Feeding your dog

Beef, liver, apple, sweet potato and egg in the bowl.  This is a small fraction of what I feed.  Variety is the spice of life.   The more variety the better. 

Scary isn't it?  Walking down the isles of the pet store, your brain is on overload; what food is the best for your dog?  You've asked your Veterinarian, your best friend, your neighbor, the store owner and your groomer; they all have a different answer, so who's right?  

What do you eat?  Is it exactly like that of your doctor, best friend, neighbor or hairdresser?  I can almost guarantee it's not.  The range of what we eat is as vastly different as what is out there for our dogs.  Some people have a diet that pretty much consists of empty calories; opting for the prepackaged foods that contain very little that could be called nutrition.  Others choose a nutrient rich diet.  There are so many different ways for us to eat; there are calorie counting diets, high fat, low fat, carb free, vegetarian, vegan, light meat, heavy meat etc etc.  

So it is no surprise that people have differing ideas on nutrition for our dogs.  Nutrition?  Have you ever considered nutrition when feeding your dog?  Or is it simply the act of feeding?  Nutrition is what we should be considering but often we feed our dogs just to feed.  Can their body utilize any of the food that is in their bowl?  Or does it just check off the "feed the dog" box?  

Dog food is changing but many canine guardians are not.  They still reach for the biggest, cheapest bag of "dog food" when it comes time to feed.  Over the years I have gone from feeding kibble to real food.  It has been a nutritional evolution; one of great learning, growing, making mistakes and research.  Life is a never ending education; so what we know today will be much less than what we know in a year from now.  That is if we are open to learning; not everyone wants to learn about feeding their dog.  Many humans quite happy opening up that huge bag of empty calories and pouring it into their dogs bowl.  Dog fed! Done.

We have been brainwashed into thinking that we can't do it.  How could we possibly make food for our dog on our own?  We've been made to feed scared, unsure and insecure about feeding our dogs.  It is much easier to rely on the dog food makers right?  Well, that is most definitely want us to think.  Even some Veterinarians will tell you that the food they sell; the bags that fill the waiting room is the way to go when many of them have no idea about canine nutrition.  There are some wonderful Veterinarians out there that know a great deal about nutrition; those are the ones to follow and learn from.  

After feeding real food for so many years now; I look at the huge bowls of kibble that go into dogs and am shocked.  I witness the water consumption of kibble fed dogs and am astounded.  Making the decision to feed our dogs more nutrition is a process.  If you are just thinking about it, do it.  It is not something you do overnight; but a development of learning.  The more you learn the better you get at it.  

I am not telling you that you have to feed your dog anything in particular.  Your dog, your decisions about feeding and everything else in their life.  I just want people to know that they can feed their dog.  I want to break open the idea that you can't.  The big dog food companies want you to feel scared; they rely on your apprehension so that you will just keep reaching for that bag.  

If you opt to feed kibble, then do your research and buy the best food for your dog.  Your dog deserves it.  You decide, don't let the dog food companies decide for you.  

Dealing with fear

Fear - a distressing emotion aroused by impending danger, evil, pain, etc., whether the threat is real or imagined; the feeling or condition of being afraid.

My eyes shot open and Elsa sat up.  A huge boom had awaken us both.  Elsa dove off of the bed and stood at the door.  Thinking it had just scared her I called her back to the bed.  She ignored me and went to look out the patio door.  She stood still, smelling the chilly night air.  I called her again and she went to the door.  So I grabbed my robe and we headed downstairs.  Once down in the kitchen, she didn't want out.  We head back upstairs and she stood once again at my bedroom door.  Something was wrong.  

Her ears were plastered back and her eyes wide.  She was exhibiting fear behavior.  This meant that I needed to chill.  Too often we humans respond to a fear response from our dogs by soothing, touching and holding them close.  Everything that we should not do.  Why?  Because all of these behaviors from us, further the problem in our dogs.  

Dogs are very different from us.  We communicate in different ways; and body language is the best way to talk to our dogs.   What we need to do for our dogs when they are afraid is to show them that there is nothing to fear.  I lay there quietly and called to Elsa again.  She came up and lay close.  I said nothing, nor did I touch her.  I calmly turned over and pretended to go back to sleep.  

She wasn't on the bed long before she hopped off and was back at the patio door.  I let her look out and said nothing.  She lay down on the floor beneath my side of the bed and remained there as I drifted off.  About an hour later I awoke again to feel her up close against me dreaming.  She'd decided it was finally safe and returned to bed.  
Whatever the noise was, it scared the crap out of her.   

It is so important to lead by example in a fearful situation.  Remaining calm is not always easy, but we must try for our dogs sake.  Reacting in a protective coddling manner only makes matters worse for our dog.  It convinces them that there is indeed something to worry about.  

When we lead by example by acting very "who cares" about a particular situation, scenario or environment; we help our dog to deal with frightening things.  We not only give off a calm vibe but we help them to deal with stress.  Dealing with stress can be tough for humans and dogs.  Why give them more to worry about by convincing them that their fear is real?  Even if it is real, I want my dogs to know that I will take care of it.  I will let no harm come to them and I take my roll seriously.  

Actions speak louder than words.  We cannot verbally explain things to our dogs; we must show them through our actions.  I wish I could say to Elsa "that was just a loud noise, don't worry."  I could say it but she will not understand; so I must show her through my actions.  This is essential when dealing with dogs.  

We can be called upon daily to show our dogs the way.  Sometimes minuscule issues arise; requiring us to lead our dogs through step by step, calmly learning.  Life is not always filled with rainbows; it's our job to show our dogs the way.  Hugs and kisses should be saved for times when all is well.   

Getting in shape

It's time, we've long since passed the holiday season; and chocolate filled Valentines day is over.  It's time.  Have you had a look at the dog by your side lately?  Chances are they've packed on a few pounds.  I see heavy dogs all the time.  Dogs who have a few lbs. to shed all the way up to obese Fido's.  When our dogs are fat, there is only one place to look for blame, and that is in the mirror.  

Unless your dog is suffering from some disease, results of medication or genetic defect then the extra weight that they carry is all on us.  Is your dog fat?  Take this very easy test to tell if your pooch could lose a few.  First have a look.  Do they have a waistline, both from the side and when view from the top down?  Depending on their coat length and texture; viewing may not be a great help so you are going to have to feel.  Do you feel ribs?  There should be the slightest amount of coating on their ribs; a very small fleshy feel to the ribs but you should be able to feel each one.  

