Guarding

Guarding behavior is very normal for dogs. We humans don't like it much; although there are some people who think it's cute when their dog guards them. I was almost bitten when I was very young; we were at a cottage and the dog that lived there was chewing a bone. Having come from a very non dog family; I was never told to leave dogs alone when they were eating or chewing. I approached the dog to pet it; I got closer and closer where the dog would have obviously frozen, given me the lazer beam eyes and a display of his teeth. I didn't stop; as a child you don't see these warnings. The dog lunged at me and grazed my arm; he then ran back to his bone and threw me a couple more dagger stares.

Yes; he was guarding his bone. Some dogs never guard; some guard with dogs and not humans,there are all different levels of guarding. What factors in on the level of guarding is the value that an individual dog puts on an item. When a dog guards a human; they are claiming you, this is my girl or guy. And it is not cute; no matter how cute the dog doing it is. Guarding needs immediate attention no matter what level it is at.

My little Jack Russell showed right from the start that she was going to be a guarder. At 12 weeks of age she gave me quite the display of her tiny teeth when I tried to move her rawhide. That was nearly 14 years ago; and since then we have never had rawhides in the house. Reason one was Jessie; and two is that they are not good for dogs. And three is that I know of two dogs who actually choked to death on them. So with the rawhides gone we didn't have any problems; solved until the entry of raw bones. There we have a slight issue; but that has been solved as well which I will explain a little later.

The approach of many to a guarder is "oh ya? I'll take whatever I want." So; often people snatch the food bowl away from their dog, or the bone or toy or whatever they are guarding. Now think for a minute. The dog is guarding because they think that you want their stuff; which you pretty much just proved correct. What we need to do is teach them that we don't want their stuff most of the time; but if we did want it, that is a good thing.

What I do with Jessie and raw bones is trade and offer good stuff for any approach. So she is outside with the other dogs chewing; I will walk up to her and offer her a piece of raw beef which I cut off the bone before giving it to her. I do this with my poodles as well. What this does is make my approach a good one; instead of a negative one. I also trade bones; I take out a plate and tongs (meaty bones that are already chewed are pretty gross). I pick up Tilleys first and put it on the plate; bring it over to Jessie. Jessie drops her bone to see what I have and I give her Tilley's; picking up her bone. I then bring Jessie's to Luke and give Luke's to Tilley. This is another exercise in "my approaching is a great thing."

Many place guarders can be managed by taking their "place" away. If a dog has issues while in a certain bed; the easiest option may be to get rid of the bed. But some dogs will just choose another spot to guard.....so for these guys you use the "approach is good" routine. Depending on the level of guarding that your dog is showing will factor in on how long it should take to get rid of. Some dogs turn around quickly; others are diehard guarders unwilling to let it go without a fight. Baby steps are the best line of approach when dealing with guarders.

So whatever the object of the guarder is; you need to convince them that having people around it is a great thing. Management is the first step and then the work should begin. The goal of the work is to teach your dog that sharing is wonderful. Never punish a dog for guarding; that is a sure fire way to guarantee a bite down the road. Punishment only caps the beast; eventually it comes out and when it does it's not going to be good. So best to educate; shooting for a wagging tail instead of a tooth display.

Dog stuff

Three dogs in this image are wearing the Easy Walk Harness.

Good Monday morning; I thought I'd talk about some of the dog things that I like today. If you have recently been looking for something cute, useful or specific you've found that there is so much dog "stuff" out there it is mind boggling. So what is the good stuff? Hard to tell until you try it of course and then most of the "stuff" ends up either in a bin in the garage or the garbage. I love trying new dog items but I give them a big once over first. Much of what is available today is really useless.

The three categories of dog stuff are as follows:

Essentials; things you need to have when you have dogs. So the essentials are a leash, an attachments device like collar or harness. You need a bowl for food and water, a bed or two, toys, crate.

Wants: things you like and make living with dogs easier or more enjoyable. Some desirable items that make life easier with dogs are baby gates, xpens, grooming table, extension leash, a coat for warmth. My guys only wear one when they first get shaved at night and even then they hate it. These are the things that you could live without but having them sure improves life with dogs. I found a great water bowl recently and I love it; could I live without it? Yes. But it is great to bring on walks; Luke is a big drinker and I can throw it in the dishwasher after he is finished sliming it up. I also have bowls that I LOVE. The stainless piece comes out and can go in the dishwasher as well as the non slip holding container. It is less bulky than alot of the other bowls I've had making it easier to fit into the dishwasher after every meal.

People things: things designed for dogs but markets solely to the humans who love them. Ah; these are the things we truly buy for us. We think we are buying the items for our dogs but we aren't. A wardrobe; a different little outfit for each day, special fragrances for our dog, treats made to look like little bones or crowns. Jewelry for dogs? Hmmmmmm.

My favorites:

Harness: The Easy Walk Harness

Leash: cotton web 6' and up

Bowls; are the ones mentioned above

I have to admit I love dog stuff; but I do tend to go for the most useful things that will enhance my life with dogs. I like the company that focuses on durability as well. I'm not much into the accessory type things for dogs; if I want accessories I get them for me and save the very coolest dog stuff for my dogs.

Nice little Saturday

What a nice day; the sun was shining and the birds were loud, it is surely spring here in the OC. My husband went off early with Luke; he has been downgraded from a runner to a walker now. At 9.5 he is showing signs of age already so a nice long walk and short time off leash is what his weekends now consist of. They use to consist of 3-5 mile runs with Dad Sat and Sun. Sad when we have to make that call; for their own good.

But we had a great time together; I met my husband with the girls later at the park. We did our snail pace walk and some micro fetching for Tilley. Being that she was an amazing frisbee dog; seeing her still enjoying a good retrieve is fantastic. Even if it is only a few feet away. Jessie got her power sniffing in; if it was up to her it would take us several hours to make it a 1/4 mile around the park. But being that sniffing is so important; she gets her fill.

We spent a good amount of time in the yard today. Jessie slept sound in the house while Tilley and Luke were my audience. As I planted they watch and Luke followed; he is my constant assistant. They normally sleep during the day so tonight they are crashed; completely. They had a smidge of frozen yogurt before finding the perfect spot to curl up and start dreaming. A great day enjoyed by all.

