Real service dogs





I was away this past weekend, so spent several hours at the airport.  As soon as I got there I saw this little sweetie and sat down beside her and her guardian.  Her name is Chloe and her Mom told me all about her.  She was timid but adorably sweet.  I talked to her and within a few seconds she knew that I was very dog friendly.  :)  She asked with her little eyes to come and see me.  I instinctively told her that she could come and she did.  She climbed from her Mom's lap to mine and sat quietly as we had a little visit.  When she was done she walked back over to her Mom.  

Chloe was not a service dog but a dog who enjoys the benefits of travel because of her size.  After our visit I got up and wandered around waiting to board.  I stopped beside a woman with a Border Collie mix with a service vest on.  I wondered if the dog was truly a service dog or an impostor.  More and more fakes are popping up and it's not a good thing.  

The last time  I was at the airport I talked to a man with a boxer who was not a true service dog.  She was calm and well behaved but I could tell right off.  I then talked to her guardian who told me that it was easy to get the status and he had other friends who also had "fake" service dogs.  

Yes I would love it if Elsa could legally fly by my side.  But she is not a service dog and I do not need a service dog (as of yet anyway) so she has to stay home when I fly.  With the surge of fake service dogs comes the fallout for the real service dogs and their people who need them.   As a dog trainer,  I can pretty easily spot the fakes.  Real service dogs work and the first tip off is that the dog is not working.  

People who "fake" their dog's service status jeopardize the real service dogs and the people who truly need them.  If there are more incidents by non service dogs, things will change for those who are the real service dogs.   

On the way back home I ran into the same border mix and his stood waiting with his owner.  He was very well behaved and fairly attentive.  He looked to be young so was more like a service dog in training but he still wore the vest.   I did not talk to the woman he was with but did over hear a conversation that went on after the woman left the area with her dog.  A woman and  man wondered if the dog was a real service dog.  They continued to talk about the problem with the number of fakes these days and how easy it is to buy a vest.  

If your dog is small like the demure little Chloe above; lucky for you, she can fly.  If not then they have to stay home.  When and if they allow dogs in general to fly in the cabin, I will love it.  But for now they cannot unless they have a very specific designation of service dog.  These dogs are highly trained to service what their owner needs as far as assistance.  Buying a vest or certificate does not make your dog a service dog, it makes you a fake.


Waking up to this face, nice to be home with my girl.  

Taking the moments needed for grief




                                                                       Missing Luke

I began a blog this morning about canine maintenance and looking over some photos for it.  I came across an old blog filled with photos of Luke and Elsa playing and just hanging out.  The tears came.  I decided in that moment to savor the moment.  So many days when the thought of my man (now gone) comes to me, I quickly brush it away and get on with the day.  Grief is tough, but it has to come and the sadness needs to be dealt with.

I've had a lot of grief days and it has gotten easier.  Time helps.  Learning to go through the day to day without your heart dog gets easier by simply doing it.  But you must also deal, so when I have time I let it come.  I council many people on the issue of losing their dogs and so I must listen to my own advice. 

Death is a part of life; but sometimes a life has been so entwined with your own that it is a difficult loss to lessen.  I have loved every one of my dogs over the years and suffered from deep, sad grief.  This has been the most difficult for me.  Luke was a funny and quirky boy and I miss him deeply.  I cannot tell you how many times I say "I still cannot believe he is gone."  

Memories are the greatest thing.  Time helps to lessen the blow and then the memories come.  As they come, so do the tears.  Allowing the time for them is important.  Realizing how your dog changed your life and altered you as a canine guardian is essential.  Each and every dog that walks through your life can make you a better caregiver.  

As dogs age, they need more care.  The care of a very senior dog creates an amazing time of giving back.  When the end comes, that huge amount of care leaves a void in your life.  This in itself can make the loss even more powerful.  There is nothing like caring for an old dog; I would never, ever miss it, not for a second.  And I miss it now.  

I hope that all dog guardians get to experience an amazing connection and bond with their dog.  If you have many dogs in your life then you will also have great loss.  With each loss comes sadness but that sadness comes from a great love.  I have had so much love from the dogs in my life; and I look forward to more love.  

Savor the moments with your dog; the puppy, teenager, adult, older dog and very old senior; for those moments will stay within your heart for all eternity.  Hug your dog today.   

Dogs left in cars




Don't leave your dog in the car or out of the car. 

Okay, this mornings blog is sort of a rant along with a huge question mark.  I don't get it, I truly do not get why people bring their dogs to the store to sit alone in their car.  If you simply have to run in and grab something then sure but to sit there while you shop?  I don't get it.  

Add to this a dog who terrorizes the general public who walk near or even in the vicinity of their car.  Honestly!!!!!!!!!  Last week I had to run into Trader Joe's to pick up the few things I'd forgotten the day before.  As I headed towards the front of the store I was startled by the sound of a very unhappy LARGE dog.  Looking around I could see that a lot of people were staring at one particular car and cringing.  A huge black German Shepherd had it's head out the window; well past it's shoulders and was menacingly barking at anyone who dared to walk by his car.  

Really?  Why on earth would you bring this dog to sit in the parking lot?  First off it is not considerate to those around and second it obviously puts the dog in a high state of stress.  It simply makes no sense in any way shape or form.  The dog was still there when I came out of the store and was continuing to threaten the human population in the parking lot.  Just what everyone needed as they hurried to get everything for the holidays.

Several weeks ago Elsa and I were walking along a strip mall that we frequent.  She always has someone stop to admire and talk to her so she loves walking there.  We had just gotten out of our SUV and were making our way across the parking lot when a huge brown Labrador nearly dove out of it's car window to threaten us.  Normally I try my best to stay calm and cool but this guy was too much and too sudden; he scared the sh&t out of both Elsa and I.  I hadn't seen him before hand and the tone and threat level in his voice was intense.  

I tried to compose myself and shake it off while Elsa snorted her stress snort.  Picking up our pace to get distance between us and the menace dog quickly, I listened.  The car was parked right outside a grooming shop and every person with or without a dog received the full blown threat.  Everyone was stopping and staring; it was very scary as the dog was hanging out the window far enough so that if he really tried he could have jumped out.  People made a huge circle around the car trying to avoid it. 

I was fuming mad.  Honestly, who brings their dog like this to sit in the parking lot and terrorize everyone?  Even as we were far away from the dog in the car I could hear it.  It continued and anyone who hadn't got the "mean dog in the car" memo were startled badly.  
As Elsa and I made our way back to the car I made a point to make a huge arch so that the menace would not see us.  It worked but as we climbed into the car he started on someone else innocently walking by.  

If your dog is like these dogs left to threaten everyone around, LEAVE IT AT HOME.    Bringing dogs like this does not help them get over their car guarding issue; it does however, further fuel the problem.  Many dogs who act like this when anyone comes around or anywhere near what they think their property lines run believe that all their hard threatening, works.  They bluster, growl, spit, show teeth and snarl and the people go away.  They do not know that they are going away anyway; they think it was what they did.  Basically a job well done.  So they do more. 

A dog in this state is highly stressed and extremely dangerous.  Had either one of these dogs gotten out I don't know what would have happened.  What if an innocent child was in a cart walking by as the dog dove it's half body out the window.  This is also a huge liability for the owner.  

Aside from being dangerous and putting a stressed dog into a more stressful environment; it's just plain stupid and inconsiderate.  Just because you are use to this behavior is no reason to subject others to it.  Keep your dog at home until you have time to help your dog to deal with these issues.  To do that you must be present. 

No dog wants to sit in the car while you shop.  Anything can happen when you are not present.  Why put them in that position?  Leave them at home where they are safe and sound.   

Thanksgiving and turkey- repost


Much to be thankful for this year.  Have a wonderful Thanksgiving and kick off to the season. 


Repost - because it's important. 

Thanksgiving. 

Tomorrow is Thanksgiving Day which as we all know is the kick off to the Christmas season.  Thanksgiving day and the season to follow can be taxing on our dogs.  We may be heading off and leaving them at home; or having a houseful of guests that they are not use to.  No matter what you are doing for Thanksgiving, make sure to consider your dog/dogs.  Hustle and bustle can lead to stress in humans and canines alike.  Take extra time to make sure that your dog has a great day along with the rest of the family and your friends.

-  Make sure to fit in exercise.