Most dogs are overweight.  We humans tend to think that treats and treats and more treats are the way to show our dogs that we truly love them.  Yes they love food (most of them anyway) but it needs to be rationed.  Especially if you have a piggy type.  The look of the svelte canine athletic body often has people whispering about being too skinny.  This of course is because we are use to seeing dogs with too much sponge coating over their ribs.  

Along with too much food, most dogs don't move enough.  Just like with humans, there is no magic pill or secret to getting and staying fit.  Eat well and move, that's it.  It is a balancing act and if one gives way to the other then there will be fallout.  If you give your dog the opportunity to run and exercise, great.  But you must also focus on nutrition to fuel your dog's body for movement.  The better the fuel you put in the more nutrition your dog can utilize.  

A couple of years ago when Tilley was stricken with several debilitating health issues; I was forced to carry her up and down the stairs.  When Luke was ill I did the same.  Each time I carried their over 40lb bodies I thought to myself "this is what it would feel like if I gained 40lbs."  It did not feel good and my body struggled with the extra weight.  Thankfully I was able to lift and carry them because I weight train.  But the lifting and carrying left me with a lasting impression.  

Just think about every extra pound your dog has to carry around as you feel for those illusive ribs.  Now factor in that they don't move enough to build muscle to carry that weight.  Their joints suffer, as do many of their organs from extra weight.  

Time to get fit.  While you are getting your dog in shape; there will be added benefits for you as well.  Let's go.  

Elsa, the one and only.

hings have changed a great deal for Elsa in her life so far.  She went from being dog #4 to #1 within four years.  

Who is Elsa?  

Elsa is my constant companion, the dog by my side.  When I look down, she is there.  Without trying to sound like a bragger; she is most amazing.  ;)  

Dogs are simple; that is, once you "get" them.  They are simple in their agenda in life.  Surprisingly very few people truly "get" dogs.  We tend to throw a human cloak over them and understand them as such.  But they are far more than humans in fur coats.  They are masters of communication and once you realize how to communicate with them, everything is better. 

Our canine companions are simple yet complicated.  Like us, each is an individual.  They have likes, dislikes, natural skills and adaptability.  The complicated part of a dog is who they are; all the nitty, gritty little pieces that make them special.  

So as Elsa growls and twitches in her sleep at my side; I thought I'd share a bit about who she really is.  

Elsa is a high drive, scary intelligent, devoted, human adoring, food loving, enthusiastic gal with an amazing sense of humor.  Her favorite thing in life is her ball, the chase and catch.  She is a maniac retriever and will drop anything and everything for a game of fetch.  She is high energy, just like her human Daddy; which makes them a match made in heaven.  ;) 

Her love for the human race is quite honestly, immense.  She is very literally a force to be reckoned with when we have visitors; as she is sure that everyone has come to see only her.  :)  Being a new Grandma, I wondered how she would feel about the babies.  At first she had no idea what the screaming little bundles were.  But within a few days of intense investigation, they became her babies.  She not only tolerates them, she adores them.  I believe there have only been two people in her life that she was unsure about and she was correct in her assessment. 

 Elsa is very bossy, or at least she tries to be.  She is a very typical female in that if she is busy doing something important, that is what she is doing.  She will get back to you when she is done; which works best with Dad, not so much Mom.  

She is a very touchy feely gal.  If you have ever had a snuggling dog that needs to be touching; if not on top of you constantly, they are a breed apart.  She adores hugging, kissing and affection of any type from her inner circle.  Elsa learned very early on if she assumes the upside down, feet to the ceiling, tail wagging position, that someone will most likely join her on the floor.  Her tail is in constant motion and I never grow tired of watching what it has to say.    

I am sure that she loves food as much as I do.  She has her likes and dislikes but is a joy to feed.  After having a fussy man who didn't seem to like anything, feeding Elsa is very easy.  

She is an amazing athlete.  She was built to run and her physique is perfect for it as is her desire to do so.  Elsa is an all round utility type athlete; she is pretty much up for anything.  Her endurance is boundless and her strength, immeasurable. 

She is a fast learner.  When I say fast, she is fast at catching on and at the speed in which she deals with learning.  She is the type of dog that seems to say "okay, got it, next."  Her movement is fast and one must be on their toes while attempting to train a new behavior.  She can be defiant when she deems something useless but will eventually and always comply. 

Along learning at lightening speed; she is an amazing teacher and takes her job in that department quite seriously.  She is amazing with puppies.  She is patient and tolerant but dishes out discipline and teaches lessens when needed.  Any puppy who has the privilege of learning from her will learn a great deal in a short time.  
Elsa's list of vocabulary understanding is large.  We often spell words but then she learns how to spell them so we have to switch words up.  She picks up words in conversation easily and learns new words and names with a couple of repetitions.  

She loves couch or bed time and her favorite time of day is morning.  She will stay in bed as long as we do.  Elsa is an early to bed type gal (Luke taught her that).  Just the other night she went out the dog door to pee; then came in, looked at us watching t.v. and head up to bed an hour before us. 

I could go on and on and on, but I will leave you with this.  Elsa is most amazing.  She is very much an individual, like the rest of the canine species.  It just takes getting to know the nitty gritty.  :)     

Puppies and testing temperament

I love doing temperament test on puppies.  I also love hearing about temperament tests that  have been done and the differences in how they are done and the results.  Most tests are pretty much the same.  Tests are done in an area where the puppies have never been before; and with someone who they have never met previously.  It is amazing how quickly puppies acclimate so it must be a new place and person to get the best results.  

I have seen a lot of puppies in all of my years.  I have tested many and watched even more.  I am always watching, closely.  I think temperament testing is extremely important; but, even if a breeder, rescuer or foster does not want to temperament test, they should know their puppies.  Knowing an individual puppy helps to ensure that they will go to the best suited home for them and their new family.  I believe the best scenario is to know your puppies well and do temperament testing.  Knowing your puppies is going to mean something entirely different to each individual breeder or person who raises a litter.  The distinction will factor in with what the puppies have been subjected to.  Even then, each puppy raiser has their own level of assessing results.  

Day to day, small, boring and mundane activity needs to be watched as far as action/reaction readings.  There is much that can be learned from watching the reaction of puppies.  How do puppies act around new people, new surfaces, noises, dogs?  