Human interference

Tilley was on the receiving end of a full frontal display this morning. This was a very rare occurance and one that needed some attenion. All the dogs were on the bed with us as is customary in the morning. They had their tidbits and were re-curling to go back to sleep when Tilley thought that she smelled something over near Luke. Typically Luke only gives the slightest of freezes if he is perturb by her snorfling around; this morning he was not in the mood. As I watch closely; he displayed all of his front teeth and growled. Tilley could not hear the growl; nor was she watching him. Immediately I touched Tilley to get her attention and told her to knock it off. Not hearing warnings is something I'm becoming very aware of.

The important factor in this event was that Luke not be scolded. He was simply communicating his feelings and on seeing the body language; he may need to be off the bed a bit more as his head tends to grow from time to time. Tilley was in his space but he has never in all of his 9.5 years minded this. If it was Jessie doing the rummaging she would have got a very loud growl and tooth display and she would have not heard or seen it either. This blog is about canine communication and human intervention.

I have written about this often but everytime I hear a new story I feel obliged to write again. This is such a sad story and one that I hear far too often and I can never seem to tell enough people. New dog vs. old dog. A family adopts a new puppy; the family already has an adult dog of approximately 6-8 years of age. Each time the puppy crosses the line with the adult dog it growls and is immediately corrected by the owners (first mistake). Everyone then lavishes love on the new puppy and shuns the adult (second mistake). As the puppy grows it becomes more obnoxious and the adult dog is feeling unsettled; it attempts again to reprimand and is in turn punished(third mistake). The puppy is now a year old and when it pushes the older dog a fight ensues. Family members are bitten; the younger of the two dogs is bitten and the adult dog severely scolded (fourth mistake).

Now there is tension between the dogs; the new dog may have never had any thoughts of being the top dog but the owners gave it that spot very clearly. Having been stopped dead in her tracks when attempting to teach the new dog where she stood; the older dog was feeling the need to speak louder. Each time she needed to escalate her lesson because the humans were mixing everything up. Then there was another fight; many people were bitten in this fight. The younger dog received a ripped ear and the older adult dog? The dog they had lived with for over six years; the family dog? She was sent to a shelter where by now she has been euthanized.

The fact is that humans do not come equipped with the knowledge that is needed to clearly understand canines. Many people translate all dog behavior into human behavior which is completely wrong. As a human parent; would you want to stand back and let your children make all the rules? I for one would not and neither does an adult dog. By disciplining the adult for trying to teach a puppy you do several things wrong; and they can all be detrimental.

1. You lower the status of the adult dog; clearly sending the message that the newcomer does not have to listen to the adult canine.

2. You give a puppy more status than they should have.

3. You create a need for more force; the adult dog needs to correct the mess you are making.

4. You create a monster so to speak; with no rules and regulations many puppies become very obnoxious.

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5. You set these dogs up; for the final disaster.

This could have had a happy ending; had these humans had a clue to what they were doing or had the good sense to call in a professional. These are some of the heart wrenching stories; dogs being dogs and humans reacting blindly. Our human nature tells us to defend the victim; the one taking the brunt of harsh punishment. Good common sense in a human world; but wrong in the dog world. It is the right of an adult dog to dish out discipline; this is how puppies learn. They learn how far they can push and if they cross that line; they quickly hear about it. With the more naturally obnoxious puppies; there is often alot of lessons to learn and it can get loud. And as guardian it is our job to step in and help educate; supporting the top dog.

If you see the list of 5 errors; they all start with YOU. It is the humans who are at fault here. The dogs were being dogs; and the dog paid for the humans negligence and lack of canine expertise. There really should be a manual to read before getting a dog or two. I cannot count the number of times that I've heard of people getting mad at the adult dog who attempts to scold a puppy. I often tell people who have a new puppy to go find an adult for a few lessons in life. You would never, ever see the wolf pups running the pack.

**With regard to disciplining; I am not speaking about dog fights or attacks. I am strictly referring to discipline in order to educate. Tilley was told this morning for snorfling too close to Luke; that is just plain rude and she knows better. I didn't like that Luke gave Tilley a toothy growl but I am glad he did; it let's me know that he is maybe getting a bit testy in the morning. Good to know.

Go with your gut

This image is one of my students who has never seen and never will see a choke collar. He is a star student in every way.

GO WITH YOUR GUT INSTINCT"So is it bad that she peed when he yanked and yelled at her?" This is what a woman asked me after talking to her about her experience with a trainer. I cringed as I pictured a sweet honey colored lab puppy being so afraid of the human on the other end of her leash that she peed. I was in a local furniture store and after reading the back of my xterra the sales asked me about the dogs. She told me about a wonderful young lab she had; sweet as can be and the horrible memories she had from the few training classes that they had taken her to. I explained further that I was a positive trainer and had no use for choke collars. The story was as follows:

The couple took their dog to a local "conventional" trainer. After the trainer told them what to do; they were told that they were going to ruin her and he took the dog; yanking and yelling her into submission. The sweet young lab then proceeded to pee on the floor. She had no doubt given all the signs of submitting to this horrible human but he did not stop in his abuse to her. This is sadly and far too often a reality for many. New owners feeling like they should trust the trainer hand their dogs over.

I have worked with many dogs; undoing what these harsh type trainers have done. Their answer for all dogs is to literally yank them into submission. And many use the psychological tactics; undermining the owners confidence. "You are going to ruin that dog." This is the same phrase told over and over to many new owners. One young Golden who was as sweet and amazingly smart as can be went through this exact situation. Unfortunately the owners turned this dog completely over to the trainer, only returning weeks later to find that their once bubbly and happy Golden was now a shell of what once was. They were mortified and explained to me; "we didn't know." Together we worked with the dog; lots of positive confidence building and he recovered nicely and is the amazing dog that he always was.

A dog trainers job is to build the guardians confidence; creating a sense of "I can do it" for the guardian. Afterall when the training is over; you are going to be alone with your dog so you have to have the knowledge to do it yourself. The training is mostly the owner; teaching the owner how to teach their dog.

Most recently I talked to a guardian who told me of the horror stories she experienced with a trainer. She said "they were so mean to her." She hated it and can't believe her dog had to go through this experience. So stop right here.

If you go into a situation and your gut tells you "NO." Then leave. Do not put blind faith in someone who is doing an unjust to your dog. Even if someone has been a trainer for 25-30 years; they could possibly be the worst there is. It was the "there has to be a better way" feeling that lead me to find positive training so many years ago. I started my training with one of the worst; harsh and demanding woman trainers there is. My experiences from this fuel my passionate about spreading the positive word. Our dogs deserve better.

