 and quickly closing in on 2024. It is time to start changing the way we see the equipment we use to attach a leash to our dogs. No more:

  • choke collars

  • prong/pinch collars

  • slip leads

  • e-collars

If a trainer or person tells you that you need these pieces of equipment to train your dog, they are not being honest. They only know how to train using these. There are many types of prong collars so don’t be deceived by a collar with prongs, spikes or points of different color or look. They all work in the same manner. Even the ones with rubber tips on the prongs pinch; in fact they probably pinch the skin even worse.

Collars that cause pain can cause huge issues when dealing with aggression. I have seen dogs redirect aggression onto their owner because of a prong collar. It is scary when this happens and ones it happens it can be very difficult to modify.

Pain is never and answer to train. If a trainer tells you that they don’t hurt your dog, they are lying. That is how they work.

Lost luggage (Air Canada)

Good morning, as I stated in my IG reel the other day, we are just back from a trip away. Our trip should have been a wonderful fall getaway in Niagara for a family wedding. It started out great with an easy drive to San Diego on a beautiful morning. We got into the airport, no big lines, friendly staff as we checked our luggage and off we went to the lounge area.

As we boarded the plane (Air Canada) my husband got a notice of delay. One of the staff said that there was a weight thing and they were checking to see if some of the empty seats could be filled. Two more people were brought onto the plane, they got seated and we took off.

The flight was uneventful, except that I tried to watch 3 different movies that cut out right in the middle and didn’t come back. Frustrating but not a huge deal. As we landed in Toronto, the pilot came on the speaker and told us that the luggage was not on the plane, only a handful had arrived on the plane. “WHAT?” Might of been nice to get a heads up before we took off. We were in Canada for a wedding, so my mind started racing about our luggage.

We exited the plane and knew that a huge walk was ahead of us. Lots of steps put in on this whole trip; a silver lining to it all I guess. We got to the luggage area and waited and waited and waited. My husband went to the baggage desk to see if our bags were some of the ones that made it. “Yep, your bags were on the plane, you just have to wait.” So we waited and waited and waited some more, no bags.

He went back to the baggage desk to find out if they were truly here as a man came on the speaker saying that no bags had arrived from San Diego. The woman (a different person) told us “no, no bags had arrived.” Our bags had not arrived and so we filled out the form to have our bags delivered to our hotel when they arrived.

It was Thursday night when we arrived, the wedding was Saturday afternoon, we still had time we naively thought. We ended up wasting the entire first day of our trip shopping for clothes. You would think that shopping for a whole day would be fun; nope, not when you have to shop; when all you have is what you are wearing. Waking up Friday morning I realized, I have nothing, can’t even workout. So as the time ticked away on Friday we realized that our bags were probably not arriving before the wedding, more shopping.

Elsa and Riggs were at home!

I have to give my pet sitter a shout out as all of this is happening I was given such a sense of calm just knowing I had someone taking care of Elsa and Riggs back home. That is the important stuff, the rest of it all is just a huge hassle.

It is now a full week and we have not been contacted once by Air Canada. We have been on the phone looking, asking and pleading for just a tiny bit of assistance but no one has yet to help us. We spent hours scouring the Toronto Pearson Airport and the San Diego Airport on foot, physically looking for our bags.

I would like to reach out to anyone who might know how we can get our bags back. Someone who is perhaps in the know about all of this craziness.

My Mom would tell me “they are just things, Sherri.” True, they are all material objects; but some of the things in my bag were important to me. Much of it I can replace, but some I cannot. And I think the big picture for me is that the airline is not being accountable for the loss. How can they ethically leave a whole planes luggage behind and not tell you until you land? It’s just not right.

We are back home now, Elsa and Riggs are great, sitter was great. But we are now diving in to see if we can somehow find our luggage, somewhere. How can it go missing when you are flying direct? Where could it possibly be? No we didn’t have airtags, but I have already bought some. But after watching a couple who had airtags lose their luggage, it seems that Air Canada is really not concerned about their passengers.

Ethical and humane

There is a lot of controversy going on right now with the utilization of aversive training methods and a very specific trainer. The person who calls himself a “trainer” is Dog Daddy, and he is at the root of the controversy. But unfortunately he is just a more flamboyant version of many similar aversive trainers. I have been watching and very interested as it all unfolds. But as it unravels I have spent a great deal of time pondering the whole thing. How do we educate the general public that this is not okay? It is not my controversy personally but it surely involves me. I try very hard to spread the word of positive reinforcement; kindness, patience, humane and compassion treatment to dogs.

I have had to step away from watching it all unfold daily. But I have been thinking about it all, all the time. One side is the positive trainers who rely on science based training against the harsh and physically aversive method of training. Aversive training has been around for far too long; it has not changed and is fueled by the idea of making our dogs do what we want through physical manipulation. Some aversive trainers like the one in the middle of it all have brought it to a higher level of abuse.

Having been a positive trainer for so long and seeing it work on every dog that I’ve worked with has given me the drive to educate whoever I can about the method. Positive training done correctly is ethical, humane, kind, compassionate and IT WORKS! Positive reinforcement training has been growing quickly and saving thousands of dogs from being abused by aversive training. But there is work to do.

There is no need to be cruel, use physical punishment or be the alpha with your dog. These ideas are so outdated and incorrect. There is no reason to use brutal force, yell, yank or abuse dogs. I get it, the general public doesn’t know that you don’t have to do this; which is what these type of trainers thrive on. Abusing a dog that is in a state of fight or flight will shut them down. Either that or cause them to pass out from being strangled.

