Leadership

Training





Train, trained, training.  Do you, is yours, going to, are you?  Train?

Train:  to develop or form the habits, thoughts, or behavior by discipline and instruction.  To make proficient by instruction and practice, as in some art, profession, or work.
 
So do you?  Do you train your dog?  Training is a funny thing, or perhaps I should say funny word.  Many people think of it as a very official practice; while others think that it is mean and bossy to do.  There are many meanings of the word 'train.'  But when talking about dogs and training; for me it means to offer an education.  Sure our dogs can be trained for a very specific purpose.  Agility, flyball, scent work, search and rescue, guide dog etc etc etc.  But, what about the average 'Joe dog?'  You know the one that is sitting at your feet, beside you on the couch or on your bed?  What about them? 
 
I for one love training.  I love dog behavior so when I can connect a human and canine together in a cohesive manner, it makes me  very happy.  I am continually fascinated how just a little goes a long way.  That is with regards to humans and dogs.  Teaching a human is often be much more difficult than a dog.  Dogs learn through association, humans learn when and if they want to.  Many humans shut down when you discuss the art of training; they don't want to hear it.  Not dogs, dogs love to learn and the only thing you need to do to teach them is to find out what makes them tick, what motivates them. 
 
Every dog is different so training should never be thought of as a science.  There are certain basics to teaching a dog and when you've been doing it for a long time, you hopefully will know them.  That is of course if you are paying attention and open to the learning curve.  If you are a know it all type, then I am sorry to say that your learning curve will be very short and dead ended quite quickly. 
 
Training does not mean that your dog must act as a robot; it does not mean that you are being mean to them by telling them what to do.  Everyday basic training is a way to offer our dogs an easy way to live in our human world.  Without human guidance, our dogs know how to be dogs.  Not all dog behaviors are desirable in our world; that is where we step in and guide.  Training encompasses a whole spectrum of activities; from the tiniest of lessons to full on life saving maneuvers. 
 
Never underestimate the power of training; even the smallest act of guidance can have a huge ripple effect.  Training should never be considered a single act as it is an ongoing process.  Some dogs learn quickly while others need much longer to absorb a lesson.  All dogs are intelligent, it is sad to see a canine mind wasted; never given the chance to thrive in life.  When I ask someone if their dog is trained; they often do not understand the question.  I then say "the basics," do they sit, down, stay on command?  These are the things that dogs should know as a very bottom line basic maneuver training.  Can you move your dog without touching them?  Does your dog understand directions in movement?  It can be very frustrating to a dog to be hauled around by the collar because their owner never took the time to teach them a few movements. 
 
Training is not a bad word; perhaps we should just call it what it is, educating.   

Being a great leader for your dog




Being a good leader does not mean that you are always out front. 

I was reading an article the other day on what makes a great leader.  It was directed at being a leader to other humans but as I dug deeper into it I realized that it is the same qualities that make a good leader for our dogs.  Being a good leader does not mean that you never let your dog do anything that they want, it means that you guide them through.  Without correct guidance, canines can run astray in our very human world.  So many people fail their dogs by not offering guidance.  They don't want to tell their dog what to do; but left to their own a dog can flounder and go down the wrong path. 

A good canine leader

-  listens and watches.

-  knows that it is not all about them.

-  does not know everything and is willing to admit error.

-  knows that compromise works much better than "only my way."

-  will not knowingly set their dog up for failure.

-  does not knowingly place their dog in a bad situation.

-  works on the team aspect of dog and human. 

-  guides with a gentle hand and smart head.

-  understands that ever dog has limits.

-  every dog has strengths and weaknesses and  knows them both. 

-  does not expect what is unobtainable.

-  strives to do better for their dog.

-  knows their own personal weaknesses and strengths, everyone has them. 

-  makes mistakes, but strives to correct them.

-  loves unconditionally. 

-  knows that there are good days and bad. 

-  is open minded, always wanting to know more.

-  will have their dog's back. 

-  will take the blame when something goes wrong.

-  has a kind heart.

-  is one half of an amazing team.


One cannot lead on their own.  To lead is to teach, guide and assist through the day to day.   This list could go on and on but these are the things that came to mind this morning.  Life can be a challenge, more so for our dogs.  With no guidance, no one to lead them it can be even rougher.  Every dog needs a good leader, not just a leader; your dog needs someone on their team.  As I sit here with Elsa snuggled up close and Luke under his blanket deep asleep, I feel lucky.  When I rise they will follow, we are a team, a pack, one.