There are so many people out there who are looking to make a buck anyway they can. They have no conscience; no passion for animals. These type people are driven by greed and power. I have met many trainers who are power hungry and use their physical power over innocent animals to fuel their pathetic thirst. I'm sick of it; but still today there are so many people who just don't know that there is a better way. So tell your friends; throw the word around as much as you can, positive reinforcement. With these two words alone; typed in to surf the web can bring a wealth of information for anyone who is interested.

There will hopefully be a day when we look back shaking our heads stating "we use to yank dogs around with a chain around their neck?"

Grooming old dogs

Yep; I groomed an old dog yesterday. Tilley has not had a grooming since she was hit with Vestibular disease. She's had a couple of showers but this was the first attempt to do a full body groom. Several weeks ago I did clip her face and her feet but not the full on clip. Standing on the table is out of the question at this point; I gave it a quick try a couple of weeks ago and she was unable to even stand. Being in a crooked state does not lend itself to standing on a table up off of the ground, so ground it was.

First I shaved straight down the middle; from head to tail. I made a 6" swath down the center and gave her the extra support when she wavered. With her top central area complete I got out a big towel and lay her down and over on her side. After only a couple of minutes I realized that my back was explaining to me in no uncertain terms why we put dogs on a table to groom them. As my lower back burned I performed the one handed clip; one hand on the ground for support and one on the clippers. Tilley fell asleep; this is definitely the way to go for the old crooked gal. But this was not the way to go for myself; my back was screaming. After having three kids I sort of have a lower back issue; I'm sure many women do.

I shifted and leaned and clipped as fast as I could. I told Tilley "this is definitely going to be utility." Think she cared? Not in the least. There was alot of hair to come off; I shaved it all. I knew that in the shape she is in now that she could not tolerate a longer length shave. I typically use my 3/4" at this time of year; leaving some length for the chilly evenings. But it had to be quick and the 3/4" clip is not that.

Throughout the process I got up; asked Tilley to stay and bent backwards in attempts to undo my hunching over and then right back at it. It was a fairly quick and easy event and it was over, thankfully. I helped her to her feet; and as she shook her beautiful blue curls flew in the wind. She seemed to have a smile on her face and proceeded to do her mock speed around. This is basically the idea of what she would have once done; racing around the backyard with per joy. She felt great, it was obvious and I quickly forgot about my back seeing her so happy to be much lighter.

Then it was into the shower for a quick suds up; condition and drip dry. Again; not a back friendly event. Someday I will get my standing stainless tub. It was hot yesterday; really hot so she was dry in no time at all. Once she was dry I did a few touch ups with the scissors; beautiful. There is nothing like a freshly clean shaved and bathed poodle. Plus it gives me the chance to see just how she's looking under all the hair and for a 13 year old who is now crooked with Vestibular she's look'n mighty fine.

In her golden years she needs the extra tlc; lastnight she was covered up with two blankets for bed. And this morning she is sleeping on Dad's pillow underneath Dad's comforter. Nice. Things change drastically as a dog ages; grooming is one thing that calls for a big change in the groomer. Some groomers will not do old or aging dogs because they take much more time. But for those who have the patience and take the extra time that is needed; they do it for the love of an old dog.

Comparison

We all do it; I think it is human nature, we compare. Comparing does not have boundaries; pretty much anything can be compared and compare we will. I often hear about a neighbor's dog being so good or so bad; many of my clients let me in on their comparing. This is when I try my hardest to stand up for their dog; the one who is being compared. Canines are a very diverse species; even though they are all dogs, no two are alike. And for that fact alone we humans can find it difficult not to compare. We compare our dogs to all the other dogs that we've met along the way; we even tend to compare our living breathing dogs to an idea of the "perfect" dog we have in our heads.

Let me be the one to tell you that there is no perfect dog; they have faults and flaws just like we do. They actually have far less flaws than humans and shine alot brighter much of the time. So what happens if you end up with a dog very far from what you had conjured up in your head? You learn to love and appreciate that wonderful dog of yours. The three dogs that I have now are all very, very different. In fact my two standard poodles are probably the most different. Over the last 25 years I've lived with several standard poodles and no two have been the slightest bit similar. I like it that way; you sure learn alot from each individual.

Comparing often happens when we lose a dog. With the addition of a new dog to our life we hold great expectations. In our day to day life we may see the smallest of differences in the newbie and focus on those as imperfections. This new dog is not living up to the mold your great past dog left; and to be honest, there is no way they could. This is not your old dog; this is your new dog and this new dog is a completely different animal. I often advise people when they have lost a heart dog to go with the opposite sex this time; or choose a dog that looks entirely different. This can sometimes help to lessen the comparing.

When Luke entered our lives it was big; I'd never lived with a reactive dog before. I chose him out of his whole litter because he was the one with the waggingest tail; the one that would stop jumping on me. He is the same today as he was at the age of 7 weeks old. Yes he came with alot of issues; none of which Tilley has. But never have I lived with a dog that has taught me so much and I love him with all my heart; issues and all.

When I think of adding a new canine member to our family I think about the fact that this will be an entirely new entity in our home. It is exciting to get to know your new dog. As someone who does regular litter temperament testing; it always amazes me how different 7 week old puppies can be from one another. All raised in the same home; by the same Mother with the same experiences and yet they are all very different. Ah; dogs................one of a kind. ;)

Life with dogs

Well; I'm without my laptop this morning. I brought it in to get fixed yesterday and they tell me 2-3 weeks; not acceptable. Funny how I love to write in bed with the dogs surrounding me; but put me at the desk and I sit here staring at the monitor. It is not condusive to creativity writing; it feels like work. So I'm trying something new; I have my keyboard in bed and my monitor is on the other side of the room which I cannot see to read so I'm thinking this will mean alot of proof reading when I'm done, but at least I'm comfy.

I wanted to write about the evolution of our lives with dogs this morning. We've come a long way baby but we still have mountains to climb before we get there. In the beginning; approximately 15,000 years ago we had a win win relationship. We tossed food to the wolves and in turn they protected our village. Then they joined us in our village and helped us to hunt for the food that we shared. Not long after that they were our dogs and they played an important part in human lives. They helped to hunt, protect, and work in many different facets of the human world. This was the relationship in the beginning; and a critical one at that.