I also get that it is hard to watch these people when you know it’s wrong. There is only so much of it that I can watch before I start shutting down myself, it’s tough. Watching someone who knows so little about dogs and their behavior literally helicopter them around on a slip collar or poke and prod them while strangling them triggers a protective and proactive state in me.

I also get that when you are at the end of your rope and someone swoops in to seemingly save the day, it can be a huge relief. But it comes at a cost, a huge cost; and what I am about to do is lift the cloak of deceit to hopefully explain to you what is actually going on.

Example:

A nice couple has a dog with some fear aggression. Let’s say a young 12 month old male labrador; who came to them as a 6 mont old pup with no socializing. So to this dog, let’s call him Thor, the world is a scary place. The couple have tried everything that they know, including over socializing and are at the end of their rope. Then they see this “celebrity trainer” on the internet; literally whipping dogs into shape in a matter of moments. There is the hook, line and sinker and they are reeled in.

They attend one of his “shows” and willingly hand over their young dog to be transformed; knowing nothing of the fate that he has now been dealt. As they hand the dog over, the dog pulls back, he is afraid. The “trainer,” ignores all of his body language and signals that the dog is displaying and drags him closer to him. The dog starts to struggle, he starts to growl but is still trying to get away. Everything in the dog is trying to escape, not aggress. Then the guy on the end of the leash reaches over the dogs head (a huge mistake) and taps the dogs on the head. He reaches around the side and pokes and prods the dog.

At this point the dog is struggling to get away and is literally being strangled. What happens next is shutdown; the dog suddenly stops, and to people who don’t understand, it looks great but this is very bad. The trainer says “look, he’s fixed,” and although the dog has stopped struggling, he has now been filled with even more fear. When a dog shuts down, everything is done, no learning, no feeling, they are just completely shutdown.

At this point the dog is exhausted and may take days to recover. The poor dog with a few fear issues has been handed over by the people that he trusted, so trust is broken. He was put in the hands of someone who has no knowledge of dogs who abused and traumatized to the point of shutdown. All this for the benefit of the socalled trainers insane ego. Just imagine what will happen the next time a stranger approaches the dog?

flooding - a form of psychotherapy in which the patient receives abrupt and intense, rather than gradual, exposure to a fear-producing situation.

Taking a dog and flooding them with fear triggers is inhumane, cruel and abusive, bottom line. So this dog’s guardians failed him, the trainer not only failed him but added trauma which will now be a larger problem and society failed him. It is not okay to allow this to continue.

A trainer who is experienced in positive reinforcement training would never try to bring out aggression in a dog. They would never purposely trigger a dog into aggression. The idea is barbaric and from the past when we didn’t know any better. Now we do know better, shouldn’t we do better?

I think as a society we need to look at how we treat our dogs. Aside from scientific proof that positive reinforcement works; we need to look at ourselves and agree that we can do better. It is not okay to hurt our dogs. We need to educate ourselves so that we can make an educated choice of trainers.

There are so many trainers out there; it can be mind boggling to figure out who to trust. I think if we take a stand and make the decision not to hurt or intimidate our dogs physically or mentally, that’s a start. If we stand up for our dogs and say “NO!, YOU CANNOT DO THAT TO MY DOG.” We owe it to our dogs; and this step alone will weed out alot of the worst trainers. The ones who just simply brutalilze and get paid. They don’t love dogs and that is a fact.

Sadly Ceasar Milan appeared on the dog training scene via his own National Geographic show which categorically set dog training back decades. Although he single handedly turned back time; the effects of his training on such a wide reaching platform has been immense and not in a good way.

I am witnessing many young and newer trainers following suit because of his celebrity and making it look so simple. Slip lead on, yank around and presto. The whole idea of being the “alpha” has had a huge and horrible impact on the dogs we live with. He took the term alpha and turned it into a struggle with our dogs in training.

Positive reinforcement is truly amazing when you see it in action. A fearful dog learns to trust through kindness, patience, understanding and compassion. Do you really think that a dog forced to be aggressive because of fear learns to trust and not be fearful by being attacked by humans? This is insanity.

Good training is done in baby steps. Watching the behavior and working with it to build trust and knowledge. If a trainer you go to tells you to do something that doesn’t feel right, do not do it. This is your dog, you are their guardian; brought together to form a simbiotic relationship built from trust.

Let’s not fail them.

Prolonged fireworks

She’s tired. It’s not easy dealing with this when you are 12 years old.

Like Elsa, I am hesitant to go to bed these days. Since before July 4th, the booming started in our neighborhood. And sadly it is still going on, much to our dismay.

Elsa has become agitated at bedtime now. She use to go upstairs, get her nightly snack and hunker down for the night, not anymore. She goes upstairs, then comes downstairs. Back up again and back down again until we are all in the bedroom together. She gets her snack and is on high alert. This is when the scary noises come. at least our little Miss Elsa is losing her hearing fairly quickly; so even though she can still hear the big ones, the smaller, less booming ones silently slip past her.

I hear them, and with each boom I hold my breath. She is terrified of fireworks; she has been for a very long time. Not all dogs are, it’s hard to tell who will be affected by the sound. I most definitely think that it should be our other dog, Riggs who is a fearful sort of guy in general. But nope, he’s fine…for now that is.