-  Have a place where your dog can slip away for some quiet time and rest.

-  Watch what your dog is eating (handouts from guests).

-  Turkey yes, stuffing, gravy and trimming.....no.  If you feed strictly kibble, a few pieces of turkey is more than enough.  I got a big turkey so that Luke and Elsa will have lots of leftovers :) 

-  Watch your dog closely while guests are coming and going.

-  Stress is bad for us and our dogs, try to have a relaxing and thankful day. 

As for turkey?

No doubt you will be seeing a great deal of information on many of the dog sites about not feeding your dog turkey.  I don't know how many times I read that it was dangerous to feed turkey to our dogs a couple of years ago.  I'd heard enough, so I went on a serious research mission.  I headed to all of the folks who I trust and rely on first.  "Of course dogs can eat turkey," was what I was told.  I already knew this of course but with all the NO TURKEY talk I wanted a straight answer.

So where has all of this NO TURKEY talk come from?  The problem is not with the turkey at all but the fixings and the feeding habits of those dogs who have problems.  What I found was that the largest problems are from people feeding their kibble eating dogs a big turkey dinner.  They like to throw the extra skin, gravy and stuffing in their bowl as a treat and then are surprised that their dog is upset afterwards.  Had they simply added a few pieces of lean turkey to their dogs meal, they may have been fine.  Dogs that eat a consistent diet of kibble have a difficult time eating different things.

DOGS CAN EAT TURKEY.  They just should not eat stuffing, gravy and lots of extra fat.  My dogs eat turkey all of the time and they will be eating it this season as well.  If you feed your dog a regular diet of kibble then be careful when you add other foods in general.  Take your time and make sure that is lean protein.  Many dogs end up in the emergency by being fed a very fatty Thanksgiving dinner after eating kibble all their life.  Their body cannot deal with it.  Just imagine if you lived on Rice Krispies your whole life and then you were allowed to indulge in Thanksgiving dinner with all the fixn's.  I can guarantee that you would be sick.


Take extra care during this time of year.  If you want to share the turkey with your dog then do it in moderation.  That means that if you only feed your dog kibble, a few pieces of lean turkey will suffice.  But if you feed your dog real food as I do then your dog will be able to have much more turkey.  Save the extra skin, dripping, gravy and stuffing for the people.  They too will probably suffer from a very rich dinner but that is all up to themselves, right?

Situational awareness


At the dog beach, this Doberman's guardian was very aware.  This dog seemed to be suffering from Wobbler's syndrome so kept her clear of other big dogs running around  


Situational awareness: being aware of what’s happening around you to understand how information, events, and your own actions will impact your goals and objectives.

Are you situationally aware?  I am usually very aware of what is going on around me.  There are those moments when I am deep in thought; my mind goes elsewhere but it is not very often.   When out and about in the world it is very important to be aware of your surroundings.  It boggles my mind when I see people walking their dog with their focus stuck in a cell phone.  They have no idea what is going on around them, nor what their dog is up to.  

I remember when Tilley was around and in her senior years.  I had her and Jessie out for a very slow snail pace walk early in the morning.  As we walked past the parking lot I noticed a woman getting out of her car.  She opened the back door, letting her black and white medium sized dog out.  She never looked around and did not leash her dog.  The dog spotted us and charged.  It hit Tilley knocking her to the ground.  I screamed at the dog and it ran back to the car where it had come from.  My counter attack continued and was then directed at the owner.  She was shocked, "what happened?" she shouted.  She got a face full.  

Situational awareness is so very important.  Whether you are out on your own, with your dog/dogs or your children; you should be aware of your surroundings.  The cell phone has got to be the biggest culprit of sucking away awareness; but you can just be non aware as well.  

Elsa is always very aware; she has a heightened sense of awareness which is who she is.  All dogs are different; some don't care about what's going on around them but they are on average much better than humans in regards to situational awareness.  

Don't be a victim.  This statement sounds ominous but you can be a victim from a lack of situational awareness.   From missing a special moment to being in the middle of a dangerous situation; it may have been avoidable by simply being aware.   There are times in life when things happen that are unavoidable.  But by being aware of your surroundings, paying attention and watching many of those things missed would not be.  Moments, situations, interactions and life in general; don't miss them by a lack of awareness.  

Finding a breeder - REPOST




My amazing Clyde, always in my heart.  

Honestly, how hard can it be?  Hard.  Searching for breeders who I could possibly get a puppy from is waaaaay harder than you might think.  This blog is about searching for a great breeder.  It is not a rescue/breeder debate so please do not send me nasty emails.  I would like to get a puppy; but the more I know, the harder it is.  I am very clear on what I am looking for and sadly there are few breeders out there that come anywhere near the bar level that I have set.  If they do check off many of the boxes; they are located far, far away from us on a map. 

30 years ago I visited a home where they had a litter of brown puppies.  I had been given first choice of males but when I arrived I was told that another family had got there before me and taken one of the boys.  I was very angry; what if they took the one I wanted?  She had promised me one thing and done another.  Live and learn.  I chose my brown boy who turned out to be one of the loves of my life, Clyde.  As much as I adored him he suffered from poor structure over the years.  There had been no health testing done for his parents once so ever, no temperament testing, nothing. 

30 years later I know a lot more about what to look for.  I have a huge check list and the first thing on the top of the list is tails.

Must: **

1.  have full undocked tail
2.  have fully health tested sire and dam
3.  live and be raised in home with family
4.  be socialized in the rule of 7s
5.  be a breeder who breeds only dogs with amazing temperaments
6.  does temperament testing
7.  knows the litter and matches puppy to new family

These are the 7 musts.  Anything more of course is better.  But if a breeder does all this then they have reached the bar level that I set for me. A few things can be modified but not dropped completely.  This of course is just me and after years and years of research is what I look for in a breeder. 

Admittedly, I could go out today and find a puppy. There might be one just an hour or so away from me.  It sure would be easy right?  But I cannot blindly give money to someone who does not care enough to do all these things.   My breed is one that is not so common; add to that all of these items on the list and it gets harder and harder to find the needle. 

I have found breeders who do 5 or 6 from my list.  After talking to them I realize that they do not stand strong on the other things that they claim to do from the list.  Some things on the list have a wide range of levels as far as others are concerned.  Again, I have a high bar set for these as well. 

If you are a breeder, why not do it all?  Why not do your best for the puppies you are putting out into the world.  It is easy to spot the ones who are just doing it for money.  Yes, even breeders who do not consider themselves to be puppy mills, often do it for the money.  One big clue that someone is breeding for profits is multiple litters on the ground at one time.  I've been on several sites that list litter after litter, born only days apart.  

I have also talked to breeders who tell me that they do no socializing.  When I dig, and I do; they tell me that their puppies only get out of their whelping box at 8 weeks of age and only into another pen outside.  So much is lost if puppies are not introduced to new things, smells, sights, feels and experiences.  There is a huge difference in puppies who are stimulated and not.

By having a list, you can weed out the ones who cut corners, save a buck, save time and do it for the money.  They simply don't care. 

I will find the needle, but it is not going to be easy.  It is not always easy to do what is right; but that's what I'm doing. 


** This list is not because I want perfection; such a thing does not exist in the animal or human world.  I want to support those breeders who are doing it right.  Those who have the utmost care and concern for their dogs and the puppies that they breed. 



Whiskers



Whiskers or vibrissae, are far coarser than regular hair.  Their roots are deeper than normal hair and are much more sensitive to the touch due to their follicles being filled with nerves.

Way back when I began my life with dogs; it was in the show ring with Dobermans.  Before a show the dogs had their facial hair trimmed off and any other hair around the ears or elsewhere that looked out of place.  I never thought about it, it is what we did.  Many dog have their faces shaved or cleaned up for show or regular day to day; but should they?   

At a recent vet visit with my wonderful new Veterinarian we discussed Elsa's tail.  That conversation led to one about whiskers or vibrissae.  He elaborated as I listened.  Explaining their importance to me about how and why they should be left.  As a Standard Poodle Mom I had never given it too much thought; although over the years there had been a few times when I pondered about them.  

Whiskers are there for a reason; much like many other things that humans tend to whack off just because.  So cutting them off just to enter a show ring is sort of silly.  After all isn't it dogs that are being judged?  Dogs have whiskers.  