When I test, I like to have a bit of background.  What have the puppies been up to before I came into the picture?  This will help me to understand their responses.  If a puppy has had a solid socialization background vs. been in a litter box their whole life, will factor largely in the test scores.  

Puppies need to be on their own to get a true reading.  Not just for temperament testing but simply knowing your puppies.  Puppies act very differently when they have their backup pose with them.  Pull them out on their own and everything changes; this is very important to understand.  

What am I personally watching for when I test a litter of puppies?   I am looking at sociability with dogs as well as humans and confidence.  

Does a puppy want to be with people?  This interaction is fairly easy to see; although I do see puppies being read incorrectly all the time.  A puppy must seek out human contact and respond accordingly with body language.  Puppies who have not had a great deal of human contact will display this when tested.  But not all dogs desire human contact even if they have been surrounded by humans. 

Some puppies may follow but aren't interested in an actual interaction.  Other puppies may get under foot while following and be a biting, humping fool when you get down on the ground with them.  There are so many different combination that can unfold when tested and watched extensively.  But the dropped ear, wiggly butt of a puppy who desires human contact is nice to see.   

As far as confidence, that is a much more difficult read; and one aspect that is misread often.  Personally I like to see apprehension to new things.  Depending on the startle factor of the new experience, you should allow for different levels of apprehension and see many degrees of alarm. Here is where the life experience will factor in.  Knowing if the puppies are socialized or not makes a big difference in reading. 

Recovery time is extremely important.  When a puppy startles at new sounds and sights, it is the moment after that needs to be watched carefully.  The degree of startle needs to be surveyed but the recovery time is even more important.  Breaking the recovery down even further, each step and time lapse should be taken into account.  But I want to see startle; this allows us to see that a puppy is aware of his/her surroundings.  The different levels of startle and recovery are vast. 

As far as the actual testing, there are many different tests within the test itself.  I believe strongly in reading between lines as well as get initial scores and recovery time scores.  There is so much more about each puppy then a number on a test can tell  

The whole nature vs. nurture thing that many breeders throw out there is moot to me.  Both factor extensively in the development of a puppy into adulthood.  I have seen litters who are very close as far as scores in a temperament test; but, they are all very much individuals in the personality department.  

I believe we owe it to our dog to see these individual traits and acknowledge them.  Yes there are aspects that can be changed once a puppy goes to live in a new home.  Much will be learned and unlearned.  There will be issues that are easy to change and some things that are very much there to stay.  Knowing each puppy as the individual that they are will give them the best chance to thrive in their life to come.  

  Canine temperament, personality and behavior is fascinating and diverse.  It is often given little notice, under valued and pushed aside in lieu of color, pattern or number in a waiting line.  

A litter of puppies is more than a box of puppies.  A litter holds within it, a plethora of temperament traits and personal idiosyncrasies.  Seeing the uniqueness of each takes time, knowledge and desire.  

Good food for fido (Elsa)

Another great recipe for the book.

Yesterday I scored a bag of fresh limes from a neighbor.  He posted that he had a plethora of tart limes that he wanted to share.  He hated the idea of letting them rot on the tree and I have to agree with him.  I wish more people would share fruit that they aren't going to eat.  It is sad to see them shriveling away when people could eat, utilize and enjoy them.  I asked him if he had a dog when we picked up the limes; telling him I was going to make dog cookies with them.  He said "that's a first for my limes," and smiled looking into the car at Elsa.  

Happily they will make it into the cookbook.  They are good, really good and Elsa gives them a four paws up I believe.  She stood staring at the plate of cookies until they were cool enough; then followed them to their final destination, the cookie jar.  She had two before bed last night (I had one) and one already this morning.  
I had not thought of making lime cookies for the book until I had a bag of limes in hand!

After the cookies were made I head off to the store for protein.  I love having a wide variety of protein for Elsa (and I) on hand.  So I grabbed some bison burgers (for Elsa), grass fed beef (for Elsa), organic chicken, wild caught cod and turkey breast.  Arriving home I got my customary greeting but it was short lived as Elsa forced her head into the bag.  She followed the bag to the kitchen wagging furiously as I asked "what did Mommy buy for you?"  

She watched intently as I prepped each dish with and placed all the protein into the oven.  I set a pot on top of the stove to simmer some quinoa and then we head out to play ball while it all cooked. 

 Elsa and I had turkey last night; she had hers with arugula, power greens, quinoa, cranberry and egg shells.  While I enjoyed my turkey on top of the a salad of arugula, power greens and quinoa.  Eating good feels good; feeding good food to Elsa feels great.  I love cooking good food for her and she is the loves it.

Food is fuel for our body; we should buy the best we can to fuel our dogs as well as us.  The dog by our side deserves the best.  

The canine athlete

The canine athlete - a dog trained or gifted in exercises or contests involving physical agility, stamina or strength; a participant in a sport, exercise or game requiring physical skills.  

My guys have all been different in their skills. 

I have a canine athlete, do you?  When you have a dog that is highly active in the athletic department you must take extra precautions; just like a human athlete does.  We all have only one body to ride out our life in.   Some dogs need more care than others as far as activity structure and control over physical endeavors.  

All dogs are different, all dog bodies are different.  What one can do, another may not be able to.  It is our job to know what our dogs can safely do with their body.  Pushing past physical limits invites injury.  My girl Tilley, was an amazing disc dog.  She was one of those dogs who drew a crowd when she played.  Tilley was an airborne catcher; meaning that she never waited for a frisbee to come to her, she went up and got it.  This meant that she had to conquer the landing; which she did easily in a short time span. 

Luke also loved frisbee but his body did not have the ability to land safely.  If he went up too high he would always crash on his landing so discs had to remain low.  Our little Jack Russell, Jessie could leap as high as we threw but she never saw the importance in catching a frisbee more than once.  She would rather dig a hole and pull a critter out of it.  They are all different.  

Even though Tilley was a true frisbee star with the grace of a ballerina; the repetitive death defying leaps needed to be toned down and controlled.  Some retrievers will go after their object with such gusto as to cause injury to themselves by sheer desire.  It is essential to know your dog and know what they will do.  Tilley knew how to land and usually thought before leaping.  Some dogs do not think; having such drive as to interfere in the whole safety aspect of the game. 