Three and a half years ago Elsa had a spinal stroke (read about it here). I’d never even heard of these things until she was struck suddenly while playing in the yard. It hit hard and without warning and after being instantly paralyzed she recovered with a residual bum back leg. She is now 3.5 years older and her body is aging more quickly because of the stroke. Her front ankle areas are very stiff and her hind end needs some assistance often.

So when the fireworks start or even just a few that are loud enough to be audible by Elsa, she is in a panic. Outwardly she is panting, pacing, jumping off the bed (our bed), goes into the shower and is in a general state of hysteria. Not a place I want my old girl.

So how do you stop the needless booming. I’ve written blogs, letters, done podcasts and posts with startling results. There are those who understand, those who are very sympathetic; but there are also those who are well…lets just say not kind and understanding.

Elsa was asleep quickly last night, having missed the distant boomers. But sure enough at around 11 o’clock a boom could be heard very close by. I held my breath hoping that she hadn’t heard it, she did. Her head shot up and she prepared to dive off the bed. Diving off the bed is not something that she should be doing. I have set up a double dog bed in our room in hopes that she will start using it when she is panicked. She has not used it to sleep yet; although she has dug the crap out of it when she’s in a state.

Luckily I caught her last night, right before she prepared her dismount. I physically maneuvered her to a down with a pillow for her head. I lay my hand on her and slipped into the most zen like mode that I could; in hopes of helping her to relax. I can’t talk to her because her hearing is so bad. But I did use my hands in a very “hey, no big deal, you got this,” manner. I thought that if I could just get her through the ritualistic 2 boomers, she might realize that she is okay.

Clearly these are not stopping and I can’t drug my dog all the time. It is a handful of dumbasses who get some sort of thrill from loud boom. I honestly do not get what the big deal is; a couple of big booms EVERY FREAKING NIGHT! What a thrill, not. Maybe all the complaining that people do actually fuel these idiots, who knows.

I’m tired of it and I know that Elsa is as well. And I’m sure that Riggs is also tired of the strangeness that is happening more and more often. I have to say that she settled more quickly last night. With my hand on her back leg, I offered her what zen I could muster up for her. But it is the moment that she starts to settle that worries me the most. Will there be another just as she starts to relax?

I get the whole fireworks on the big days. We can prepare for those, we know it’s coming. But the constant booming, void of a light show; I don’t get it, I just don’t get where the thrill comes from this. But I’m hoping if enough people speak up and say “okay, enough,” that maybe there will be fewer things to send my old girl into a panicked frenzy.

We can hope.

Dealing with fear based behaviors

Riggs has extremely expressive eyes, he’s an easy read. Tail is down but not tucked, he’s just weirded out.

Today we were at the park and like I often do, we ventured off the beaten path which took us somewhere new. There were a ton of new scents for Elsa and Riggs to explore; and they ended up doing some serious scent work on a specific picnic table. After they had sniffed, sniffed, sniffed and sniffed again I asked Riggs to jump up on the table. Once he was up I could see that he wasn’t comfortable there so I rewarded him and told him to get off.

He calmly got off, he didn’t panic bolt.

After this happened I had to assess my next step. If a dog won’t go near something, running away or seriously backing up and barking; then we don’t ask them to go see the thing. At that point you go as close as your dog is comfortable and toss treats away from the scary thing. IF, you lure them to the scary thing with a yummy treat; they will more than likely go but once they’ve had their treat, they bolt. So it’s not a good way to go about it.

There are so many factors when dealing with fear. We definitely never want to drag your dog to something that they are afraid of. But you must consider many things before creating a plan to help your dog.

First

  • How scared is you dog? Are they just uncomfortable like Riggs? Or are they panic stricken?

  • What type of temperament does your dog have? Are they usually brave or typically a scared sort of dog?

  • How long has the dog had the fear?

  • Do you have access to this particular fear?

  • How do you feel about the fear that your dog is exhibiting?

The first thing that is required when your dog is exhibiting a fear is to check yourself. How are you responding to their fear reaction? What is required is calm, stable and reliable behaviors from us. Our dog’s look to us for our response to things, especially when they are afraid.

His ears said everything here. He was listening intently incase one of the critters who’s scent he smelled was around somewhere.

Starting to relax here but still looking around.

Having seen both Elsa and Riggs in full on scenting mode at the table; I assumed that there had been lots of critters on it. With this information and the fact that when Riggs went up onto the table, he was much closer to the canopy above, creeped him out. I could see it happening, but knew that it wasn’t a huge fear, he was just weirded out. I hadn’t lured him onto the table, just asked him like I often do at parks. It has been a confidence building exercise for him.

I immediately got into my super chill mode and asked him to get up again. Lots of treats and he started to relax. But the important thing is that I didn’t make him stay there. He was up, treated and off. THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT. And the fact that there wasn’t anything particular that he was scared of, just the abundance of creature scents and the tree canopy.

Riggs has been a scared sort of guy his whole life. He needs a lot of life experience and repetition of me supporting and protecting him. We have a huge bond of trust between us; but if we didn’t, he would not have gone up on the table. It takes a great many exposures to show him that there is nothing to be afraid of.

Same tree, still scenting. This was an area that obviously had lots of critters around. Tail at half mast, cautious but not concerned.

Riggs’ tail is up, this is a different tree but same area. Elsa’s is down, she’s not worried just very serious about her scenting.

If a fear is extremely serious in nature, then your course of action must be much slower and more careful. You NEVER want to put your dog in a position where they have blindly followed a food lure to the scary thing. Once the food is gone they are now right there at the scary thing.