Then some years later many humans took on a less physical type lifestyle; opting to leave the harsh life of farming to live in a more urban neighborhood; leaving home to work. Today there are still dogs that work hand in paw with their human. These dogs lead a more traditional type lifestyle; closer to the way it all started. But for those who left the life of a working dog; there was a big transition awaiting them.

As time passed and things changed drastically in our society; dogs soon became a luxury item for many who chose or were forced to leave the farming life. Dogs started to change physically; smaller lap dogs, larger protectors, more specifically; dogs were being bred to pull out traits that suited our needs. But now that many humans lived in cities; what were city dogs to do? Life got really boring with no job to do for our dogs. Some folks; those really doggy type folks did alot with their dogs; but many dogs lived a boring existance, just sort of hanging out all day.

Then things changed again; with the introduction of so many purebred dogs there was a more clear cut distinction between humans. Those who could afford the elite fancy purebreds; those who had purebred working dogs who had been bred to bring out specific drives, and those with the mixes which were most average families. This went on for sometime; and here we are today.

Of course this blog could be a book; there is so much to write on the life of dogs with humans, correct? But here we are today with dogs and the way I look at it; we are making progress. Although we definitely have times when we slide backwards with regards to evolution. In general we are plodding away in a positive direction. To see so many people supporting humane treatment towards dogs; spending many waking hours in support of cruelty legislations and many who spend their hard earned money and time rescuing dogs, this is the positive direction.

Many more people are rescuing dogs; both purebred and mixed. There is more importance put on the general life of a dog. Countless guardians now work to ensure that their dog has a fulfilled life as a dog; making sure that their doggy needs are met. This is huge. A slide backwards are things like the "Paris Hilton" effect. Sadly she alone promoted the "dogs are accessories" idea. And now many tiny dogs are sitting in shelters and rescues because of it.

From the smallest pocket pooch to the largest giant breed or mix; a dog is a dog. They all need to run, smell, interact, play and receive an education on how to live in a human world. I love all dogs; all the mixes, whether they are a designer dog or a dog that is a culmination of many breeds. I love all the purebreds; I love dogs as a whole. Like human individuality; so is there dog individuality. The vast difference in humans is equaled to the difference in dogs. This enables everyone to live very different lives and be happy. As long as our dogs needs are being met; education is being shared about how best to treat and care for our dogs, if we as humans are teaching compassion to our children then we are headed in the right direction.

The more humans that fight for the rights of dogs; the better our world will be. A more compassionate human? That is evolution at its finest.

Epilepsy

Was it tough to get up this morning or what? We slept in and it's already nearly 7:30, whoa. I had a not so great sleep lastnight; funny how dogs can wake up and then be asleep in less than a minute as we lay there trying our hardest to obtain the unobtainable. So at 3:21 this morning both my husband and I were bolted out of bed. Luke has taken to sleeping on our bed for longer periods of time now. We both felt the bed shaking and heard the heavy breathing. "Is he having a seizure?" came out of both our mouths at the sametime. And just in time for Luke to move on in his dreaming; he was dreaming, not seizuring. Geesh; okay now that I'm a wake.

Luke is epileptic; and I hate to actually say this but I shall knock on some wood. He hasn't had a seizure for sometime now thankfully. He started seizuring at the age of 3.5; the normal onset age is between 3 and 5 years of age. We have been able to pinpoint his seizures to stress or chemicals pretty much. Stress can play a large role in many dogs that have seizures. That said; stress is dealt with differently by each dog, so how much stress is too much stress is very individual. Luke is a stress monkey so it doesn't take too much to push him over the edge.

Toxins also can play a big part in seizures and epilepsy. We keep all lawn fertilizer, weed killer type things off of our lawn. And I do not use harsh chemicals in our home; I opt for Baking soda and Vinegar or micro fiber cloths. All dogs with epilepsy are different so it is up to us and with the help of our vet to figure out the best approach as far as treatment. We have opted to go the natural way; with feeding real food and using management in the stress department. Luke has Grand Mal seizures (they are very bad) which are difficult to experience with him but they are luckily far apart. He may go as long as 6 months or more before having another.

Drugs used for epilepsy have side effects just like any other chemical drug. So do your research, know what you are giving your dog and make the best choice that you feel is right for your dog.

Dog breeds that are more prone to epilepsy are the Keeshond, Tervueren, Cocker Spaniel, Poodle, Collie, German Shepherd, Irish Setter, Golden Retriever, Dachshund, Labrador Retriever, Saint Bernard, Miniature Schnauzer, Siberian Husky, and Wire-haired Terrier.

Canine epilepsy network

Canine epilepsy resource

EPI Guardian Angels

Canine Massage @ Il Fornaio

I had a very exciting lunch yesterday; one that I'd been anticipating for a while. First I had been asked to choose our meeting place; I chose Il Fornaio in Irvine. Il Fornaio is a wonderfully authentic Italian restaurant with amazing food. Second I was to meet the owner of a Japanese Holistic Dog care facility; Dog Relation and her husband. We spent two hours over lunch discussing dog behavior and living with dogs both in America and Japan. Ms. Matsue found me through my blog; pretty amazing and evidence of just how small the internet makes our world. I sat completely fascinated as she explained about working with behaviors and health issues through the art of massage. Of course we discussed my dogs; mostly Luke and his reactive behaviors.

I explained about life with dogs here in America; training and nutrition. And after much of our conversation; I discovered that there are similarities and differences with regards to living with dogs in Japan compared to here. Being that we were discussing dogs and everything about them I felt we could have easily continued well into the dinner hour. Learning about alternative methods of dealing with all things canine is always enlightening. I am always searching for new ways for people to connect with their dog; and this is definitely one more option. When you meet someone who has the same outlook on the canine/human connection it is intriguing to here their perspective.

I had the best time and another fabulous squash raviolli dish; my favorite. I look forward to June when Ms. Matsue will be bringing some of her students back to visit many local dog facilities and events here in America. They will also be visiting my home; meet my gang and I will discuss behavior, the canine/human connection, nutrition and general life with dogs here in the US.

Tilley is 13 today

It is Tilley's birthday today; this is a big one. She is 13 on the 13th so it is suppose to be her lucky birthday and 13 is my lucky number so it should be an extra special day. I do have something very cool happening other than her birthday; but more on that in a later blog. So today's blog is about Tilley and fitting that it is #1001 blog at that. The first thing I want to do is to thank Tilley's breeder; Glenna Mae of Kalchan poodles.