Tilley only had a few years of high flying frisbee before we brought her back down.  Even when she was in her high flying prime we worked on low throws for much of her exercise time.  Continual high flying landings is hard on a dogs spine.  Even if they do not suffer an actual injury during their retrieve time; they will very likely suffer the results of impact in their later years.  

Dogs who participate in repetitive exercise need special care.  If you have an agility dog, disc dog, flyball or any other type of athlete that does the same thing over and over, take care.  Those with high drive are even  more prone to injury due to that drive.  Of course any dog can be injured but the ones to who have crazy drive are less likely to stop and ponder; moving so fast that we often can stop them fast enough.  

Elsa is a runner.  She loves to run but she also LOVES to retrieve.  She is not an airborne girl which is perfectly okay with me.  She's more of a long jump type of catcher; soaring through the air, flattened out like a torpedo as she goes for her ball.  Elsa is most definitely a super athlete; her physique displays her strength and agility.  The intense look in her eye is where you can see her drive.  
As an athlete, Elsa is warmed up and cooled down before and after a workout.  We are careful where she runs and what she runs on.  Leg injuries can happen easily so surface must always have traction.  Even small catching games on a slippery surfaces can end in a debilitating injury.  I often see photos and videos of dogs on slippery flooring as they play a game of catch and it makes me cringe.  

All dogs can enjoy athletic endeavors.  Some will excel in certain activities more than others.  Just like us, our dogs need to tone things down as they age and sadly that is much sooner than us.  It is our job to keep having fun but to reign in on the dangers of fun activities.  

Over the years I have read more than I ever want to about canine athletic injury.  Spine, leg, neck and elbow injuries are common place with athletic dogs.  Keeping our active dogs safe is our job.  Ensuring that they enjoy their golden years imperative.  That amazing dog by your side is just that.  But they do break and we must put safety before anything else.  Fun yes, but protecting that one body comes first.  

Now, Elsa and I are heading out for a run.  Have fun and be safe.  

Creatures of habit

Peanut butter Perfect bar, our favorite.  :)

The sun is just coming up and Elsa is slung across my legs.  She has to be touching, if not laying across me at some point on my body.  It's cold, really cold for California; the temperature is hovering in the high 30s so I don't mind the heaviness of her nice warm body over me.  This is Elsa's favorite time of day and as long as I stay in bed, so will she.  Even when I muster up enough courage to quickly get out of bed; throw my robe on and go down to grab my coffee, she stays put.  She loves her mornings, Luke taught her all about it.  

I remember wondering if I'd ever be able to have my morning routine once Elsa joined us.  She was always an early riser and ready to go the minute her feet hit the ground.  Now at 4.5 years of age she has not only learned about the joy of chill'n but loves it.  She stays snuggled in bed while I go get my coffee and Perfect bar for us to share.  She looks forward to our first breakfast; she LOVES perfect bars like I do.  I find them a quick and healthy start to the day.  I hit the gym very early and just need a little something with my coffee.  Sharing the bar makes it a perfect portion for us both to start our day.  

As I crawl back into bed, Elsa is ready for her portion of my breakfast.  I always give her about a third of the bar at the start and then that's it.  I don't want her hovering over me while I eat the rest so she knows once she has a few bites that she is done.  She settles back on over my legs and is quickly twitching in her sleep as I write.  I am either working on one of the two books that are currently under way or here on this blog.  

Funny how everything changes once the bar, coffee and writing is done.  One gesture that I am getting out of bed for the day; she is up instantly and ready to go.  We head downstairs again and out she goes into the cold.  She isn't out long and back up on the bed again for her after breakfast treat.  Elsa watches me carefully after her snack.  Depending on what I put on will let her know what will unfold.  Typically it is gym clothes so then she will usually go and watch what's going on outside or hit the couch downstairs.  She knows I'm going to the gym.  

The pre-breakfast and after pre-breakfast snack that Elsa gets in morning is all planned out timing wise.  After I return from the gym, Elsa and I head out for more exercise.  I'm not at the gym long, I'm not a gym rat so I'm in and out and on with the day.  I don't want Elsa's stomach full when she power runs nor do  want her throwing up in the morning because she is hungry; so her snacks give her just enough to fuel her workout without having a full stomach.  

Once we are home from all of our working out, there is the rest hour and then it's Elsa's full breakfast time.  Elsa likes to workout in the morning, just like I do.  I try to switch up what we do as far as our outings and keep Miss Smarty pants on her toes.  Yesterday she had her BFF over to play.  They run and run and run and brawl.  She was exhausted when he left but after a good nap she's ready to go again.  She's a high energy girl who is always ready for whatever our day offers.  

As high energy as she is, she has also learned about the joy of going to bed early.  That too was taught to her by Luke.  She was a typical "I don't want to go to bed" gal until Luke showed her the way.  She will often head up before me if I'm lagging.  A couple of weeks ago she even put herself out to pee; came in, looked at us and head up to bed.  Funny girl.  Now, time to hit the gym.  

Have a great day. 

Cujo-dogs that want to attack

Sitting patiently and being perfectly behaved.  

Yesterday Elsa and I were out with some friends; enjoying the sunshine and cooler temps at a new outdoor mall.  After our walk we decided to stop for a cup of tea at an outdoor place.  I hung onto Elsa and her while my friend went inside to get our drinks.  While she was inside I heard the first sound of an unhappy dog.  I searched around and could not see it but I could most definitely hear it.  What I could hear was the sound of a small attack dog.

It wasn't long until I finally got a glimpse of what was making all the noise.  Under a woman's sweater emerged the culprit; a small golden colored chihuahua.  He was not happy about our presence, the people passing by or the toddler wandering around the tables.  The owner of the dog turned him onto his back and scolded him "hey, Cujo, knock it off."  I don't know if his name was actually Cujo or if she was just referring to his behavior.

The woman, a friend and the dog were there almost the whole time we sat "trying" to enjoy our tea.  Both Elsa and her canine friend were on edge.  It's hard not to be when someone lets it be known that they want to attack you.  The dog was a mass of tension, growling, spitting and barking at anyone who come near.  Some people walked by, heading into the restaurant and received the onslaught of Cujo's wrath.  Shaking my head I wondered why on earth they would bring this dog out?  It was obviously not enjoyable for the owner, the dog or anyone else within range.  