Now I am juggling a clean face versus whiskers.  They are extremely important; and after sitting and pondering I want Elsa to have them.  But a poodles coat grows continually and must be trimmed a bit now and again.  For hygienic reasons I like a clean face; although I don't have to have it shaved completely but it does tend to get a bit rank if left too long for too long.  So there in lies the issue, how to keep the face shortish but leave the whiskers?  

For many dog breeds there is no issue, they can just be left there.  But for the furry faced breeds it is a difficult juggling act if you are concerned with leaving their much needed whiskers.  I am just working in this dilemma now so I'll let you know if I figure out a good compromise.  

Even with fuller hair the whiskers stick out further; enabling them to do their work even on the hairiest of dogs.  As Elsa's face grows, her whiskers grow faster keeping out beyond the normal coat.  They are very cute I have to admit.  She has one wild rogue whisker on the left side that sort of has a mind of it's own but all the rest are as they should be. 

Below are a couple of good read articles on the subject of whiskers.  Enjoy.   


Live Science article

Psychology today 


The day I met Luke



Fifteen years ago.  A loss was a huge gain.  

Can I come this morning?” I asked my friend Sharon, over the phone.  She’d had a litter of standard poodles that were already 7 weeks old that I'd yet to see.   Like me, she was a dog trainer and Standard Poodle lover; but time had gotten away from me and they were already at the perfect age to see.  7 weeks is a great age,  you can really see their little personalities.  

I was by no means in the market for a new puppy; our family was in the process of working with another breeder with regards to a new family member.  I'd been working with Tilley's breeder and was to get a niece of hers.  The particulars needed to be worked out; which puppy, how we would get her to California and everything else.  The puppy was in Canada so it was going to be work to get her to California.  We adored Tilley so of course we wanted another just like her.
 
I’d lost my boy Clyde only months earlier; a love of my life kind of guy.  He was a brown Standard Poodle and it felt too early for me to think of getting another boy.  Even though I have a huge soft spot for boys; I needed to get over the loss of my heart boy before thinking of another. 

A time was set for the puppy visit.  How lucky was I?  Getting to visit a litter of puppies just for fun?  It was most definitely my kind of way to spend an afternoon.  When I arrived Sharon introduced me to the Mom of the litter.  She was actually lying on the couch recovering from eclampsia or milk fever.  She lifted her head and gave me a wag as I stroked her side.  She was a dark blue in color so when I stepped out into the yard and saw two light colored puppies I immediately asked “what color was Dad?”  "Apricot" Sharon said.  There was only one apricot in the bunch, a male.  The other light colored pup was a cream female.  When I walked into the yard I could barely see the rest of the puppies as they were all asleep.  They’d been up early that day because one puppy had already been shipped. 

I stepped over the little sleeping bodies and proceeded to ask a lot of questions.  This was a show prospect litter so we discussed who the pick of litter was in both male and female and why?  The little apricot boy was the pick of males and she began to explain to me what set him apart from the others.  Which is when he began his own explanation of why he was so special.  To this day I have never seen a puppy do what he did.  It was like he was a salesman and what he was selling was himself.  He jumped around me, climbed up my legs, bit my hands and made it quite clear that he was different.  There was a great deal of eye contact; he was focused in on me and the task at hand. The rest of the puppies continued to sleep while the little apricot man worked his magic.  He was doing a job on me when I finally picked him up and held him at eye level.  I jokingly asked him “do you want to come home with me?”  He wriggled and licked my face as he continued the “buy me” routine as I placed him back onto the ground.

Sharon and I talked for a longtime that day.  The rest of the litter finally woke up and said “hi” but it was only the little apricot boy who had stood out.  It was so much fun playing with the litter of puppies and I hated to leave.  But as the afternoon drew late, I had to head out before the really heavy traffic hit.  I said good bye to the puppies, Mom and her other dogs and headed for home. 

The ride home was a strange one.  Sure it was fun to see the puppies but something had happened between that one little male and I.  I couldn’t stop thinking about him for the hour ride home.  “No, I’m not ready” I told myself as I pondered what had transpired.  For some reason he had done a very good job of standing out; making himself unforgettable, at least to me.  Before long I was home.  Tilley, Jessie and I head out to the backyard where I watched as Tilley and Jessie wandered; until they came and sat by my side.  Looking at Tilley I realized we already had a puppy in the works, a little silver girl.  I tried to shake off the deep connection that I’d felt with that little apricot boy, but it was not to be. 

That night I told my husband about the litter I’d met that day; but it was the little apricot boy who dominated the conversation.  After listening to me go on and on and on about him; my husband asked “do you want that puppy?”  “No, no, we are getting Tilley’s niece, remember?” I stated.  He then said “it sounds like you really like that puppy.”  I explained that I had but we’d already put another puppy into motion and I wasn’t ready for another boy, not yet.  We put the puppy and the rest of the litter to rest as we both fell asleep. 

I woke the next morning with one thing on my mind, the little apricot boy.  “What the heck was going on?” I wondered to myself.  I planned to call the breeder of the little lady we were to get that afternoon; just to be sure that everything was still a go.  But I had several dog training sessions to get to in the morning before any calls would be made to Canada.  After a nice long walk for Tilley and Jessie, I head out to my training appointments.  A new client and a long time client back to back.  

That afternoon after training I sat and made the call to Canada.  There were still many things to figure out and of course which of the little ladies would be joining us.  Everything changed during that phone call; plans began to unravel slowly.  There was somehow a misunderstanding between the breeder and I.  Over the next few weeks we tried to come to an agreement but it was not meant to be.  Things that I put on the high important list were not agreed upon and by the end of a couple of weeks it had all fallen apart.  A puppy was not coming from Canada, we would not be adding Tilley’s niece to our family. 

During the weeks of puppy talks with Tilley’s breeder I had been plagued by thoughts of the little apricot puppy.  I had been talking with my friend Sharon about him casually.  I wondered if she still had him and she immediately knew that something was up.  After the other puppy fell through, I wondered if “he” might be the one.  Had everything fallen apart for a reason?  Was the reason this little apricot man that I had met a few weeks earlier? 

I felt defeated with the loss of the little girl we were going to call our newest family member.  But at the same time I could not get the little guy out of my head.  “Was I ready?” I asked myself over and over again.  My heart was still aching from the loss of my brown boy.  I didn’t think I was ready but I also could not stop thinking of that little man.  He had somehow wriggled in and was not letting go.

Five weeks after a chance meeting, I made the call.  Sharon picked up the phone and I blurted it out “do you still have that apricot puppy?”  I could hear the smile in her voice when she said “yeeeesssss, I do.”  She knew that he was meant to be mine the day we’d met.  She hadn’t been in a rush to sell her puppies and was waiting for the perfect homes for them.  She obviously knew that I was interested as I had sent so many emails “just wondering” about him. 

Two days later we were on our way.  With a very small crate in the back of the truck we headed out to Huntington Beach to pick up our gorgeous blonde surf dude.

Our lives changed forever on that day.  November 2000 was a very special time in my life.  I cannot believe that fifteen years have passed.  Sometimes things don't work out; but something better happens because of it.  No we didn't get Tilley's niece but we did add Luke to our family because of it.  A loss was indeed a gain for us; because without that loss we would have never had fourteen and half amazing years with Luke.

I am currently working on a very special book that started out as three separate books; but has now been woven into one.  I hope to publish it sometime in 2016.     


Leader of the pack

Leader - a person who leads.  Yep, pretty self explanatory; but do you?  Do you lead your dog?  The whole term leader has gotten a bad rap because of the ever so famous television dog trainer.  He yanked around so many dogs by the neck that the term leader quickly became Alpha in a very negative way.  

Being your dog's leader means just that, to guide and lead through life.  It has nothing to do with yanking, choking, yelling, hitting or alpha rolling.  Our dogs need a leader; after all we put them smack dab in our human world and expect them to deal with it all.  They need guidance, they need an education.  






It is a little mind boggling how little many humans know nothing about dogs.  Much of what people think they know is human behavior, not canine.  I cannot tell you how many times people have explained what is going on with their dogs through their human eyes.  They see much of it as things that we humans do; but dogs are not humans, far from it.  

If you add a dog to your family you should start reading.  Of course you should read a great deal because there are many different directions that advice will come from.  If you keep a "do no harm" mindset then you will hopefully know when to move away from "alpha dog" mentality training.  