I first saw Tilley when she was three weeks old; I didn't actually see her as an individual but saw the mass of poodle puppies as I peeked through a doorway. On that day I did meet Grandma, Sister, Aunt and Uncle, all of who I was very impressed with. So after my first visit; I returned home to wait the 5 weeks until I could return to choose my gal out of the pile I'd seen. I had pick of litter; nice.

When I returned three weeks later they sure had changed; there were little black puppies running everywhere. With Glenna Mae's assistance; Tilley was chosen to come home with me and as they say the rest is history. Tilley has been the most amazing dog anyone could ever have. She is what I often refer to her as "Lassie in poodle clothing." Perhaps now she has actually surpassed Lassie and should be only known as Tilley. She truly is a celebrity all on her own; or at least she should be.

The only issue that Tilley has ever had is her drive; it's off the charts. And because of this she became an amazing frisbee dog appearing on Pet Star twice. Over all the years of my dog training Tilley accompanied me often as a neutral influence. Often dogs with fear or aggressive issues were helped along with her presence. She has been and is an amazing companion; loving, devoted and the ultimate Miss Manners. Her bond with my son is one of the most intense I've seen; each sharing immense love for one another. They grew up together; Tilley joined our family when my son was a young 7 year old and they have been inseparable since that day.

This is a big day to celebrate; with Tilley's recent Vestibular issue we could not be happier that it was but a hickup in her wonderful life. As we celebrate today we will look back over the 13 years spent with such an amazing dog who has influenced and enriched our lives to a degree that words do our relationship justice. So here's to the girl; Tilley.

#1000

From my pack to yours.

I don't believe it; I really don't, this is my 1000th blog. That's a whole whack of writing if you think about it. My very first blog was almost three years ago in June 2007. At that time I had no idea that I'd love it; thinking only that I'd give this blogging thing a try. And here I am still loving it and very much as passionate about the dogs that I write about.

I thought long and hard yesterday about what this 1000th blog should be about; I got lots of good ideas. But then my daughter offered that maybe I should write about some of my favorite blogs and what I've learned over the years of blogging. I thought that was the most fitting for the 1000th. So this 1000th blog will be a bit of reminising; a bit of what drives me to blog and what I've learned in the time it has taken to write 999 blogs. I have alot to say; I guess that's why you start a blog, correct?

Sharing knowledge has always been something I've felt very strongly about. When I find out something new, an interesting fact, have a new experience I like to share it. So blogging helps me to do that. Obviously the subject of dogs is what makes me tick; always has been. I love researching dogs; whether the subject has to do with genetics, a new twist on training, discovering the ins and outs of behavior, nutritional facts or new activities for dogs, I'm in. If one person reads my blog; learns something new about life with dogs, then I've achieved what I set out to do.

I regularly hear; "you have the greatest job." And yes I have to agree; my day job allows me to chill with dogs. From modifying behavior as a trainer, writing about dogs to capturing the their individuality through photography I am always watching dogs, heck I watch dogs when I'm not working. And if you are a loyal reader you know how much emphasis I put on watching your own dog and the body language they display in attempts to communicate. Canine behavior is fascinating and how humans react to it can make all the difference in the world; as in this past blog.

The world of dogs is ever changing; positive training is becoming more in the forefront; although we have taken a step back with the popularity of the conventional trainer on television. Hopefully we will get back on the positive train soon and move on to bigger and better things with regards to modifying dogs through positive techniques. More compassion is being shown the species in general with rescue groups popping up everywhere and more emphasis being put on saving dogs. A subject that use to be taboo is now out there for all to know about; Puppy Mills and the real hard facts. No one can honestly say at this point; that they didn't know about the whole Puppy Mill thing. I would hope now; after all the shows on tv exposing these places to not see people frequenting the petstores that have puppies for sale; but there are still people in there and still buying dogs. This is a subject that I will continue to put out there.

And you; the readers, I love getting feedback I'm a feedback nut. As my husband always says "feedback is a gift." This is so true; it may not be a gift that is always desirable but it gives so much. When I receive feedback on a blog it lets me know what you the readers are thinking; what you want to hear or just that what I'm writing seems to have touched a nerve. In the almost 3 years that I have been writing this blog I have only had one very negative response. That was a gentleman who wanted to remain anonymous (typical) and attack my positive approach to training. He was rude and offensive; but instead of letting it bother me it simply fueled me to keep on going.

Through all of these blogs I have met some amazing people and learned that there are so many huge dog lovers in this world of ours. The love and compassion that humans feel towards dogs truly brings everyone together with a similar purpose. And through the amazing world of the web we are all like one huge dog loving family. Information is passed quickly around the dog world; spreading news and information for all.

I try to write what I know; sharing the good and the bad. Not all of my blogs are happy and many days I write through the tears; this so that we can all learn the depth and dedication of a canine. With so little they give us so much; in so many ways. But we are all learning; and learning is a win win for all involved. Many of my blogs are intense in nature; in order to drive a message home I cut to the chase, the tough love type writings. In sharp contrast are the simple love of dogs blogs; sightings of "the raw connection."

I want to thank you all for hanging with me and talking dogs. I will hopefully be writing for a longtime to come; it brings me much happiness. So I raise my virtual glass of champagne to all the dogs; the dogs in our past, present and future. And to all of the humans who love them and work selflessly to make a better life for our dogs. With the passing of each dog that has touched our life; we learn and we grow making life an evolution of oneself; are you evolving into the person your dog thinks you are?

Git'r done

Good morning; todays blog is #999 so that means tomorrow is the big day. I cannot believe that I have blogged this much; I enjoy it so much in the morning that it never feels like a chore. I should have a party or something; I'll ponder on it today. But for now I want to discuss my book; my training book that has been in the works for several years. It is a process and at times it definitely feels like a chore but I have now decided that it must be completed. NO more pushing it aside for the photo books; I have to git'r done.

My book is at the re-read stage; this is my obstacle. Being that I wrote it I find that it is a task to read it over and over until it is exactly the way I want it. But I am not doing any other books until it is printed and out there. It is a positive behavior book more so than a training book; the training books will come later. Having been an inhome trainer for so many years there is alot that goes on behavior wise before you even get to training. Of course when I say training I am referring to the official stuff like sit, down, stay and come etc. But it is all training.