I watched as the dog attempted to accost anyone who dared to walk near his wide circle.  What I was watching was how the woman was dealing with it.  It was obvious that she was well use to this behavior; which again makes one wonder why she brought him with her.  But anyhow, here they were and she was dealing with the behavior, doing everything wrong.  As I said earlier, she turned him upside down, stuffed him in her sweater, covered his eyes, stared him down, held his muzzle and scolded.  Of course all of this was fueling his anger.  

What she should have done if she felt the need to bring Cujo out with her, was train.  The woman should have been sitting far, far away from the triggers.  The triggers being anything walking or moving past them.  She should have had a bag of high value treats with her and offered them freely as people or dogs approached.  In this type of situation she needed to have her dog far away from the triggers so that she could gain success and reward it.  Too close to the trigger and she was setting her dog up for failure.   

I am not saying that she shouldn't have taken her dog out into public.  What I am saying is that she should not have been there adding fuel to the fire.  What she was doing was helping to make a bigger monster out of her little Cujo; instead of trying to help him get over his hate of anything moving his way.  She was in fact enabling him, which is never good.  Ruining everyone else's time while out for some R&R is always a bad idea.  

We were just about to leave our table due to the monster; as he was upsetting both Elsa and her friend, but the woman got up and put her coat on.  Finally, they were leaving and taking Cujo with them.  Sad, the only lessen learned by the tiny attacker yesterday was that anything coming his way was a bad thing.  Sad. 

Dogs are dogs

I'm just going to put this out there; I hate it when people try to make dogs into people.  Whether it is dressing them up, dying their hair, pretending that dogs talk or having them do things that people do, I hate it.  Why do I hate it?  Because dogs are amazing; they deserve to be respected as dogs.  They are far more amazing being dogs than being people.  

The whole idea that dogs are not enough being dogs really bothers me.  I often look at Elsa while she sleeps beside me and wonder at the fact that we get to live with these amazing creatures.  How lucky are we that dogs are so pliable that they can live with us, side by side?  It truly is incredible.

So why try to make them into furry people?  I really don't get it; I do not understand why humans feel the need to humanize dogs.  Dogs talk, they talk dog; they do not speak like we do.  If they could talk with words, I'm sure that they wouldn't sound as we do.  They would have much fewer words and more important things to say that many humans feel the need to spout.  And quite frankly I will not pretend to respond to anything where a dog is suppose to be the one speaking.  Time to step out from behind your dog and be the human your dog needs you to be.

Fido fashion, dogs often need a coat to keep them warm or dry but that's it.  They do not need a wardrobe; the canine physics is a beautiful one all on it's own.  Why on earth do we want them to look like little people?  

Hair?  A dogs coat is magnificent; whether it is smooth and sleek, fluffy, long and straight or like my poodle, tight and curly.  It is the coat of a dog; it is what they look like.  Why should we try to change it to create them into something else?  Dying them different colors, and sculpting them into something that they are not, honestly.  A dog is a dog; let them be dogs.  

A dog by your side is an amazing thing.  It is a privilege to live with a dog; why would we try to create them into humans?  It is our job as canine guardian to teach our dogs how to live in our world.  Isn't it enough that they fit into our human world without becoming humans?  

We are humans, dogs are dogs.  The canine/human relationship is a wonderful one.  There are lots of other humans in this world; let's not try to make our dogs into more humans.  

A dog by your side?  You are one of the lucky ones.  

Let dogs be dogs and we will be the humans who love to live with them.  

Communication in dogs and humans

Much being said here; if you are watching, that is. 

Are you a need to know type of person?  Curious about the things around you and need to know more? When you hear about something new that intrigues you, do you hit Google immediately?  Or do you just go through life without much thought?  We are all different, like our dogs.  Every person has different interests and every dog has things they consider relevant and of different importance levels.  

 I am a need to know type of person; I love to learn new things and am always listening and watching the world around me. If I hear about a product, place, or service that interests me that I did not know about, I research.  There are of course things that interest me more than others, like everyone else.  Within interest itself there are many degrees surrounding each thing that we are curious about.  How much do you want to know?  It's all up to you.

Our dogs are much the same; what one dog finds intriguing, another may not.  Do they enjoy people, dogs, toys, food, activity etc. etc?  There are dogs who go through life never really caring about a whole lot while others need to know everything, like Elsa.  She is highly aware of her surroundings and is always seeking out more information about most of it.  Elsa and I are very much alike in that department.  She is always watching as am I.  Watching and listening are key factors in learning.  But then again there is a large scale when talking about watching and listening.  

Some people simply watch but don't take much in.  They are seeing what is before them like anyone else but are they truly learning from what they are seeing?  It is the same with listening; although the difference between listeners is more expansive.  There are those who listen only to respond and those who truly listen to what is being said.  Of course there are those look like they are listening but are elsewhere within their own head and not listening at all.  If you are a conscientious listener, you can learn a lot.  Add watching to listening and you will see and hear much information.

We often speak volumes without saying a word via body language.  Our physical actions can tell a great deal.  Our dogs see what we mean without words and we can see it too if we watch closely.  Our dogs tell us much, but if you aren't watching you won't hear it.  What?  Hear what they are telling us with body language?  It sort of all runs together if you pay attention.  

"Reading between the lines," is a common phrase.  Hearing what has not been said takes interest.  If you aren't paying attention you will never hear the unspoken words between what is being said.  And if you are not watching you will never see the information given through action.  

Canine/human communication is a fascinating subject.  Through my extensive canine behavior research I have learned much about human behavior.  Of course the two have a great deal to do with each other, as we have dogs meshed in our lives.  The day to day communications that play out between the two species is quite frankly, extraordinary.  

Humans don't always say what they mean.  Much can be understood by what is not said or said in a certain way.  Dogs say what they mean, it is quite clear if you are watching and listening.  Interchange between same species is just as intriguing; that is if you are listening and watching, truly.  

Small dogs that attack

Yesterday was glorious.  The sun was out, the park was quiet; so Elsa and I were enjoying our early morning walk.  As we rounded the park I noticed a woman with her dog; I'd seen the same pair only a few days before when the dog had lunged at us as we passed.  I hadn't seen the dog before it came out Cujo style at us; but it was on a leash when it did.  It scared the crap out of me still.

Elsa and I cut the corner, staying far away from the little monster.  But he still managed to muster up what he thought of us as we passed by.  But the next time we passed by unfolded completely differently.  The woman was heading out with her dog as we walked by each other.  Elsa and I gave them a huge amount of space; we were probably thirty feet apart.  One reason was that the angry little dog was at the end of his extension leash.   The dog ran in circles around his owner; ranting and raving that we were in his park, let alone walking passed him.  