Understanding dogs takes time.  It also may take a whole mindset of letting go of what you think you know.  The "I have to walk out the door first" or "they have to walk behind me" or "they are pulling to dominate me" need to be tossed.  Dogs do what dogs do; they are not out to take over our world; although if we allow them to be the leader, many will.  Most don't want to be the leader and if we don't step up and lead they are left vulnerable and shaken. 

Learn about dogs if you want to live with dogs.  They are highly complicated yet very simple once you figure it all out.  Each is as different as we are; but in their own amazing dogness, not human at all.  

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A couple of weeks ago I jumped out of bed, hearing the familiar heaving sound.  I shouted "Tilley, Tilley;" and ran for the sliding door.  Of course it wasn't Tilley it was Elsa and I was aware of this by the time I was opening the door.  Standing outside with Elsa I pondered how our brain works.  This has happened before; calling out the wrong dog name.  But on this night it was a memory recall, not simple confusion.  

Tilley use to vomit quite a bit as she got older.  We lost her to spleen cancer so I assume that was the cause of the vomiting.  Having raced to the door so often with her in the middle of the night; my brain recalled an embedded memory.  Elsa very rarely vomits; typically if a piece of food or bone is not digesting it comes out. 

When Luke grew old I often called him Clyde.  Clyde was the man in my life before Luke and my most recent memories of him were of when he was old.  So when Luke entered the "old dog" stage he was often called Clyde.  Not on purpose of course; it was my brain pulling out memories that had been stored away.  I often thought of Clyde in Luke's senior years.  

 When our brain pulls out memories like this; it gives us time to stop and think, remember.  I love when I have downtime to think about those in the past.  The dogs who have paved the road of who we are as canine guardians today.  If it were not for all those amazing dogs and the mistakes made with them, I would not be who I am right now.  

The brain is an amazing thing.  I often cannot recall a memory file from the past that I want.  Trying as hard as I cannot I cannot remember; but then sometimes it just knows when to pull up an old memory for us.  Time to ponder.  

Obsession control


After being told "that's it." 


I'm up early with the time change but Elsa is not.  She is extremely tired, having had a huge run with her Dad yesterday, tons of ball tosses and then baby watch.  She adores her new babies (my Grandsons) and is constantly aware of the their location and doings.  But today's blog is about obsessions and for Elsa that is retrieving.  Dogs can have any type of obsession and obsessions should be addressed.

Of course there are different levels of obsessions as well as different types.  Tilley also had a retrieving obsession which was far worse than Elsa's.  Tilley's was so bad that when nothing was being tossed for her she turned to shadow chasing.  She learned quite early that were a reliable source for her to unleash her desires.  But it also became dangerous as it grew out of control.  Once I realized what was going on, I was on it.  I very quickly taught her that she was not allow to indulge in her obsession anywhere other than her own backyard.  Allowing her to get into her "zone" was dangerous as she saw or heard nothing around her once she was in it.  

So let's talk about lasers for a second.  You know those laser pens that were all the rage years ago.  Well, they sadly have become the undoing for many dogs.  They can trigger a chase obsession so bad that it can be difficult to come back from.  Instead of an actual item that they chase; it is a light glimmer.   I have seen the damage first hand that laser triggers can do.  Any glimmer of light becomes an object to chase and it can become a blind chase; meaning they will chase it with no regard to surrounding environment.  Extremely dangerous, so leave the lasers in the past where they belong.  If you've already instilled this obsession then you have work to do, undoing it.  

Controlling an obsession and making it a manageable passion is a must.  Elsa has a very nice "off" switch.  She was taught right from the get go that "that's it" meant that the game was over.  She will be in full retrieve mode but when we say "that's it" she picks up her ball and stops immediately.  When we are out doing her chuck it; she clearly understands that when the thrower is placed in my belt, that's it.  She is always rewarded for handing over the ball at the end of the game and it is never a negative that way.  

Any behavior can become an obsessive one; but once it's out of control it can then become dangerous.  Even a very high drive dog like Elsa who is allowed to indulge in her trigger can learn to keep it at a passionate but controlled level.  This takes time, training and understanding that obsession must be controlled.  

Seeing through the eyes of a dog


You can clearly see on Elsa's left eye what needs to be removed, the right will be trimmed as well.  


I am not talking about seeing the world as a dog; but actually seeing out from dog eyes.  Can your dog see properly?  This morning as we had our Saturday morning snuggles and I noticed a hair that needed removing from Elsa.  I am highly aware of the line of vision that our dogs need; especially in my breed and other hairy faced dogs.  I cannot stand when people keep a full face of vision impairing hair on their dog.

I am leaving more hair on Elsa's face to allow her whisker to grow.  I have recently become more aware that they should have their whiskers (next blog) but as a poodle guardian it can be a juggling act.  So with more face hair comes more vigilance to make sure that she can see.  Not see okay, but see everything that she needs to see.

If you hold your dog's face in your hand towards you at eye level you should be able to see every part of their eye.  Sometimes a hair by the nose is too long, maybe right around the eye or midway on their muzzle.  All hair should be removed in the line of vision.

Some breed standards call for a full face groom; which can hinder or completely blind a dog.  Old English Sheepdogs are one specific breed that suffers from their grooming demands.  I cannot tell you how many times I have looked at this breed in the show ring and wondered how their people think that they can see?  They can't, that's how.   A dog is a dog and if you put something in front of their eye it will inhibit their vision.  Plain and simple.  I think that it is horrible that people who have these dogs follow the full face of hair standard!

If you like your dog with a full and hairy face; please take the time to clear their line of vision.  I see far too many dogs with big furry faces that cannot see.  Even a small bit of hair can impair their vision; which can lead to all sorts of problems let alone just not being able to see properly.  

A big fluffy face is cute but if the fluff is on the sides or top of the muzzle then it could be interfering with your dog's line of vision.  Get down to your dog's eye level; put your eyes just above their nose and have a look.  Life is too short not to be able to see it all unfold.  Don't blind your dog by a cute fuzzy face.  
  

Tail amputation (docking) time to evolve.


Oh those beautiful tails.  Elsa dropped her ball in this shot and needed to do a very fast maneuver to recover it.  You can see the tails part in the move.  


This is a re-post.  This blog was originally written in December 2013 but covers such an important topic that I think re-posting is necessary.  The subject of amputating tails has become a very hot topic among breeders but for me there is but one simple question, why?  

When I see a new litter just a day or two old, I shudder knowing that in another day or two they will have their tails removed simply for fashion.  It should make you shudder as well.  There is no reason for it and someone down the road made the choice which breeds got to keep their tails and which looked better via amputation.  Time evolve folks.  Read on.  

I am a non docking advocate.  Elsa is our first non docked dog; my first dog was an Airedale (docked), we have had several other poodles and a Jack Russell (all docked) until Elsa.  Elsa has changed everything.  

When I talk to people about docking; many just want to know "why?"

Some "reasons" for docking include; balance, injury risk and standard (conformation show ring) requirements.  Common sense and ethical treatment of dogs should outweigh any of the so called "reasons," in my opinion.  Just because something has been done in the past; does not mean that we should continue the procedure without question.  Many customs performed ritualistically throughout history have since been modified or completely eradicated.  Often owners of docked dog breeds do not even realize that their dog's tails has been amputated; it has been going on that long.  People just think that they come out with short tails; that it is just how they look.

The term "docking" itself, may be a part of the problem.  Doesn't docking just sound like a harmless word?  Call it what it is, amputation of the tail and you get some attention.  Amputation?  Yes, docking means to amputate a portion of tail.  Depending on the breed specification or current fashion will factor in on how much is amputated.  Anything from the tip to the whole tail can be removed.

There are those of you out there reading this blog and shaking your head at all the fuss being made over the simple docking of tails.  I have read many articles from docking advocates promoting the procedure as nothing; a simple procedure that doesn't even hurt.  Times are changing, things are moving to more ethical treatment of animals and that my friends should also include our dogs.  We should not be chopping tails off for fashion.  The only reason that tails are amputated is so that the dog looks like what the book says.  There is absolutely no reason to remove tails, in fact it is barbaric in my opinion.