When a dog joins your family there is so much to learn; both for you and for your new dog. I like to call this the education rather than training. Learning how to live the day to day with the new family. Adding a new dog to the family requires you to step into a zone; an educator zone. What is an educator zone you ask? The educator zone is a state of awareness; the ever watchful eye that a new dog guardian must keep about themselves. It is very easy for dogs to train us very quickly and before you know it; you can be trying to undo a behavior.

Often guardians set aside time to train but other than that the dogs does what they want. This can lead to a not so harmonious existance which in turn can result in the "outside dog." It is best to tackle living together head on; and right from the start. Nipping behaviors in the bud is far easier than trying to get rid of a behavior that is well set in. So staying in your educator zone helps you to see things before they grow.

So I must get at it; I will let you all know when it's done. And tomorrow will undoubtedly be a big blog; hey it will be #1000.

Compassion

Compassion: a feeling of deep sympathy and sorrow for another who is stricken by misfortune, accompanied by a strong desire to alleviate the suffering. So what happens when this is at a low level or missing in a human? The complete lack of compassion is a scary thing; but as in most human emotions there are degrees of compassions, levels so to speak.

Because this is a dog blog I am speaking about compassion with regards to dogs or animals in general. When you read an article that deals with a lack of compassion in another human it often triggers another emotion; anger. The human is indeed a complicated concoction of emotions which in its complete form is not always a great recipe. The concern for animal rights are growing; with the help of many great groups. Abuse on animals are no longer going unnoticed and unpunished. Do we really want people who would purposely injure and cause pain to an animal wandering around in society; I think not. There are many cases of animal abuse being a prerequisite to human abuse. This article lists a few (not for children).

Many states are now making animal abuse crimes a Felony. Its about time. Of course this is a slow process and a difficult one. There are many people in charge who do not think that an abuse inflicted on an animal should be punishable by prison time. In my opinion; anyone caught abusing an animal is someone we need off the streets and out of the general public.

This link will bring you to an Animal abuse statutes across the US.

We need to put more emphasis on compassion; as well as punish the abusers. There needs to be strict rules and regulations implemented on breeding dogs. Some of the millers are the worst offenders with regards to abuse. And justice needs to be dealt to those who abuse and hold no compassion for animals.

Fussy, fussy, fussy

What do you do when you have a dog that just won't eat? I've never had a dog like this before and I hope to never have one again; one with this fussy food issue. I think that over the last 9.5 years I've only lost it twice; over the food issue that is. And losing it means whapping myself in the the head and saying a few choice words under my breath. It is tough when you spend time making something that you think that he'll love only to have him come in; look at the food and leave. "Oh no you don't, get back in here and eat." Unfortunately forcing doesn't work; especially with a boy as sensitive as this.

So he is catered to; that's right I said it, he is spoiled. But then again who doesn't like to be waited on? Who doesn't like having a warm apple fritter and a keg of coffee delivered to you in bed on a rainy Sunday morning? I sure do. Back to Luke; he is on a weight gain diet, must be nice. I am trying to put just a few pounds on his skinny little body in the event that something should happen and he wouldn't eat for a couple of days. This alone could be very dangerous with such a lean guy.

There are things that Luke loves; but even when he loves them he does not eat with gusto. He is a dainty eater; don't even try offer him a large sized piece of anything, he'll just drop it on the floor for our Jack Russell (piranha) to devour. He likes small pieces; and then and only then will he even think about he eating a more substantial sized piece of food. For a week he has been on an eating role; very nice indeed. And amazingly enough he already put on a pound or two.

He is simply not normal; even my son can often be heard saying "what kind of dog doesn't eat meat?" This after offering Luke a piece of chicken or steak. Nope; he has to be in the mood and when he is, I keep the ball rolling. If he is in a mood to eat then eat is what we do; it is a very small window that I take full advantage of.

One of Luke's favorite foods is buttered toast; just like his Mom ;) So in the morning when I get breakfast and bring it up to bed I make extra. This morning I made two pieces of toast just for the dogs. Is buttered toast the best thing for him to be eating? No. Is warm apple fritters the best thing that I could be eating? No. But some things are just good for your soul; and if Luke loves buttered toast, buttered toast it is. And luckily buttered toast will put on the pounds. We eat organic whole grain bread so it's not so bad; much better than an apple fritter. ;)

In a perfect world Luke would eat like his house siblings; the girls here chow down anything you put in front of them. Jessie of course will eat just about anything at lightening speed and Tilley is the same but slower; choosing to enjoy her food a tad. So you do what you have to; I never thought I'd be down on the my knees trying to conjure up something that I can say to get my dog to eat, but alas here I am.

Time away

I'm a home body; I love nothing more than an evening when we are all snuggled on the couch watching a good movie and of course the dogs love this too. I have a great job; I make my own hours which means I'm home alot. But there are times when I need to go out; or want to go out without the dogs and the dogs have to accept this as part of life with humans. So it is important to start teaching them how to be okay with it right from the start. Many people try not to go out when they have a new dog; often having someone sit with the new addition if they are required to go out. Not good. If your dog is never alone; then they will not handle being alone well.

This is the same whether you have one dog or six, they should all be okay being alone. I have three dogs and I often take two out leaving one at home; it is good for them. Dogs need to be able to deal with things on their own; just like people. If you are always with your dog offering no experience with being alone; it can be a very frightening situation for them when the time comes and they must be alone. All dogs would prefer to be with us all the time; but in our world that just doesn't happen.

I have worked with dogs who have never been separated from one another; it was not an easy task. The two dogs were so preoccupied by the fact that the other dog was missing that we got no where. I left the family with homework for several weeks; they had to take each dog out separately for a walk for a month before we could even start obedience. This did two things; allowed the dog on the walk to learn how to deal with life outside of the home on their own and the one left at home learned that they could survive being alone at home. This made for two much more adaptable dogs.

The more varied experiences you give your dog when they are young the better. And that includes being alone; teaching them that being alone is okay. You will return and you will again leave. Never leaving can actually cause a very serious issue; separation anxiety. A dog with true separation anxiety is a very stressed out dog and no dog should live with this amount of upset.

If you have a dog with separation anxiety already then you have alot of work to do. You will need to start with baby steps and work up to longer absences and may run into obstacles along the way. The most important thing to remember is that dogs do not act in malice; a stressed dog simply reacts to stress. All behaviors are attempts to relieve their stress. That can be displayed in many forms; some dogs actually try to leave the home to find you, others deficate in the home or crate and others bark or howl. I have worked with alot of separation cases; one was so bad that the dog hurled itself at windows until he finally broke through to get out.