Dogs like this need more training and structure than others.  The fact that he had free run of the long leash made matters worse.  It was like fueling his monster ego and the owner had absolutely no control over him.  Plus you all know how I feel about extension leashes. 

As we passed by I had a bad feeling and reached into my walking pouch; placing my pepper spray into my hand.  A moment later I heard the yelling behind me; the sound that no one wants to hear.  I knew what it as immediately and turned to assess the situation.  The woman had dropped the leash and the small Cujo was coming our way.  I knew what was going to happen and prepared myself.  Yes it was a small dog so Elsa was not going to be hurt; but having been attacked before Elsa was ready to defend herself. 

The dog  made one huge leap, growling and snarling at Elsa and she retaliated.  I pulled Elsa behind me and kicked the dog on his next attempt.  It took the wind out of his sails long enough to get my thoughts together and pull Elsa further behind me.  The woman was walking our way calling to her dog.  There was no sense of urgency in her pace so I yelled out to her.  "Grab your dog or I will pepper spray him."  

She grabbed a hold of the leash and turned on a dime.  She never said anything and started walking away.   I was not done, I yelled at her a bit and then tried to calm myself for Elsa's sake.  This is all she needed, another attack.  So I turned and we walked the other way as I tried to compose myself.  But I was fuming and calm was not to come for another mile yet.  

As the event festered in me as we walked; I decided that the woman needed to be told, so as we passed each other again at the entrance to the park I let her have it again.  "This is not okay, if you can't hold your dog's leash and he is going to attack dogs, then leave him at home."  She seemed unflustered so I set to fluster her a bit.  "My dog is NOT okay with being attacked."  "It's NOT OKAY," I continued.  "I don't care how big your dog is, if you can't control him LEAVE HIM AT HOME."  

When this sort of thing happens, there is fallout.  Of course Elsa does not like strange dogs after being attacked and now again.  NOT OKAY.  With my adrenaline still running through me we set out to do a few more laps of the park.  

What I had noticed during the attack was that Elsa calmed a lot when I pulled her behind me.  This is such an important step; that is if you have enough thought process time and the size of the attacker.  She understood that I was taking care of the situation and if the dog had been larger it would have been sprayed right away if it was attacking.  

Funny that small dogs are far worse and the owners oblivious about it.  It is NOT OKAY for your small dogs to attack large dogs.  This small dog was lucky that I stepped in and did not leave Elsa to defend herself.  Many people think that it is okay for their small dog to accost other dogs because they are small.  That is until their little dog is injured or worse.  An attack is an attack and if the attacker is small then there is a good chance that they will get very hurt.

Often when we are out walking, little dogs go crazy at us and other passing dogs.  Their owners smile as they pass.  Sometimes they allow their dog to go right up to other dogs and do this and still smile because of their size.  Like I said, an attack is an attack and when a large dog retaliates; the owners of the small attacker will no longer be smiling.  If your dog attacks others, then keep them on a short leash.  If you can't control your dog; no matter what size, leave them at home.    

Space

Eve, one of the sweetest puppies I've ever met. 

I stepped up to the cash and packed my groceries as the cash guy rang them through.  I always try to get as much as I can into each bag; making fewer trips for myself back and forth from the car to the house.  So with my two bags filled to the breaking point, I put my card in the machine.  It was then that I realize someone was standing way too close to me.  The guy beside me, who I had not actually turned to look at; towered over me only inches away.  I slowly turned my head left; looking into his chest and lingered a moment.


I used only body language to let him know that he was far too close; he was in my personal space.  Amazingly he got it right away.  He moved away saying "oooops sorry, I'm not looking over your shoulder I was reading this sign."  The sign was over my head so he had to be very close to me to read it.  He then said to me while laughing "I realized I was too close when you turned and looked at me."  Well, good for him, not many "get it."  

We continued with a little back and forth.  I told him "you were in my space."  Then I explained that I have a big space.  The cashier made an arm gesture saying "ten feet around, huh?"  "So that means I'm in it?" he questioned.  I told him he was allowed in and that I would spare the guy behind me from being hit today, I was in a good mood.  Everyone was laughing but "got it."  

How much space we require around us depends greatly on who the space invader is.  My family is allowed right in and welcomed with open arms.  Very close friends are as well.  Acquaintance type people are given a small space range and strangers; well, they just need to stay out of my large space entirely.  I cannot stand when people walk right up on you when you are standing in line.  I will often step back or move about; claiming what is rightfully my space.  

Sweet Eve

That said, everyone is different; just like every one of our dogs is different.  Some dogs have a huge personal space while others have none.  It is extremely important to respect your dog's space.  That means with other dogs and with people.  It always amazes me when people come up and get in strange dog's space.  Some even reach out for a hug and kiss, stupidly.  I think the only strange dog that I have ever given a hug and kiss to was an amazing five month old Borzoi that I was shooting.  She was so openly affectionate with me.  She came up from behind, wrapping her gorgeous neck around me and gave me a slurp.  I responded by hugging her neck and giving her a kiss on the cheek.  It was a very clear moment of realization for me.  "Wow, this is a first," I thought to myself.  It is not something that you should ever do with an adult dog or non consenting puppy for that matter.  But this girl had asked for it. 

Looking much older than her 5 months in this photo. 

When we are out for a walk and I step off of a pathway, giving a person coming the other way, space; I expect the same in return.  Nothing irks me more than having a person with a dog on a long leash or worse still, an extension leash, not offering space.  So many times I will step off the path and move away so that we have space; and the person coming the other way allows their dogs to wander right up to us.  What part of me stepping off of the path do you not get?  Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhggggggggggggggg.

Space is a real thing and if you are a space invader, STOP.  People and animals need space.  Keep out unless you know that you are allowed in.  When in doubt offer more space.  How difficult is that?  Do you enjoy when someone is standing so close to you that they are breathing down your neck?  I know that I do not and neither does Elsa.  Think about space, it is an easy thing to offer.     

A New Year

Have a safe and happy New Year.  