This is a common way that people try to help dogs that don’t want to meet new people and it can and will backfire. I’ve seen it happen many times. “Here give him a treat” the guardian says. The dog reaches out to the maximum extension to grab the treat and retreats in terror once the food is gone.

Instead WE, the guardian should toss the treat away from the scary person if the dog seems to become a little more comfortable or interested in the new person. Don’t give it to the scary person to offer.

Slow and steady wins the race.

Fear is a big deal and assisting your dog through it takes some know how. Just remember, never, ever, EVER force try to cajole or convince your dog that it is not scary when it is a serious fear. Fear is another reason that knowing who your dog is very, very important.

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Aversives

Yesterday I did a 90 second Instagram reel on aversive techniques in training. Conventional choke collar training is where my own training experience began. Waaaaayyyy, back when I was 13 years old (1975) aversive training was all that there was. The positive reinforcement training revolution had yet to make an appearance in the little town in Canada where I was from.

Aversive - A reprimand or punishment.

Aversive training works by shutting down a behavior by inflicting pain or fear; it does nothing to educate our dogs.

I didn’t discover positive reinforcement training until the mid 90s; and once I did, I never looked back. I think this is one of the MAJOR reasons I am so passionate about positive training. Once you really learn how dogs learn best; a more humane way to train, there is no going back.

When I was first into training, I remember the whole feel being about anger. If your dog didn’t do what you wanted, you yanked on them. It was us against the dogs and I have to say that much of the aversive or “balanced” training I see out there is still the same. :(

The first “trainer” I worked with was probably one of the most alpha, dominant woman I’ve ever met. It was all about physical control over the dogs. Looking back I shudder at the things she shared with new dog guardians. I remember going to the first class of a session where she and her assistant were fitting slip collars on the dogs.

“It has to be tight and right up behind the ears” her assistant told me. “No I’m not putting it there,” I told her. She instantly got her back up; I was not the normal student who was going to do what they told me blindly. She called the head trainer over to deal with the young rebel (me). I held my ground as I pushed back at every tactic she attempted to conform me with. It was futile, I wasn’t buying what she was selling.

It wasn’t long after that when I was introduced to a better, more humane and extremely more educated way of teaching dogs - Karen Pryor’s clicker training. From the moment of learning that there was a better way, my mind never stopped wanting more. My story is a long one; 48 years since I first laid my hands on a dog in the conformation ring and training class. A lot has changed since then in the world of training dogs; and my own evolution has been a huge one.

I didn’t come from a dog background so what I learned about dogs was all on my own. Once you learn how it can be done without anger, without pain infliction, without yelling and dominating…it just becomes about the connection. The connection we have with the canine species can be an amazing one. But, if you stay stuck in history; and you aren’t willing to learn a better way, to do better for our dogs, things never change.

I hate that I still see people yanking and yelling at their dogs. So many people with pinch/prong collars on their dog.

You can’t do better, until you know better.

Maya Angelou

This is one of my favorite quotes and it so applies to our dogs. People just don’t know. But, if enough people talk about it; if we can get the dialogue going, people will hear about a better way.

Dogs are FAR more intelligent than we know.

Senior dogs - Miss Elsa

I hate to even say it, but yes, Elsa is most definitely a senior. Uggghhh, did I say that out loud? I’m not ready for this, but in all honesty; we’ve been in it for a while now, whether I like it or not. After losing three of our dogs in three years; I want her to still be a young’n. Elsa has most definitely reached “senior” status very quickly because of the spinal stroke she had over three years ago. The stroke had a huge impact on her body and it’s abilities. There are days when I am really angry that this happened to her; but then I see people who lose their dogs far too young and I feel lucky that we still have her with us.

Elsa will be 12 in July, which is the age when I have typically seen a change in my dogs. Having had Standard Poodles for almost 40 years, I have personal experience to compare with. Tilley had the most longevity of all the Standards in our lives. She lived to be just short of 16 years. Luke was next at 14.5 which was amazing because he lived with severe epilepsy his whole life.

The last year has been a tough one for Elsa and we are plodding along through some health issues. She has been suffering from acid reflux for quite sometime and it has been difficult to get a handle on. I think we’re almost there as far as figuring out what works and doesn’t work for Miss Elsa. Acid reflux can hit any dog but older dogs are more prone because the esophagus sphincter itself can become weaker with age.

The other major issue is recurring uti’s. This is something that Tilley (1997-2012) dealt with in her senior years as well but a daily dose of cranberry d-mannose was all she needed to keep things in check.

Elsa is not so lucky, her anatomy is not quite what it should be so as she ages, things have gotten worse.

(WARNING - TMI ahead for some folks.)

The skin above Elsa’s vulva comes down too far, covering more than half of the vulva itself. Because of this, as she ages the skin has become less taut and is creating a problem. So at nearly 12 years of age we are dealing with constant uti’s. It’s been a struggle to get rid of some of the uti’s but I think we are on a path with a plan now and hopefully things will be looking up for her.

She is on a high dose of cranberry d-mannose which helps to inhibit the adhesion of bacteria to the bladder wall. Making sure that she drinks lots of water is very important as well; so, she gets extra water with her meals. As well as implementing a verbal cue on drinking water for both Riggs and Elsa.

Because she is a poodle, Elsa has to be shaved very clean in her private areas. Close attention is required in keeping everything dry and clean down there. She is honestly so good, she waits for her little drying dab every time she comes in from peeing.