As a dog trainer who specializes in behavior I can say that dogs need their tails.  Having had docked dogs before Elsa has opened my eyes.  I never liked the fact that my dogs were docked but I had no choice; they had been done way before I met them all.  Now that I have had a dog with a full tail; I will never have another without.  (Unless of course I rescue one with a docked tail.)  Elsa moves her tail completely different from any of our dogs before her.  Her tail is gloriously fluid. 

I am much more aware of tails than I have ever been.  I have seen huge "mixed messages" from dogs who have little or no tail to communicate with.  Witnessing a mis-communication due to a lack of tail is just sad.  What a mess we've made for these poor dogs.  Humans have convinced other humans that it is best to chop them off.  But we have gone through the breeds and singled out who loses their tail and who gets to keep them with no rhyme or reason.  Sad, just sad.

Wolves have long tails and wolves live in the forest.  They hunt, kill and fight without damage to their tails.  How could we possibly use the "working dog" card to support chopping tails off?   Dogs are much more capable of hunting maneuvers when they have  their tail for balance.  Many of the new "hunting line" breeders are leaving tails intact because they understand the physical need for the tail.   They breed for structure and workability, not fashion.   But shouldn't the fact that dogs are born with tails be enough of an argument for them to keep them?  You would think right?

I am seeing a shift, it is slow but it is happening.  Elsa has actually helped.   She has educated many on the attributes of having a tail.  She not only is perfectly normal with an intact tail but shines even brighter with it.  Watching her use her tail as another appendage is truly fascinating.  Plus her athletic ability is no doubt far superior because she has the use of her full tail.

If you get nothing other than something to ponder from this blog then I have at least offered that.  If we keep going through our life just doing and never thinking; then nothing will ever change. Change requires actions, which requires thought.  Some people had no idea dogs had their tails amputated; others know and turn a blind eye.  But there are many people who just never think about it, time to stop and think.  Dogs are born with tails for a reason; who are we to amputate them as unnecessary?
  
When I decided to do a blog about tail amputation I contacted a Veterinarian who I follow and respect, Dr. Karen Becker. I asked if she would offer a statement with regards to canine tail amputation. The following paragraph is her statement. Thank you Dr. Becker.
The only time I believe any body part should be cut off is if it's causing an animal's quality of life to be impinged. Removing parts because they may be a problem in the future is presumptuous, in my opinion. Removing ears and tails means we are cutting off part of the dog's sensory input system unnecessarily, in the name of vanity, to meet a "breed standard." All vets have seen animals have anesthetic complications, infections and long term neuropathic pain associated with these procedures. It's a matter of whether we're willing to acknowledge the importance of our profession spearheading an ethical reform on the issue, or not.




This shot is a bit tough to figure out.  It is shot from behind Luke with Elsa in front of him.  Her tail is still around his neck as she moves away.  



Constant physical contact is achieved with a full tail.  Even as Elsa moves away from Luke she is still touching him.  


The following interviews are from breeders who do not dock tails.  




One of Helen's dogs (Pankins) using her tail for some intense herding.  


Helen Grinnell King - author, agility competitor and structure specialist.

Helen's website, Recipe to win.  



When did you decide to stop amputating tails?

In the 1970s I bred harlequin Great Danes. I hated the ear cropping. Not only did I hate the blood bath and what we did to those puppies, we lost several very nice puppies due to the anesthetic. I hated that. It was then that I decided mutilating puppies for the sake of a ribbon or fashion was selfish and barbaric. I am so proud to say that my last harlequin Dane stud dog produced the first uncropped AKC breed champion harlequin Great Dane. I did not breed him but am still very proud of the decision of the breeder to not crop.

Fast forward to 2000. I bought my first Poodle as a pet. She was docked. After watching how limited her tail was, I decided that I never wanted another docked or mutilated dog again. I inherited two docked standards when a good friend died. Their tails were docked and dew claws had been removed. I vowed my next Poodle would have all of her body parts. In 2004 we purchased a Poodle that was indeed blessed to have all her body parts in place. The difference was incredible.

I also attended a seminar by Dr. Chris Zink in 2002 or 2003. She showed videos of dogs landing over jumps and explained how harmful it was to remove dew claws. I became a believer. It just made sense. I also hated the idea of putting little puppies through having their body parts amputated and the pain they must feel.

So, when I bred my own litter of standard Poodles in 2009, there was no question when it came to leaving on all their body parts. I am so glad I did. The owners LOVE the full tails and so do the dogs. I will never own another mutilated dog again! They USE their body parts and need them! I find it disgusting to remove their tails or dew claws to make buyers happy, win ribbons or for fashion.

What sort of response have you received from prospective puppy buyers?

I only sell to people who really want a dog with all of its body parts. I am afraid to sell to somebody who might try to dock when the dog is older because they like the look.

Have you shared your experiences with other breeders in an attempt to stop others from amputating?

Ad nauseam.I am happy and proud to say I have turned some away from docking and removing dew claws, but others refuse to budge in their practice of mutilating puppies.

What major differences have you seen in docked vs. intact tails?

Wagging is very different. The docked tails wag faster. I have three undocked dogs and I have never had an issue of them hitting their tails on anything. Poodle tails are very high so they don’t whack things when they wag. They use their tails as rudders in agility, running free and swimming. I also find that one of mine is actually afraid of docked dogs (the shorter the tail the more she fears them). Without a tail, it is difficult for other dogs to read their body language.

Is there any information you would like to pass on to others that might change their mind about amputating?

Full tails are not only functional, they are beautiful! There is new evidence that docking tails, cropping ears and removing dew claws sets up an immune response that can cause autoimmune issues as the dogs gets older. That alone should be enough to stop people from removing body parts on puppies!

Any comments you’d like to add? 

PLEASE give your puppies a break and STOP THE MUTILATIONS!!!! They deserve their body parts!


Both tails are very active in this shot but Elsa's is very obvious.  She is trying to catch Penny on a run by; her tail is helping to do a sharp turn.  




Laura Bernier 

When did you decide to stop amputating tails?
We stopped docking tails and removing dew claws 6 years ago.

Why did you decide to leave tails on your puppies?

One time, when I was at the vet have a litter docked, I heard the babies crying. It was terrible. It was at that time I noticed that it took them a few hours and a couple of feedings in order to get their vigor back. Around this time I was reading articles about docking and watching videos on how dogs used their tails. I was amazed at how much the tail was a participant in their locomotion. I came to the conclusion that the poodle community couldn't give me a valid reason why docking was done. The lore is that dogs were docked for hunting, so their tales didn't tangle in the reeds. I came to the conclusion that the risk of reed tangle was small and the need for the tail was immense.

What sort of response have you received from prospective puppy buyers?

I have found buyers are very accepting of natural tails. It's a changing world, all natural, organic, unaltered. Most of my pup buyers are working dog people or agility folks, they prefer a natural tail.

Have you shared your experiences with other breeders in an attempt to stop others from amputating?

Some breeders say only backyard breeders leave tails natural. They have tried to convince me to continue to dock, but I decided the dog world is changing and I believe a natural tail is better for the dog. When a body is insulted, whether by vaccine, amputation or injury, there is an immune system response. No one can convince me that is a good thing.

What major differences have you seen in docked vs. intact tails?

Puppies suffer from no human induced stress. They walk earlier and enjoy steady locomotion at an earlier age. The natural tails are so expressive.

Is there any information you would like to pass on to others that might change their mind about amputating?

Yes, why amputate something that is so lovely. For every reason one can give about the benefits of docking, there are 5 reasons not to. One of my pups just received his Thai championship. He has a natural tail. Docking for the conformation ring is old school. It's time the community comes full circle to see the whole dog.

Rebecca Buchanan 



When did you decide to stop amputating tails?

A better question is why did I ever amputate tails, and the answer is, I didn't.  I fostered dogs for a breeder who did.  If he finds people he likes and trusts, he allows them to foster his breeders for him.  The dogs get to live in a family, rather than a kennel, and when the time comes for them to retire, they remain in the home free of charge.  The first 3 litters are his, the 4th, we split, and the last, if I wish to breed again, is mine.  He knew I was opposed to tail docking from the beginning, but the puppies were his, and I had no say in the matter.  I did make him come personally and take the puppies to the vet because I refused.  We discussed the matter several times, but he is old-school, and adamant, and has never changed.  Of course, once I had a choice, I did not get it done.