This is the last day of 2015.  There were a great number of bad things that happened in the world this year; but it was not all bad, there was good as well.  Reading all the posts on Facebook; it is clear that 2015 was a mixed bag. For us, the year started off very sad with the loss of my heart, Luke.  After that things got much better and other than our loss, 2015 was a great year.  We had a wedding, I started Sherri Lynne Designs, we visited family and added two new and adorable Grandsons to the gang.  Looking back I have to say this has been one of the better years.  

As the year draws to an end we all ponder on the time gone by.  We all have things that we want to do, accomplish, overcome and start in the New Year.  A New Year is a new beginning; a chance to shake off the old and bring in the new.  

Elsa and I spent last evening with some great friends.  We chatted about the past and the future.  As I drifted off last night my thoughts were of things to come.  No one can tell the future; what lies ahead is hidden until it unfolds.  My life has taken some crazy turns that I never in a million years would have forecast.  Life is like that, it throws many different things at us to deal with and who we are today is the result of how we deal with it all.  

I always look forward to a New Year; some more than others.  We have had some years that I wished I could forget.  But even the worst years give us pieces from the past.  

May you look upon 2015 as a springboard of better things to come in 2016.  I hope to start it off with a bang.  There are already many exciting changes and new endeavors in the works for us here at the Regalbuto house.  Big dreams, expectations and goals for 2016.  Are you with me?  Let's do this.   

Holidays and activities

Some much needed rest. 

We are through Christmas and nearing New Years.  I hope that everyone had a wonderful Christmas with family and friends.  Elsa had a busy one.  We had a houseful of family, both human and fur.  Everyone was home for the holidays with two new Grandbabies.  It was wonderful.  Elsa is exhausted.

The days were filled with so much stimulus that she was awake the entire time.  Elsa is the kind of girl who cannot sleep if anything is going on; so by midday I could see her sort of starting to pass out.  By bedtime she was more than ready.  

One night she displayed a level of intelligence that I had to laugh at.  We were all in the family room watching a Christmas movie; when she got up off the couch and went outside.  She came in after peeing and went upstairs to bed.  She didn't come back down so I went to check where she was.  I found her, curled up on the pillows on the bed.  She was out, really out.  

Luke use to take himself to bed as well, he loved bed time.  But the fact that she went out first was what I had to laugh at.  Watching her clear and intended motions, she obviously had a plan.  She never checked on us when she came back in, she head straight upstairs.  What a girl, what a smart girl.  

Holiday season can be exhausting.  Making sure that we all get enough sleep is important.  For some, sleep around activity is difficult.  She's catching up.  

Have a wonderful and safe New Years Eve and New Years Day.  See you in the New Year. 

Capturing dogs at play

What makes a great photograph?  An image that moves you is a great one.  No matter what the image is of or who is in it;  if it moves you in some way then it has done what a photo should.  There are lots of photos that simply represent our day to day; and those are important to have.  But then there are the images that make you stop and feel.  As a photographer, that is what we try to do.

All photographers are different.  Some love to shoot landscape, others architecture, under water, weddings or family.  No matter what the subject, it needs to move the viewer.  You as the viewer know what you like; so even if a photographer has caught a great image it may not be to your taste.  Photographers are as different as us; each has a personal taste for what they like to shoot.  As far as dog photography goes; emotion is a biggy for me.

I love to shoot dogs.  There is so much emotion in dog photography if you focus on the moment.  I love the special moments the most; an emotion shared between two.  Perhaps another dog or a person; a clear and emotional interaction is a moment to capture.  It can be a regular boring time of day but the emotion shared between two, awesome.  

For me, candids are where it's at.  No posing, no set up, no props; just capturing a life moment unfolding naturally.  Of course catching a moment can be tough; practice is where knowing when comes in.  Patience is needed for shooting canines.   Having a passion for what you're shooting helps with patience.   I could literally sit and watch dog from sun up to sun down.  

Some photographers have a good eye, others not so much.  Like anything, there are good and bad photographers.  There are those who can see the moments; while others miss the moments and simple take pictures.  Many photographers have lots of big expensive equipment but miss the mark as far as getting great photos.  

 Capturing great photos is not only done by professional photographers.  If you open up to see the moments, then you can save them.  If a life moment moves you, shoot it.  
  

Every dog is an individual

They may look the same but they are not the same dog.  

Dogs like to go to dog parks, dogs love to ride in the car, dogs love to run, dogs love to chew bones.  Well, maybe some do but not all.  Probably the biggest misconception about dogs is the generalization of the species.  As a highly intelligent, often scary level of intelligence species they are all very, very different.  What one may like, another may hate and vice versa.   

Recently I sat talking dogs to a couple of women at the airport.  They said that they both take their dogs to the dog park regularly; and the both dogs seem to hate it.  Hmmmmmmm, I wondered, why do they keep going back?  Probably because they, like many others think that dogs love the dog park.  A blanket generalization.  Obviously both of their dogs do not enjoy it and would be happier on a nice quiet walk with their guardians.  

Even within the same breed there are huge differences in each individual.  If we take the time to see these differences; we will better understand our dogs and dogs in general.  Being able to see the differences can take time; especially if you see them all as one group of dogs.  Dogs have their own preference for taste in foods; some more than others.  Dogs like to play different things, with different dogs and at different times.  

Some dogs are emotional while others are not.  Luke was a very emotionally sensitive dog; he was forever running to tell me things that had happened.  He was also time and place sensitive.  Meaning that if I tried to give him a snack at a different time and place he was upset by it.  I would be in the middle of cooking and think that he might like a bite.  I'd bring it into the living room where he was resting and offer it.  Even the best morsel of food could throw him for a loop if it was out of the ordinary for him.  He might even have to leave the comfort of the couch because of such a disruption in routine.  He was a funny, funny man.   

Elsa is a much more, go with the flow girl; although she does like familiarity as many dogs do.  She likes almost all foods but definitely has her preferences.  She loves activity and playing with her friends.  She must be touching if we are sitting, sleeping or chilling.  None of my other dogs had to be touching all the time.  Luke enjoyed being right beside me; Tilley like me in sight and little Jessie liked me in sight as well.  

Dogs are not just dogs.  Dogs are all an individual dog who are different from all others.  The difference may be hard to understand at times.  A retriever who does not like to retriever; a German Shepherd who will help a stranger into the house and show them where the goods are.  I've seen new guardians with a Labrador who will not go in the water no matter how hard they try.  