The common solution for separation anxiety is to get another dog; this does not always work. The problem is you; the dog that displays separation anxiety has problems with YOU leaving. The addition of another dog can leave the guardian with more work and the original dog still anxious. You need to start working with the dog that is exhibiting the anxiety and get it under control before adding another dog to the equation.

When you start working on an issue or need to leave; entrances and exits should always be low key, yes easier said than done. Remember the bigger the theatric's the more attention is put onto these events. So slip out and slip in creating a "no big deal" scenario. Find an experienced positive trainer who deals with behavior modifiction to get you onto the right track.

How often do you see dogs sitting in parking lots in their owners cars? I see it alot and no matter what the temperature is outside I shake my head. "Do you really think your dog enjoys this?" Typically the dogs look very stressed or bored beyond belief. A quick errand is one thing but shopping or working all day with your dog left in the car? Please, leave them at home in your nice comfy house.

Spending as much time with your dog as possible is a great thing; but never leaving them alone is not. So; go out and have some fun alone. You and your dog will be much happier if you do.

Rescue gone wrong

We moved to California from Canada approx. 11 years ago. On the day of the move it was a hectic one; a plane ride with two stops from Montreal to Orange County, CA. Me; the three kids and three dog, it was a highly stressful day. Skipping to a year later; I lost my beloved Clyde, my heart dog. He was 13 and at the end of his time here on earth. After a very short mourning period I was ready to add another member to the family; I searched for a rescue dog. I first contacted the local poodle rescue; I believe it was in LA. "We don't adopted dogs out to renters!" Yes we were renting; we wanted to live here a bit before choosing where we were going to buy. So I was not getting a dog from this woman. Imagine; I still can't believe she wouldnt' adopt a dog to me; Sherri of Just dogs with Sherri. ;)

My point here is that I had a magnificent home to offer; I work my own hours, had two other dogs, had standard poodles for 25 years and I was not good enough. So instead of placing a dog into a great home she kept them hoarded in her house; afterall no one was as good as she was for these dogs. This is a sad but all to common path that some rescues can take. I have heard of many rescue people turned hoarders; they have the best intention but something just goes wrong. Now I am not talking about all rescues; I have the greatest respect for the ones who do it right. The people who rescue a few at a time and do their utmost to get these dogs placed into forever homes.

There are other rescue groups; one in particular who again started out wanting to do right by the dogs, hbut she grew and grew and grew. Unfortunately money can be a very evil thing when you get a taste of it and it takes over. This rescue who use to take in only Great Danes and find homes for them now takes in anything and everything that is large; some not even large breeds. And unfortunately the dogs that she supposedly rescues are bred; she lists just about every breed on her page and available puppies. Anyone with the slightest bit of common sense knows what's going on; but she denies this.

This same rescue demands big bucks for her "rescue" dogs and it is a CASH ONLY transaction. And what happens if it doesn't work out? Most reputible rescues will take the dog back with open arms; afterall they want it to work for the dog. This alleged rescue group gives you a credit; that's right, no money back. She keeps the money and you hopefully can get a dog sometime down the road. Sadly I have worked with several dogs from this rescue and they come with alot of behavior issues due to the large amount of dogs that are held there and the way they are kept quiet.

Rescuing dogs is an admirable thing to do; if it is done right, if it is done for the dogs and money has nothing to do with it. Yes it can be expensive; and the rescuers should get some of the money that they put into it back. Typically that is around a couple hundreds; often they ask nothing. There are some amazing people in this world; I've met many who open their homes, take in needy dogs and work around the clock to find new homes for these dogs. It is a selfless job and I give them huge kudos.

But when it does go wrong; it can go wrong in a big way. From hoarding to breeding for money; it is sad indeed. Rescuing, fostering and adopting out takes a huge commitment from dedicated people. And sadly now there are rescuers needed for some of the rescuers. So again; do your research, visit the facility and if somethings seems not right, you are probably right.

The iditarod starts today

All eyes will be on Alaska; funny I was just talking about the Iditarod yesterday. The Iditarod has been around for many years; 43 to be exact. The first race which was run in 1969; was a shortened version of approximately 27 miles compared to todays race which consists of over 1150 miles. The Iditarod starts from Anchorage and ends in Nome, Alaska. And as much as I am a Northerner; I love the cold, you would never catch me out there in that cold.

There is much controversy surrounding the Iditarod; many of the animal rights groups feel that it is cruel and inhumane to ask these dogs to do this. Each year dogs die running the iditarod; last year 5 dogs were lost. In the history of the Iditarod over 146 dogs have died. Something needs to be changed; why can the race not be sized down? It makes no sense to run these type of distances in the harsh elements of Alaska.

The dogs that do run the Iditarod are not regular dogs. They are bred to run and running is all they know. But running in these extreme conditions; never knowing what lays ahead weather wise is simply throwing caution to the wind. There are alot of sports out there that are dangerous and there are those who love nothing more than to participate in these sports but when it involves an animal who has no choice in the matter; that is another thing all together.

As the sport grows and becomes more popular to the general public; there will be more eyes upon the sport. This can only be a good thing with regards to the dogs safety. You can only hide so much with the whole world watching.

The Iditarod

USA Today 2009 Iditarod article

Standard Poodle mush team

There are lots of pulling fun you can have with your dog. And you don't need snow to mush; I had the opportunity to shoot some of these dogs and wonderful mushers. What fun. Urban mushing

Skijoring; yes you need snow for this one but what a blast. I have done this with my guys and we all loved it. Skijoring

Stupid? I think not.

Good Friday morning; the sun is just coming up here in SoCal, my three dogs are nice and snug in bed and I have my coffee, nice. I wanted to discuss the concept of stupid dogs today. There are a lot of people out there who think that they are living with a stupid dog; I often hear this and the delivery sounds something like "well he's a bulldog," or "you know; she is a sight hound." First let me state the obvious; ALL DOGS ARE INDIVIDUALS. Okay; some breeds are predisposed to certain hardwired behaviors and particular lines can carry behavior genetic material but other than that, they are all different.

I say that there are no stupid dogs; only people who haven't found the right button to push as of yet. And for many that means that they may always feel like they have a stupid dog for the simple reason that it can often take a very experienced dog trainer to find the button. But experience is the only thing that is needed; flexibility is a more viable trait when looking for the magic button. I've worked with more bulldogs than you can imagine; most people consider the breed to be doomed in the obedience department. But I am here to tell you that they are so smart that they have us all convinced that they are not. We all know humans who play the "stupid" card when it suits their needs, right?