As our dogs age, there is always something to deal with. Because Elsa was struck with a spinal stroke three years ago; things changed for her far too early as the amazing athlete that she was. Elsa has also been losing her hearing lately; faster than any of our previous poodles. All of a sudden she has old dog hearing. Not all dogs lose their hearing. Luke didn’t but Tilley most definitely did. Lots of sign language is now required which is why you should keep up with signing even when they are young.

But if it wasn’t a stroke, uti or acid reflux that we are dealing with it would probably be something else. Each dog is an individual and each will deal with something different as they age. This is the time when we can give back just a fraction of what our dogs have given us over the years with extreme tlc.

There truly is nothing like an old dog and caring for them.

Out of the norm, one of those days

We all have them, you know, those days when you wish you would have stayed in bed? Yesterday was one of those days for me. After a very busy weekend I was looking forward to starting my day slow; enjoying my zen walk and then get on with the rest of the day. Well…

The day started pretty normal; dogs went out for a pee and Elsa charged back up to bed for her morning snack. Riggs was missing, which was not normal. I heard my husband saying something downstairs as he got our coffee but I couldn’t hear clearly. He then came upstairs and filled me in. Riggs had thrown up in the kitchen, then went out and had a poop; then he went out and had another poop. Not normal anymore.

He then ran upstairs but did not want his morning snack. Again, this is very out of the ordinary. We watched Riggs, asked him what was wrong (he didn’t answer lol). Dogs have off days as well as we do as far as their stomach goes. Elsa had had a few bad days about 2 weeks ago. I pondered if it was maybe a bug passed from Elsa to Riggs.

My husband jumped into the shower and I ran to get something from the garage. When I returned, he asked where Riggs was. I looked under the bed, which is where he spends a good amount of time if we are in the bedroom. It always amazes me when he goes under the bed because he only has 6” clearance to get under. Once he’s under it opens up a bit but not a lot. He has always liked being under there…go figure.

He was not under the bed, uh oh. We ran downstairs and there on our white living room carpet were several piles of diarrhea. We ran into the kitchen to find him standing at the door, beside a pile of slimy foam puke. We had an evac situation and it was not pretty.

My mind was racing, trying to come up with some explanation for this. I have only had to deal with this type of situation when Elsa got stung by a bee and went into anaphylactic shock and Tilley when she had a tick on her causing tick toxicity. I cleaned Riggs up, and most of the bulk of other mess. Then I went over Riggs trying to feel for a tick, nothing.

Perhaps it had been a bee? It is common when the night and mornings are cold that they are stuck in the grass just waiting to be stepped on. It isn’t until the sun hits them that they can fly again. Maybe a bee sting? I watched him closely for about an hour and he seemed okay. Not himself but not getting worse. So we head out for a walk to try to shake off the start of the day.

Riggs was not himself yesterday. It could have been a combination of not feeling well and trauma from shi*&ing on the floor. He is very emotional and it would have upset him a lot. I got to work steam cleaning, scrubbing and more steam cleaning.

Our little man as off for about half of the day and then started to be his old crazy self. By late afternoon into the evening he was fine. No more diarrhea, no more vomit, nothing. We just got back from our walk and he seems perfectly normal. Not sure what happened but it was most definitely one of those days.

Love to hear about your “one of those days.”

Acid reflux in dogs

PLEASE LET ME GIVE YOU A ***WARNING*** THERE IS A GROSS IMAGE OF BLOOD VOMIT IN THIS BLOG.

A couple of weeks ago we woke up to the sound of Elsa GWORKING. Gworking is a word that I use to explain the action and noise that she makes when she is having an acid reflux episode. This was one of the worst which in hindsight I attribute to a few too many goodies that she should not have had. Elsa has been having this issue for many years and we have dealt with it by trying to keep fat to a minimum which has resulted in few episodes. But as she gets older she seems to be getting more sensitive to fats.

What happened that night was bad; she was licking, gagging and gworking (an odd sort of heavy swallowing). I tried the typical chicken stick trick; when I break one of her chicken and rice treats into small pieces and give them to her slowly. This almost always works if I can get them into her in the start of the episode. If it does not work and she continues, then I have to get her antacids out..

I offered her another of her chicken sticks but she remained the same. She was pretty frantic and her behavior causes everyone around a great deal of anxiety, including Riggs. What she wants to do is to go outside and eat a ton of grass. When dogs don’t feel good they eat grass to vomit; this is what she wants to do when she has an episode. But she cannot be allowed to go out and consume grass; because she will eat it until her stomach is completely full of grass which is another issue to deal with.

With her still gagging, gworking and panting I head down for her antacids. I popped one in her mouth knowing we still had a good 1/2 hour of this behavior. They can take quite a while to work; especially if she’s already had a bunch of food. So we waited, dozing off now and again as she went through waves of better and worse.

An hour later she was no better so at 2:30 a.m. I was down in the kitchen filling her lick mat with a mixture of peanut butter (about a tsp or so) and a big load of applesauce (about 1/2 cup). I’d taken her outside for a quick pee and then gave her the lick mat in the kitchen. Surprisingly she gobble it down very enthusiastically. After she finished we head back up to bed and I hoped it would kick in fast.

Apples are a good source of calcium, magnesium, and potassium. It's thought that these alkalizing minerals may help relieve symptoms of acid reflux.

We have been using applesauce and/or apples for Elsa’s reflux for a very longtime. I learned about apples when I had acid reflux myself and fully cured myself by eating a half an apple every evening. So when she started having problems and was diagnosed with acid reflux, I gave it a try.