Why did you decide to leave tails on your puppies?

I admit, my initial objection to docking was primarily emotional.  I knew that the process was painful and unnecessary, and I suspected it had consequences, but really couldn't present a coherent argument for my case, so I started researching the matter.  I read statements from a lot of veterinarians who were opposed to it.  Usually, they spoke of issues with urinary and fecal incontinence, or of problems communicating with other dogs, or of diminished physical ability.  Oddly enough, the communication problem was not one that I observed to be an issue.  Communication in dogs is full-body language, and the tail is only one part.  I never observed intent misunderstood between my Rotties and other dogs.  


Typically, the method used to dock tails is to cut, without anesthesia, through muscle, bone and spinal cord (which extends further down the tail in a neonatal puppy, and recedes as they mature).  Also, the immature nervous system of a neonatal puppy is lacking some of the protections that are acquired as the puppy grows and matures, so that if anything, a neonatal puppy feels more pain than an older dog, not less. 

What sort of response have you received from prospective puppy buyers?


The response I have received from puppy buyers is overwhelmingly, "Why do they do that anyway?  Fashion?  That's stupid.  I like her tail!  I think cutting it is cruel and unnecessary."  I do write into the contract an agreement that the tail will never be cut, and I provide information on why it is not beneficial to the dog. 

Have you shared your experiences with other breeders in an attempt to stop others from amputating?

 I have tried.  Those who are not open to change shut me down without actually listening.  Mostly I concentrate on educating the general populace, and giving the information to anyone who will listen.  I believe that tail docking is a barbaric practice, and will eventually be abolished.  I find that veterinarians are increasingly reluctant to carry out the operation, and my own vet was thoroughly delighted to see an entire litter of Rotties with tails intact.  I believe that the veterinary community is most qualified and has the most influence to make the change, so I have concentrated my efforts there.


What major differences have you seen in docked vs. intact tails?

Wow.  Advocates of tail docking tell you that puppies are not affected by it.  They cry, and then go back to normal living almost immediately.  What I have experienced is that when you pick up a neonatal puppy, they wriggle and fuss and want mamma.  This is normal behavior.  If they are awake, they crawl toward mamma and milk.  But puppies who have had their tails docked react very differently.  When picked up, they panic and scream in terror.  My friend who docks tails views this as normal, but I can tell you it is NOT normal.  It does not normally occur in undocked puppies.  My question is, if they are not affected by it, and if they don't remember it, why do they panic when picked up by a human?  They do not react that way to being touched by their mother, or each other, only when being handled by humans.  I am sick to death of teaching neonatal puppies that it is OK to be picked up by a human.  
    
Is there any information you would like to pass on to others that might change their mind about amputating?

Please consider the benefits of not amputating!  Once the operation is done, it cannot be undone, and the benefits of a tail and the lack of trauma cannot be overstated.  To remove a tail has no benefit, and many negative affects.  Incidentally, I do not even remove dewclaws.  Some puppies do not have them at all.  For some they are the same as other breeds, closely connected to the leg and not a problem.  If they must be removed, they can be removed later as needed.  In my opinion, there is no good to be achieved, and no need to traumatize a three day old puppy, even for that.


Any comments you’d like to add? 

Overwhelmingly, the arguments I have seen in defense of tail-docking come in the form of assertions that have no documentation to back them up, and most of which I have, in my own observation, seen to be false or groundless, for example:  "Docking the tail gives them better balance and agility."  Well, no.  Medical science says otherwise, and the experience of other breeders and myself indicates the opposite.  

"If a Rottie wags its tail around a toddler that club will knock the child right over!  Have you ever seen a child knocked down by a Rottweiler tail?"  My answer:  No, but I've seen them knocked down by collie tails and lab tails, and Great Dane tails, and I don't see those being cut.  My toddlers fell on their butts, got back up (sometimes using collie fur as a handhold) and went on with life.  A Rottie tail is no more dangerous than a Dane tail.  And Bella's is less dangerous than our German Shepherds' tails.

"What about working dogs, who might be injured in the course of searching through rubble for earthquake victims?"  Well, legs and paws also can be injured, but we don't cut those off as preventative measures.  The purpose of the tail is to balance and stabilize the back.  I take my dogs into the back country.  We climb mountains, navigate rushing rivers, climbing rocks and deadfalls.  In fifty years, I've never seen a debilitating injury to the tail as a result, but I have seen the difference a tail can make in situations where strength and balance are paramount.  
Personally, I will give my working dog the benefit of the improved balance, strength and agility that a tail affords.

Those who argue against tail-docking overwhelmingly either come from the veterinary community or have documented research to back their position.
  I will take documented medical and scientific research over un-proven and easily refutable assertions any day.
    
In my opinion, the sooner this barbaric practice is a thing of the past, the better!  I believe future generations will look back on this one and be appalled at the cruelty we have perpetrated in the name of fashion.  May eyes be opened to see and hearts be drawn to compassion toward all these creatures that we are responsible for!

Jasmine Hale


When did you decide to stop amputating tails?


The first time I realized how painful and life changing tail docking is was when I bred my first litter of Corgis. 3 of the new owners had requested the tails to be docked. The other 3 asked if theirs could be left natural.  I took the puppies to the vet at 5 days old and assisted the vet in the procedure. The vet shaved the fur of the tail, sterilized the area, and cut the tail off with scissors.  All the while as the puppy was screaming and trying to escape the pain. No anesthetic is used. The pup can feel everything.  Depending on the vet they may or may not stitch up the tail. The vet then placed the bleeding puppy in a box and it stopped screaming.  It just lay there shivering and bleeding, going into shock. Whoever tells you that the puppy can't feel anything is obviously lying.  As the weeks went on and the puppies started walking.  The 3 with docked tails were weak and could barely stand.  While the ones left naturally were running and playing already. The docked puppies fell over often from loss of balance and grew slower as well; their bodies having to use extra energy to mend their mutilated tails. All the while I felt terrible for allowing this to happen. After seeing and experiencing all of this I swore never to let my puppy's tails be docked.

What sort of response have you received from prospective puppy buyers?


After I explain to people what the process is they are normally very happy to leave the tail on. However there are always a few that refuse to purchase a puppy because it is not "cute" with out a mutilated tail.
 
Have you shared your experiences with other breeders in an attempt to stop others from amputating?


I have shared my experience with other breeders.  Though most are scared to change because they think they won't be able to find the pups homes. A few have switched over and it is growing and they are very happy they have stopped docking. 


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The following links are articles on the subject of tail docking.

Top Two Painful Procedures Your Puppy Should Never Have To Endure - Healthy Pets with Dr. Karen Becker. 


Cutting off a dog's tail can lead to aggression.  - Canada.com


Welfare complications of tail docking dogs - AVMA 


Concerning tail docking - RSPCA


Canine tail docking - AVMA

The link below is for the Council of docked breeds; I didn't even know of it's existence until I started researching for this blog. 


Council of docked breeds


Taken from Dog Language by Roger Abrantes.

Dogs with docked tails find it more difficult to maintain balance under speed and they are obviously inhibited in their tail expression.  A German Shepherd or Siberian Husky with a full length tail finds it easier to perform tight turns at high speed than, for example, breeds with are traditionally docked, such as the Rottweiller or Old English Sheepdog, which appear clumsy.

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In conclusion, I leave you with this.  I am not trying to ban docking; stopping it at the top will not stop the procedure from being done by those who are determined.  Change is required to save our dog's tail.  A wave of change is coming; will you be on that wave?

New babies and dogs, the juggling act.


Elsa on her never ending baby watch.  If I leave the room for a second, so does Elsa.  


Most of you know that I am a new Grandma; a new Grandma twice in just over a week to the most gorgeous little boys.  One of my daughters, her husband and little boy have been staying with us.  Before this Elsa had never met a baby up close and personal.  Oh, she's seen them around,  heard them a bit but never had one in her home.  Socializing with tiny babies can be tough to do if you aren't around any.  There is also the fact that most Moms are highly protective so asking if your puppy can get use to babies with theirs doesn't always go over so great.  Babies are a completely different thing for dogs; who knows what they think they are.  They smell, move, sound and look very different from adults.