Like us, they are all very different.  Seeing those differences can take practice, patience, a keen eye and desire to get to know the dog inside your dog.  They do not always turn out to be the dog you thought you were getting.  But take a look at us; how different we humans are.  I am one of five and very, very different from all my brothers and sisters.  So are our dogs.  Take the time to get to know your dog.  

Wide open spaces and fences.

I love wide open spaces and I love fences.  Looking out over the rolling hills with open space as far as you can see is good for your soul.  Fences are good for your day to day.  Give me a great, solid and secure fence and I'm a happy k9 Momma.  

We just got a new fence running down the full length of our yard and 4 new gates.  I am happy, happy.  Yesterday Elsa and I spent most of the morning working outside; cleaning up the mess of getting a new fence and putting everything back where it belongs. We could hear a neighbors dogs barking as it listened to Elsa retrieve her ball over and over and over and over again.  After we were done and inside I glanced out the my patio door to admire the fence and saw an intruder.  A scruffy white Jack Russell was in my yard.  Talk about timing.  Elsa and I had literally just come in from cleaning up THE NEW FENCE stuff.  NEW FENCE?  Dog in my yard?

I'd never seen this dog so I put Elsa in my office before she saw the dog and head outside.  I called to the dog and he stopped for an millisecond, glancing up at me.  Hmmmm.  As he wandered I called louder and knelt down, receiving the same response. He didn't seem really friendly so I wasn't keen on grabbing his collar.  I decided instead to hop in the car and check with the houses behind us.  First house I went to was successful.   "Yep, he's ours."  And discovered that I was correct in the "not so friendly" assessment and was glad that I did not grab a hold of him.  

The dog in my yard issue was caused by a newly acquired dog testing the limits of his fence.  Finding a small weak link so to speak he was off on a new adventure; feeling no need to stay where he had been put.  So now we are looking at more new fencing.  Fences are only as good as what they can keep in and out.  The new fence shown above; replaced an old fence that was only being held up by vines.  My dogs have NEVER been the type to want to leave so it was never tested.  All of my dogs over the years just stand at the back door wanting in f they don't want to be in the yard.  None had any intention of leaving. 

If you have a dog that wants to take adventures out of the yard; then it is your job to contain them securely.  Leaving the safety of your yard can be a very dangerous place.  Getting lost forever, stolen, injured or worse are all very high possibilities.  If a fence does not keep your dog in your yard then you must do whatever is needed to keep your dog in your yard.  

We are very lucky as far as our dogs not wanting to leave.  Of course there is a lot involved in that itself; but a fence for my guys can be a tiny marker.  For ease of mind, a good secure fence is a great thing.  Give me a fence and I'm a happy Momma.  

What to get your dog for Christmas

What should we get our dogs for Christmas?  I read an article yesterday claiming that our dogs would give two paws up for a herringbone bow tie.  Honestly, who writes these things?  I had to comment on this proclamation with a resounding, WRONG! 

If our dogs could write a letter to Santa, this is what it might contain.  I can pretty much guarantee than none would have a bow tie on them.  

The list above is general but with a little thought you could read it specifically for your dog.  A coat?  Maybe not if your dog has a great thick coat and it does not get cold where you are.  Boots of course would be for those who really need them as most dogs DO NOT want to wear boots.  But if your dog has to walk on the streets then boots may be essential.  

Toys would be geared to what your dog likes and enjoys.  It could mean some great strong and durable chew toys or a simple ball.  Elsa's favorite toy in the world is her large balls; but she does love a stuffed squeaky toy to play with and destuff.  Lots of shapes, sizes, textures, colors and noises are great to have for your dog.  

More time with the family would no doubt be on all lists; for no matter where a dog lives or who they are, dogs typically want more time with us.  Time is one of the best gifts you can give anyone; including humans and dogs.  A gift of your time will never be tossed aside, re-gifted or returned.  This time of year can get very busy; giving your dog some extra time will always be welcome.  

There are unlimited things to buy for your dog this Christmas; but if you think about what your dog would like, you can give something that your dog will be thankful for.  What does your dog love to do?  Look at gift giving from their perspective and you'll gift with perfection.    

Cross country memories

A photo that pretty much sums up everything from the start; and the cover of book number one.

Around now each year I am flooded with memories from 2011.  This year has brought me fewer memories as I've been very busy with my new and wonderful Grandbabies.  :)  But when I opened up my FB newsfeed this morning, there it was.  A reminder of a not so great time in my life.  What had started out as an exciting and big adventure; very quickly turned into a challenging trip, both physically and emotionally.  

A pile of poodles.  Luke up front, then Elsa and in the back, Tilley.  

So when the temperatures drop, the memories come.  But like anything, time helps to heal wounds; and the further we get away from that time in 2011 the easier it gets.  It gets easier but I will never forget what my son and I went through on our travels across the country with our four dogs.  I am a big believer in the old saying "what doesn't kill you, makes you stronger."  Yep. 

At only 5 months of age, Elsa was amazing on our cross country trip.  

Many life lessons were dealt with on the trip across the country.  Even more once we landed and then headed back again.  Would I do it again?  Given the option of going through everything that we had to deal with? NO.  But like everything with life experience; it is what makes us who we are.  There are many things that we did back then in December 2011 that I would change and do differently.  But at the time I had yet to experience it all, so I didn't have the knowledge that I do now.  

Settled in and just weeks before Tilley passed.  

I look at life differently now and don't like to dwell too much on the past. That is, the past that brings with it bad memories.  One of my favorite sayings that I picked up in early 2012 was "don't look back, we're not going that way."  It's a good one and one that I try to follow.  

The whole ordeal that became two books (PBJ and me, And Back Again) was life altering.  Many of you followed us on our trip there, during and back again.   I tried to blog and share what I could, when I could.  It was a great support to have so many there to share it with.  

You can never be the same after going through something like it.  We lost our little Jack Russell, the matriarch of the canine pack mid trip.  Oklahoma will always have an impactful meaning to it for us.  It is there that we lost our little Jessie at nearly 16 years of age.  Then only weeks later after landing we lost our Lassie in poodle clothing, Tilley at 15.5 years of age.  

Life has a way of teaching us many lessons; some more desirable than others.  We cannot pick and choose, so we take our steps through it; hopefully learning as we go.  Life is a story for each and everyone us; we make our way through it with the decisions that we make daily.  With that comes memories that prepare us for the next part of our story, like it or not.   At this time of year, each year I stop to remember; but try not to dwell on the past. 

Life is a story.