After about a half hour she calmed down and fell asleep. I didn’t fall asleep for a long while; of course contemplating what could have triggered this big episode. I finally started to dose off around 3:45 when Elsa jumped off the bed at 4:00. If Elsa jumps off the bed, there is ALWAYS a reason. I hopped out and took her outside again.

When we went back upstairs she did not want to go on the bed; she stood at our patio door sniffing. I opened the door and let her out quickly as she threw up a pile of very dark liquid. I knew immediately that it was way too dark and got a flashlight out. Blood.

This is Elsa’s vomit about 2 hours after she threw up. It was dark out when she did it so as soon as I had enough light I took a photo and sent it to the vet. The vet stated that it was indeed concerning but was not panicked about it. This was a one time vomit.

There was a lot of blood in her vomit but nothing much else. This was most definitely concerning and I was then up for the day with less than an hour sleep. Poor Elsa was exhausted, as was Riggs so we took the day off. They slept around the clock and I called the vet. Luckily I have a great relationship with my vet and he almost always squeezes me in.

It was a bad case of acid reflux causing the bleeding. But to see her stomach we needed an x-ray. First we had to get her feeling better which meant a strict diet of low-fat protein (turkey) to start with. So I’ve been giving her one type of homemade food since. I also got some slippery elm which I gave her in the beginning to sooth both her stomach and esophagus.

Because the blood that she threw up was red, it means that it probably came from her esophagus. Over the next 5 days she pooped black which means that the blood was digested. The whole thing was very unnerving but she is now feeling great; in fact, better than she has in a long time.

So what is next? Elsa is scheduled for a stomach and esophagus x-ray on February 7th. I will be very anxious to get the result so we will know which direction to head. The blood of course is alarming but when you look it up with acid reflux it is common. The best outcome will be that she just have to stay on a low fat diet (which is frankly what many people should do if they have acid reflux).

I will of course keep you posted.

Dogs in 2023

A home day

Today is the 4th of January 2023. I spent a very wet morning yesterday with Elsa and Riggs at one of our favorite parks. As of late we are spending more and more time at this particular park because of numerous Mountain Lion sightings. Not something I am interested in running into so we keep our distance. Yesterday was a great morning for a walk; a nice slow rain and the rain keeps most others at home so we pretty much had the place to ourselves.

So today we are on the fourth day of the New Year and looking forward to a good one. I have a lot on my plate and so much to tell you all… about dogs. I want to share what I can so that I can hopefully help you to have a better life with your dog. Life with dogs can be tough and challenging. It can also be confusing because there are so many different opinions out there.

What I want to share with you is my experience and commitment to “do no harm.”. Unfortunately, there are a great number of trainers that cannot make that statement and are stuck in the past with their training methods. With e-collars, pinch/prong and choke collars in use with many trainers; it can be very difficult to get through it all to the land of the great positive trainers.

A statement that I find myself using often is that “dogs are simple yet complicated.” Once you learn and fully understand how they work, things are simple. Until then they are very complicated. My goal is to give anyone who wants to listen some tips to move through their dog life more easily and happily.

Today is a big rain day and I would normally be out with these guys getting nice and dirty but with the rain is big winds. So to keep everyone safe, we will stay home and have an “enrichment home day.” The term enrichment is very trendy these days and it too can seem complicated. In a really understandable definition, it means to give your dog something to do that is fulfilling to their needs.

Enrichment: : to make rich or richer especially by the addition or increase of some desirable quality, attribute, or ingredient

Enrichment is fairly easy to offer your dog but you first have to understand what your dog enjoys. There are great similarities in many of our dogs but each dog is also very individual. So learning what your dog LOVES to do and finds fulfilling can be a challenge. Elsa’s favorite activity these days is to destroy. It can be a fluffy toy, a box, a gift wrap roll or anything else I give her for her destruction desire.

Riggs most favorite thing is retrieving his ball. If we don’t offer it to him he will hide his ball and find it over and over again. He stuffs it under a dog bed, blanket or towel, pretends he can’t find it and then miraculously finds it (surprise) with enthusiasm.

Each dog is an individual, just like we are. What drives each one can be very different. Our job is to figure out our individual and then live a great life together.

All dogs deserve, fresh food, water, shelter, safety, love, a family and much more. No dog should be tossed in the yard to live out their life. When we add a dog to our family, that is what we should do. It is most definitely work, but every bit is more than worth what you get from a k9/human connection.

I hope you all have a wonderful year and if at any time you have any questions with regard to dogs, my dogs, my life or anything…please ask.

Wrapping up 2022

2022 has to be one of the biggest blur years for me and many others, from what I hear. Honestly, where does the time go? It seems that we were just brining in 2022 and now it’s 2023’s turn. As we move forward, I always look back and consider the last year as I head into the New Year.

2022

This past year brought a lot of new dogs, issues and educating both dogs and their people. I LOVE meeting new people and their dogs; trying to help smooth their relationship and life together. With every new client comes new issues, individual temperaments of dogs, different homes and families. No two clients are ever the same. I deal with easy peasy great puppies, tough puppies, smooth transition rescues to serious obstacle issues. There are purebred and mixes from tiny to giant dogs to work with.

Many of my clients this year were repeats. Some I had the pleasure of working with years ago with a dog who has now passed. Then I get to meet the new k9 family member and work through all the new puppy issues that we all forget too soon. Others added another dog to the family and I had the chance to work with them and help to meld the new pup into the family.