When I get a call for a new training session or behavior issue; I try not to let the breed or mix of breeds interfere. I meet the dog and am often surprised by the combination of a certain behavior and a breed. Aggressive Golden retriever? Fearful Rottweiller? Problem child Standard Poodle? What?????? That's right; dogs do not come out of cookie cutters, although many look like they do. You must look at the inside of a dog; the heart and the brain to work strategically with the individual. I repeatedly see behaviors that could be interpreted as stupid; but more often than not it is a lack of understanding or the unwillingness of a trainer to venture further.

When a dog doesn't "get it;" it does not mean that they are being dominant or stupid. It simply means that you have been unsuccessful in your attempt to create a positive reaction to your action. Dogs who are soft; the ones that are not comfortable offering up a new behavior when they are not quite sure, these dogs are not stupid they just lack confidence. Once you can tap into that then you're off to the races. Some dogs shut down easily; this is behavior is often lost on guardians. Shutting down is caused by stress; stress itself can be caused by a plethora of situations, so finding the cause can be like finding a missing piece of a puzzle.

Of course there are dogs who are so smart that they can and have outwitted their guardian. I've seen this one often; the owner thinks that they are in charge and in reality it is the dog running the show. And these are not all the "smart" breeds. What makes me tick is entirely different from what makes the next person tick. The approach, delivery and response to training has to be thought out for each individual. I've worked with sight hounds who stood stone faced while their owner attempted to teach a simple behavior............stood and stood. Even with a rabbit like lure, nothing. You must sit back and watch; watch all the signs and in this particular instance it was the smallest lack of boldness that held the secret. The cure to this problem was a simple touch. The slightest touch on the side of the dogs face held the secret to success.

Another case was frustration; this is something I see often and a fallout behavior that I watch for like a hawk. The dog kept walking out of the room "yep a bulldog." After each attempt at a new behavior he simply got up and left. He was frustrated; why sit here and try and try without success was his mindset. So we pulled out the big guns, chicken and he never left again. He needed a ton of feedback and praise to reassure him that he was on the right track. Even once weaned off the treats he fully enjoyed his education sessions as did his guardian.

Just like a child who does not succeed in a tradition school setting who is in fact amazingly intelligent; it takes an open minded teacher and a bit of work to discover what makes that individual mind tick. The same is true for our canines; they are all different and amazing in their own special way. What makes your dog tick?

When it's not your dog; a touchy, feely situation

It should be mandatory; required reading of a written protocol on how to approach and interact with dogs that you do not live with. There is infact much information on the subject but unfortunately most of the general public do not read it; nor would they adhere to the knowledge once found. When speaking about strange dogs; meaning dogs that you do not live with, this fact alone is the most important to consider. Dogs allow a great deal more touchy feely from their pack members (those humans who live with the dog). In this blog I am strictly speaking about interactions with dogs that you do not live with.

When you approach a dog; you should remain neutral and non threatening. I am often called out on submissive peeing, displays of aggression or general fear behavior. When we sit down and start the discussion about these unwanted behaviors it is often with strangers. Strangers are strangers; people who the dog does not live with. There are degrees of strangers; some are placed in the friends category, some are acquaintances and then there are the real strangers. It is the dog who will display the differences towards these humans; the humans should stick to the protocol. Once in (the dog's circle); the dog will then set down the rules of what is wanted or unwanted. The humans cannot make advances without first considering the dogs wishes. And those wishes can be clearly seen in body language.

Let's face it; for many humans, dog language is completely foreign. They don't watch it and even if they did they cannot deceifer it. My basic protocl is as follows.

- Do not engage with a dog when you first approach. Volumes of information will be received (if you are watching) simply by your approach.

- Let the dog sniff you; watch the interaction closely but do not give direct eye contact.

- If the dog seems comfortable with your presence then a touch under the head or neck is where to start. After that there is no need of any further touching.

- If the dog backs away then leave it at that; do not approach the dog. The dog who moves away is not comfortable with your presence and surely does not want you closer.

- Never hug a strange dog. If you have made it into the friend category, then you are more than likely going to be accepted for a greater degree of touch, but don't push it.

- Never, ever pick up a strange dog. I have only once ever picked up a strange dog and that was because I was protecting this particular dog from a very large aggressive dog. Even though it was for a very specific reason and in an emergency; it was still not at all appreciated from the little dog and as a result I was given alot of dirty looks after it.

Usually even very fearful dogs can tolerate presence if there is no eye contact.
Just the other day I had an amazing example of proper and improper approach to a strange dog. I met someone with a large breed dog; I approached making an imaginary semi-circle, not a direct line. As I got closer I sort of walked up to the side of them without looking at the dog. Later a man approached the same dog; he made direct eye contact and was coming straight at the dog. What happened next was textbook; the dog growled, it was very low and deep, but clear. The dog meant no harm, he was not being aggressive; he was simply stating "that's far enough, I don't know you." The dog then moved away.

The back-off or move away are clear messages of a dog's comfort level. This is often where it all goes wrong and it is no way the dogs fault. It is completely a human blunder; our nature is to convince, right? "It's okay; I won't hurt you" as we get even closer. Or the people who will not be swayed in their belief that all dogs love them. Typically these are the people who are growled at or bitten; the ones that push. Dogs are not humans, they cannot be persuaded that they want to meet you in an up close and personal type manner.

Another great example is from a dog that I'd been working with. This dog was a large scent hound type; he was a rescue and not long in his new home and a bit sketchy about my presence. We had worked together for probably 3 weeks before the incident. On this day I walked into the home; we had a very casual greeting, nothing direct. I sat down in a chair to talk to the owner when the dog felt sure enough to come and smell me. The fact that I was sitting in a chair made me less threatening and I was directing my attention to the owner, not the dog. But because I was in a chair I was lower when he approached and he smelled the side of my face; that's close. I talked to him as he continued to check me out at close range when I turned to say something to him. Everything changed in a instant; by the turning of my head ever so slightly I was now looking at him. His ears went up; his pupils dilated and all the skin around his mouth moved forward just before he gave a huge warning bark right in my face. Instantly I turned my head in a calm manner and completely defused the situation.

Dogs say so much before ever needing to vocalize. In our human world many are accused of not listening; in the dog world you must watch first and listen second.