Each and every dog is very different but a blanket statement of safety needs to be instilled with the addition of a baby to a dog home.  Even if you don't have a dog; you will run into dogs and the utmost of safety is required with interactions.  I am a Safety CEO; not in actuality but in my own behavior.  I have and always will be on high alert when it comes to dogs and children.  The next statement from me may come as a huge surprise to many.  Dogs are dogs.  There I said it.  :)  As much as I ADORE dogs, heck my life revolves around them; they are dogs and our babies must be protected from them.

This does not mean that I think that dogs are bad, far from it.  What I mean is that we cannot have a "they'll be fine" casual attitude around babies and dogs.  You must always be on high alert, watching every single behavior between a human baby and dog.  Too many babies are bitten by dogs every year and it is due to a lack of safety precautions instilled by parents and caregivers.  This makes me crazy.

Each dog will react very different to the presence of a tiny baby.  It is our job as adult humans to watch and know.  If we do not know a dog as in a strange dog then just keep your baby away.

So what does Elsa think?  She is at this point, obsessed.  Elsa adores humans, I mean crazy type adores.  She comes unglued when someone talks to her; and visitors?  Yes please.  So when this little man came on the scene squeaking, groaning and crying; her interest was peaked to say the least.  At first she was over excited by the smell and sound.  Her pupils dilated in her desire to acquire the baby.  She wanted us to put him down for her; basically she wanted him much like she wants a brand new toy.  So, much care was taken to allow her to be with us the entire time but at a distance.  Once her excitement lessened she was allowed to smell feet.

Yesterday my second daughter arrived at our home with her baby as well; so Elsa is in full baby immersion.  She has now smelled them both over, all but their face and head; and sits watching them for hours.  She is still very excited by their presence but their squeaks are becoming acclimated.  She's pretty exhausted with her new baby watch.  As she becomes more use to their presence she is now allowed to sit beside the person holding the baby but not on the head side.  These precautions should be instilled with all babies and dogs.

It is extremely important to implement boundaries without instilling anger.  Dogs should not be banished and need to learn how to respect boundaries.  The more a positive time a dog spends with a baby the better.  If you simply yell at your dog and offer up negative association then what are you saying about the new baby?  Adults can teach a dog to hate the presence of a new baby; so offering safe, positive interactions which give the new baby a positive association is needed.

As the babies grow and become mobile, I have no doubt that Elsa will have two very adorable playmates.  She loves humans.  She loves children. These little beings are very funny sounding, smelling and looking humans.   She is learning very quickly to life with live squeaky toys.  


Pet sitters who get it.




Not just anyone gets to care for my babies.  


Looking for a Pet Sitter?  It is not an easy task, that is unless you are willing to settle.  Settling for mediocre is not something that I am willing to do with the care of Elsa when I need to be away.  

I am a Grandma again, yep.  Two Grandsons a week apart so needless to say I needed someone to watch over Elsa for several days and I have that.  I feel extremely lucky to have found a wonderful woman whom Elsa adores.  

When I knew that my daughters would be having babies close together; I worried about a sitter.  You can't book a time slot for a baby arrival; they come when they want to come and you hope that you can get someone.  Of course the better the sitter the more booked up they are so I hoped and crossed my fingers and anything else I could do that she'd be available, and she was.  

Having my sitter available for the births of my first and second Grandson was HUGE.  It allowed me to focus on the task at hand and leave the care and love of Elsa with my sitter.  Being able to take that worry out of the equation is priceless.  When my sitter arrives and Elsa comes unglued, I know that she is in good hands.  

When you are away, the last thing you need to be doing is worrying.  I don't know about you all, but I worry a great deal if I'm not happy with where my dogs are or who they are with.  If I'm worrying, I'm not focusing on what I should be focusing on; whether that is babies, a conference, business or just plain fun.  

I try to tell and show my sitter just how much we appreciate her.  It means the world to me to have someone that I trust to leave Elsa with.  If I did not have her I could not relax when I am away.  Stepping out of my daily roll as caregiver and allowing her to step in is a big statement in itself.  I'm sure you can all imagine.  

I have interviewed handfuls of sitters who have not made it past the interview process.  I have had to say "thank you but no," to many.  It does not take me long to decide through the interview process if I trust the person to put Elsa first.  I am always looking for new sitters.  Like I said when someone is good they are busy and not always available.  So having a couple of great sitters to call on is essential.

There are sitters and then there are sitters out there.  Finding the ones who mesh with you and your dog/dogs is not easy.  I am looking for the ones that are the elite caregivers; basically myself in a sitter.  Not an easy task but doable if you do your research and go through the process.  

If you have an amazing sitter, let them know just how much you appreciate them.  It truly is wonderful to have someone who cares as much as you do.    


Canine structure - repost


Tilley could turn on a dime and fly with ease.  She had amazing structure.

Yesterday Elsa and I were stopped by a woman at the park.  She called out to me "beautiful" from afar and as she got close she asked "was she ever a show dog?"  I smiled because I have been asked this many times and as always the answer given was "nope."  Then the woman continued "I use to show and breed Dobies, she has an amazing gait."  "Really?" I asked and told her "I started my dog life in the ring with Dobies," and her interest was peaked.  "Really?" she asked.  We were both on our morning exercise walk so we were sort of talking and moving past each other.  She said again before we went our separate ways "beautiful gait."

Gait - a manner of walking, stepping, or running.

I'm all about movement; it is something that I find myself watching always.  I don't care what breed or mix a dog is, I like to see nice movement.  Nice movement to me means that a dog moves easily with structural soundness.  No it has nothing to do with a fancy pedigree.  It has to do with structure and if a breeder cares about it, then their puppies will likely be one of the lucky ones. 

It is truly mind boggling what has happened to many dogs at the hands of humans.  We have tweaked some breeds and mixes beyond recognition and continue to do so.  There are breeders who care more about a big winning ribbon than proper structure so a big show wins mean nothing to me.  Give me a dog that is built, one that moves much like the canine ancestor, the wolf. 

Why do we think that we can do better?  Let's take a big dog and give them 2" legs, or angle their back legs so much that they are no longer able to walk properly. Build a dog so that it looks like it is floating when it moves.  It is all very sad. 

No, Elsa is not a show dog but she is an amazing athlete.  She would not win a ribbon in the show ring but she's got structure, great structure for movement and I know this from simply watching her.  She is strong, she cannot jump like Tilley could but she could probably have out distanced her.  Tilley was more compact than Elsa.  Each is an individual.  Like us. 

A litter of wolf pups are not all identical.  There will be stronger pups, faster pups and pups that are more agile, but they will have proper structure.  If not, then they may not survive. 

Too many dogs today have poor structure.  Does it make them any less of a wonderful dog?  No.  What it does is make life more difficult for them in many ways.  Perhaps they cannot run like they should be able to.  Maybe they hurt from joint issues.  Or their body is failing them far before it's time.  It is all very sad.  What the hell are we doing?

Humans are breeding dogs and doing whatever they want.  The cute face with tiny legs, the sloped back (for what reason I don't know), the mixing of breeds to produce super puppies; and the lies to prospective buyers of perfection.  Taller, shorter, more coat, new rare colors, more angle, floating movement and more.  More and less and far from structurally sound. 

For each breed of dog there is a standard.  Show dogs are to come as close to that standard as possible.  But who writes all the standards?  Funny isn't it?  We humans are all very different and we are fine with that.  Fundamentally the same yet very different.  I am 5' 1" and I have a twin brother who is 6' tall.  But within a breed of dogs they are meant to all be the same or as close to what has been written as possible.  Hmmmmm?

I saw a photo of a dog yesterday; the dog's neck was so long that I was having a hard time getting my head around the logistics.  How could the neck be so long?  More is not better, not always.  Sometimes less is more.  Perhaps we should all take a good hard look at the wolf and see how far we have gone wrong.

No, Elsa is not a show dog.  Yes she does move beautifully; I could watch her move all day.  It is easy for her and I am happy for that.  She is structurally sound and that is what we should be giving our dogs. 

Licking and dog kisses


The snuggler


I opened my eyes and looked outside; it was still really dark but it felt like time to get up.  I rolled over to have a look at the clock, 1:15?  What?  Weird how it can feel like you've slept all night when you haven't.  I rolled back over and threw my arm over Elsa; she's a great snuggly sleeping companion.  She turned her head up high and upside down to reach me; giving me some kisses.  She is constant with her kisses at night; if she can reach skin, she's kissing.  She has a need to tend; she use to do it to Luke but now that he is gone she tends to us.  