Anyone who has worked with me knows that my behavior work is extremely personalized. Each dog and family are different with their own spin on life with their dogs. This is how blending dogs and humans should always be dealt with. We are all so different as are our dogs.

I most definitely had fun with all the puppies I got to work with this year. I find it hard to turn down any puppy work. Getting to help people with a new addition; making sure it heads down the right path is really rewarding.

There were also several really challenging cases this year that required much consideration. Often rescue dogs exhibit behaviors that we do not know what the cause was. Whatever happened to them in their past life was where it happened and all we can do is deal with what is in front of us. This is one reason that being in the moment is so very important. Helping our dogs means being there to help them through.

All of my clients have 24/7 access to ask me anything. Questions are one thing that I am a huge advocate of. There are no dumb questions! If you don’t know, ask…please. Along with questions, there is often a need for help down the road. Follow ups, refreshers or just basic help to get back on track. Continually working on your k9 education and training is essential for long term success.

I did a short three month mentor session this summer with a couple of up and coming people who are interested in k9 training and behavior. I feel strongly about sharing knowledge and experience with others. After 47 years experience with dogs in the show ring, grooming and training I have a lot to share. I may offer this again this coming year.

My grooming courses are on SALE right now until January 2nd. And my training courses are available and will be on sale throughout the coming year. All of my books are still available on Amazon.

As far as what is in the works for Just Dogs with Sherri this next year…

I am hoping to get several k9 digital courses done and available (stay tuned). I will continue to blog and podcast as much as possible. And I am turning mostly to Instagram (find me at (@justdogswithsherri) to share what I can to you all as far as k9 behavior, training, grooming, nutrition and the day to day with our dogs.

My personalized one on one training will be slowing down; I will be working with existing clients and taking on very few new clients this year. I will be focusing on writing and digital courses available to everyone. As well as communication, with regards to dogs and people. I find communication to be a fading means of conveying or understanding information. We need more communication between humans and humans and dogs.

On the personal side of my life, we are expecting #6 grandbaby in the New Year which is very exciting. I hope to spend a great deal more time with my family, making memories.

Elsa will turn 12 in July, Riggs will be 5 (how can he be?) this coming October. We are currently looking for a little sister to add to our k9 family. Of course I will let you all know if it happens. :)

Exercise is important for us and our dogs. We will be taking lots of walks, training, doing enrichment activities and keeping in shape. It is so important to workout, both for us and our dogs. Elsa is showing her age and the effects from her stroke but we keep her moving and staying strong. Exercise focus for myself is lifting, I am a huge advocate of weight lifting to stay strong and healthy.

2022 was a good one compared to the ones that came before. I am wishing you all the very best in the New Year. Stay safe and enjoy the last day and night of 2022. And for the New Year, make it a great one. Ask lots of questions, work on your health and happiness in the k9 life we share.

See you all Next Year. Sherri!

Outdoor dogs

The other day I pondered a question; “what happens to an outside dog?” I’m sure that there are some people who get a dog and already know that the dog will be living outdoors, in the yard, alone. But many people have a wonderous idea of getting their puppy and that puppy lying by their feet in front of the fire.

SCREEEAAACCCHHHING BRAKE SOUND

Reality steps in and that puppy is jumping, nipping, chewing and pooping in your home. What happens next is sadly common; having not done your research and been ready for what was really going to happen, the puppy is put outside. “Wheewww,” with a sign of relief you have space, peace and quiet once more. Puppy outside, you inside, nice eh? NO.

What will probably happen now is your puppy will be even more excited when they come back in. You can’t figure out why but I’ll tell you why. First, is about you; you have created a dream like scenario in your head when your puppy is outside. Next, the puppy is void of human contact and when they do get back in they are just a tad excited about it. It is sad, their behavior can become frantic which bothers us even more and out they go again. It is a vicious cycle that I see play out far too often.

A dog left to their own in the backyard has no life. Dogs should not live alone, it’s a horrible life for a dog. No companionship, no guidance, no company, no relationship, no education, just abandonment into the yard. Typically these dogs who are banished to the yard don’t get out much either. And by out much I mean out on walks, out doing life.

I really truly cannot wrap my head around this. Why go out and get a dog to put it in your yard? Not only do you get nothing out of this, the dog ends up in a home that doesn’t even want them. I always think of the home that could have had these dogs. People who bring them in as part of the family, hang out, teach and go on adventures with their dogs.

Some people who end up making the “outdoor dog” decision feel guilty so think that another one will help. Hey, lets get another dog and ruin their life too. Great idea. At least the first dog has someone to hang out with right? That can be the case but it can also go very wrong. Many people who have outside dogs never even know what’s actually going on in their backyard. Are they getting along? Do they like each other? Are they destroying the yard?

What are they suppose to do out there all alone? They will almost guaranteed, wreck your yard. Chew anything that they can find and get out if they can. If and when they do get out; they will have a taste of the good life. They will want more and they will take what they can by getting out again and again.

Backyard dogs can also become extremely aggressive. They typically have little to no socializing; which can create a fearful dog. Left only in the yard, they can also become over protective of that property. Heck it’s all that they have right?

Dogs are not items to be purchased and put on a shelf. Ahhhh, there we have our dog. NO, dogs need you to offer them a good life, the best life that you can give them. Putting them in the backyard and getting on with your life without them…is appalling.

As I sit writing this, Elsa and Riggs are curled up (shown above) on their double dog bed and blanket. It is our job to give a great life to our dogs. If we have no intention of doing that then, don’t get the dog. Let someone who wants a companion have the dog and buy a new patio set with your money. Why inflict a lonely and sad life on a dog by just throwing them in the backyard?

I understand that there are dogs who have jobs outside. Guardian dogs who’s jobs are to protect livestock. These dogs are raised to do this and the flock or herd becomes their family. This is not the dogs I am talking about.

I am talking about the dogs who end up in the backyard simply for being a dog. Not the dogs who like to spend time in the yard; the dogs who are not allowed into the house with the family. My dogs love being in the yard if they are sunning themselves. Other than that, they want to be where I am; which is pretty typically for the k9 species.

I have talked to many of these people who have “outside” dogs and their reasons are varied. Some don’t like the shedding in the house, others tell me that the dog gets overly excited when they come in, others say that the dog has not outgrown chewing yet. One man stood strong on the fact that his dog hated coming into the house. He said it would come in and bound around, everyone would get mad and the dog wanted out again. Well, duh!

If you are thinking about getting a dog; think long and hard before taking the plunge. I actually have a FREE course (Do you really want a dog?) you can take to see if you are ready for a dog yet. Puppies are ALOT of work. And this is typically where it starts to go wrong. “Put them outside” so you can get a break. But a break turns into hours, hours into days and days into a very sad and lonely life.

A lot goes into having a dog or dogs live in your life. Learn about what is involved, read and read and read some more. Take my course (linked above) and really think it through before getting a dog. And if you feel overwhelmed when you do decide on a dog; call a positive trainer to help you through it. Don’t toss the dog in the yard so you don’t have to think about it anymore. Our dogs deserve so much more.

Learn how to read dogs

These photos were taken about 8 years ago. Elsa is very excited and relaxed, the pit mix not so much. She is very pushy with too much hard stare at Elsa. I was a hawk in this interaction. The black dog was only 8 months here, pretty intense for her age.

Elsa was getting a quick read on the black dog here. The poodle mix (clipped like a lion LOL) was just being a horn dog make. The black dog, still hard staring Elsa.

After a few short minutes Elsa needed an out. I opened the truck door and she hopped in. As the other two dogs approached the car she gave a very clear and loud growl to stay out. It is very important to be able to read everything that is going on in an interaction. Play MUST be consensual.

Wow, it’s been a minute. Sometimes I just cannot believe how quickly time passes by. Today I actually wanted to do a podcast about this but I’m really sick with a horrible voice so blog it is.

Yesterday I took my two out for a walk; even though I am very sick. I needed fresh air and so did they. It was a relaxed and slow sort of smell the roses walk. It is all I could muster up and they loved it. I was glad that I dragged my carcass out. ;)

As you all know I always find things to write about when I’m out and about. Sometimes I am with Elsa and Riggs, other times I am not. Yesterday I was with them and this is what we witnessed. Across the field at the park I could clearly see the silhouette of a standard poodle (you know the poodley pom pom type.) Of course it caught my eye and as we rounded the park they were sort of in the middle of it, entertainment so to speak.

The woman had two dogs; a standard poodle and a very small terrier mix. Both dogs were on four foot leashes; which seemed very short for being in the middle of the field. They were way too short as I watched the interaction unfold. The poodle was chasing the terrier; the terrier was not interested in the interaction and was trying his best to ward off the poodle.

From my vantage point, the woman was promoting this behavior as the dogs circled her over and over again. It looked like she was exercising her poodle. The dogs were far too close for this type of behavior and neither were receiving any much needed feedback from their guardian.

Clearly this woman knew nothing about dog behavior because from where I stood, my heart went out to the little terrier. Was he being injured? It didn’t look like he was being physically harmed, but he was definitely being traumatized. The more times around the guardian, the more the poodle was stimulated by the tiny terrier trying to fend off the assault. It was hard to watch and sadly something I could do nothing about. I was not about to subject my dogs to this woman’s lack of knowledge and common sense.

Our walks are very calm and relaxing; it is my goal to create a time and space of peace for myself and my dogs. I take a great deal of physical space for us as we meander and sniff around the park. So after witnessing what was going on with this woman and her dogs I made a U-turn and moved away.

But as we rounded the corner we came upon them again. This time they were much closer and both Elsa and Riggs gave a very clear message to me about keeping our distance. Elsa snorted loudly, Riggs did his high pitched growl to let me know that neither were comfortable getting any closer to the whirling dervish of chaos. I found it interesting that they got what was happening and wanted nothing to do with it. Even though Elsa could tell that one of the dogs was a poodle; which she is always drawn to.

It truly is sad that so many people truly don’t understand dog behavior. Dogs communicate first and foremost with body language. Their language is quick, subtle and very clear. But, you have to know what you are seeing to understand it. The unfolding chaos in front of us was pretty clear but the woman just thought that the two dogs were playing. Sadly many dogs in our homes live stressful lives like this because of our lack of reading behavior and stepping in.

Both of these dogs needed feedback. The poodle needed to know that it was not okay to harass his little brother which would have at the same time; let the little guy know that she had his back. This is an essential part of living with multiple dogs. The old “they’ll figure it out,” is not a given and can lead to all sorts of aggression problems.

If you do not offer feedback to your dogs; if you do not step up and take charge, you leave your dogs to fend for themselves. As dogs, they will fend accordingly, as dogs. And it does not always end well.

Step up and step in when needed. Your dogs deserve this much.