I've never minded licking and I don't quite understand it when people freak out about being licked.  Of course there is licking and then there is licking.  Elsa's licking is very purposeful.  She does not just dish out absent minded licks.  Some are delivered for affection; but much of her licking are close pack bonding licks.  The kind of connection licking saved for the close inner circle members, like me.  :)

Elsa does give kisses to others who are outside of the pack but those are very different.  Dogs lick for all kinds of reasons and if you watch and know your dog you will be able to differentiate between them.  Like any other behavior, licking can become obsessive where we need to step in and help our dogs to stop.  From my own experiences dealing with client dogs; many puppy mill dogs have excessive licking issues.  They come from very questionable and sad places; having gone through much turmoil as young puppies.  Licking excessively can stem from the bad. 

Licking is often a self soothing behavior.  Just about all of our poodles over the years have gone into the "licking zone" when we are close and they are heading off to the land of nod.  Watching television dog pile style at night; they often licked the leather couch several times before falling asleep.  The licking is slow and often accompanied by head rubbing.  They have all done this, it doesn't last long and then they are asleep.  Elsa does this but to a lesser degree. She is a busy girl during the day; people to see and things to do so much of her licking happens at night, in bed. 

I fell back asleep and awoke again in the dark.  This time when I rolled over to check the time; I got a kiss smack dab on the face.  It was 5:55, time to get up and get the day going.    

Just Dogs with Sherri update



Good Monday morning.  Last week was a very busy one with lots of great things happening.

#1 - I'm a Grandma; which is about the most exciting news ever.  Yep, a new Grandma to an adorable little man.

#2 - I got to visit with my sister and brother in law which is always a highlight in my life.

#3 - My dog related bohemian bracelets at Sherri Lynne Designs are really making a splash, and

#4 - I'm working on an exciting new project.

Oh and I got a new washer and dryer, woooohooooo.  :)

A busy week also brought with it some horribly hot weather.  That has meant out in the early hours of the morning and then hunkering down inside for the rest of the day.  I'm hoping that the horrid weather will break this week.   As a northerner I am not a fan of temps in the high 90s and into the 100s.  Give me a 65 degree day with a breeze, and I'm a happy camper thank you very much.

Elsa and I have been checking out some new, cool dog products that I hope to share over the next couple of months.  We love to try innovative dog products that make the whole dog/human relationship even greater than it already is.

I cannot believe how many puppies are out there right now.  With all of my FB groups I'm seeing a whole lot of new babies.  If you are one of the lucky ones who have a new canine family member, my book is a great addition.  Feedback for you and your dog is just for you.  It is also available on Amazon in both paper and ebook version.  As for us, we are hoping for a new canine addition in the new year, I can barely wait.

Just a short update for this morning, many, many, many things to get done today.  Have a great week.





 

How much does a dog cost? I don't want a show dog.


All the hours of research can pay off.  


How many times have I heard the phrase "I don't want a show dog?" What this statement actually means is... I don't want to pay a lot of money for a dog.  When you are looking for a specific breed; you have a lot of work to do.  It's research time.  

No, I don't want a show dog myself; but I do want a dog that is structurally correct, healthy with a good temperament.  I want a puppy from someone who cares about their dogs and the offspring that they have.  I want a puppy who has been well socialized and given the best opportunity to flourish in life.   That is a lot and it does not come cheap.  That said I will also not pay an unrealistic amount for a puppy.  There are lots of breeders who overprice their dogs because they can.  People will pay it and many breeders rake in the dough even though they say they don't breed for they money. 

I have a price range in my head that is fair.  I know what good breeders do, what tests they have to pay for etc etc.  I know what I will pay and I know where I draw the line.  But, hoping to get a great puppy who comes from health tested parents, fed properly, socialized and temperament tested on the cheap?  No.  If money is an issue for you; if you simply cannot afford 1,000.00 - 1,500.00 and up then you need to rethink your puppy acquisition.    

Doing it right costs money, bottom line.  So where does this leave you if you can't afford what you want?  You need to start considering health costs.  What if your puppy gets sick?  Can you afford that?  Sadly I know many people who have had to turn their dog over because they cannot afford to get them well.  This is something that you really need to consider.  

You can rescue a dog that will be less up front cost; far less expensive but then again you will need to care for that dog.  The money put out in the beginning is just a fraction of what it costs to keep a dog healthy throughout their life.  When you consider the range of 1,000.00-2,000.00 dollars over 10-15 years; it is not a lot to pay a breeder for all of their hard work.

You can go the cheap route.  Search through the newspaper ads and find a puppy.  You might even get lucky and find a wonderful puppy who ends up being healthy and happy, it happens.  But you might not.  That person selling their puppies for 400.00 may have just set your life on a downward spiral.  Your new adorable puppy might come with a whole bucket load of health and behavior issues.  And that breeder does not care; they only care that you handed over the money.

What about the "show dog?"  Having a  "show dog" is a choice.  Not too many average Joe's want to show their dog; it's a ton of work and a lot of money.  It means that they attend conformation shows and attempt to get Championship titles on their dogs.  A Champion dog can offer status and legitimacy to a breeder.  But, just because someone shows their dog; acquires points and ribbons does not mean that they produce healthy puppies.  Research, research.   

There is a set standard for each individual breed; but each breeder has a plan of their own.  What one breeder likes in a dog, another may not.  There can be a huge variance even within one breed.  Over the years breeds can evolve; and not always in a good way.  So, research, research.  

Finding a breeder who is producing what you are looking for can take a great deal of work and time.  I pride myself in shopping for a deal in inanimate objects; but that does not mean that I look for cheap.  I look for quality at a bargain cost.  But when it comes to a life companion, I look for what I want.  If I like what I see but feel that a breeder is overpricing their dogs because they can, I will continue looking.  I believe a good breeder deserves to be paid for doing it right.  But I do not think that they should be gouging a new puppy buyer. 

There is no guarantee in life.  Even dogs from really great breeders can get sick.  That said, why not give your money to someone who is trying to produce healthy, happy and well socialized dogs?  You can most definitely find a dog for cheap; but do you really want to hand over any money to someone who doesn't care about their dogs or yours?   


When to start puppy training



Elsa as a baby, ready to learn.  


When do you start puppy training?  Ah, that is the question.  Well, in the olden days, wayyyyy back when I was a young'n; the start date for training was around the six month mark.  Why six month?  Because that is when the trainers thought that a puppy had enough neck muscle to withstand collar corrections.  Ugh, it makes me shudder just writing that statement.  It is sad but true.  

Now that we are into 2015, exactly 40 years from when I started my training, I have an entirely different perspective on it all.  First let's talk about the word "train."  Training is the word we use when talking about educating our canines.  To teach is to train.  To train can mean to practice for a sport as well but when humans use it in regards to dogs it usually means to educate or teach. 

Training should not mean that you are planning to inflict collar corrections.  It should mean that you are going to educate your new little fluff ball on the ins and outs of living in a human world.  After all they are dogs and not humans so living in a human world takes an education to do it well.   

Training a new puppy should begin as soon as you bring your puppy home.  Maybe give your new baby the first day to sleep off the excitement of the big transition but then it's at it.  You may be thinking "really? so young?"  Yep.  But let me say this, learning about the world that your little canine addition lives in requires that we teach them about it.  

Training does not just imply sit, stay and come.  Training means learning about everything.  What to touch, not to touch; where to pee and poop and where not to.  Training means learning to sleep in a crate; how to go up and down the stairs.  It will incorporate bite inhibition; playing and interactions.

Sit is the very first behavior that you can teach.  It is easy and can be taught in a matter of minutes.  Once you have that you can use it for many different things.  Training should be a constant, not a five minute session each morning and afternoon.  There will be times when you teach a new behavior and put it on verbal cue but that is just a fraction of what training incorporates with puppies.  

Life changes drastically when a puppy joins your family.  Their life as they have known it, living as a member of a litter with Mom is gone.  Everything from that removal moment is new.  So when your puppy seems like they are being naughty; just stop and think how new it all is for them.   Just imagine how much they have to learn.  So when someone asks "when do I start training?"  The answer is easy, right now.  You have a big job ahead of you, so get to it.